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Question 1

-reality?

Answer 1

Uhuh, I hear what you’re saying. Is it that the main emotion for you is grief, as you’re stuck between moving on but yet unable to accept reality?

Question 2

looking for.

Answer 2

Ah, I understand this situation is really hard for you. It would be easy for me to sit here and tell you to try this and that, but I know that’s not what you’re looking for.

Question 3

grief?

Answer 3

Mhm…perhaps let’s change up our perspectives. Is there anything lately that has made you feel differently that distracts you from your grief?

Question 4

the boy?

Answer 4

So what I’m hearing is that you want to find out more by following the boy?

Question 5

affecting you?

Answer 5

So do you think this idea is positively or negatively affecting you?

Question 6

\ feel?

Answer 6

Alright…so if you did end up talking to the boy, how would you feel?

Question 7

what I’m hearing?

Answer 7

So it would provide you with some sort of closure and help with self-blame, is what I’m hearing?

Question 8

right now?

Answer 8

How much do you think you can influence the situation right now?

Question 9

appealing to you?

Answer 9

Right.. maybe let’s put it this way. To what extent is approaching the boy appealing to you?

Question 10

backfiring?

Answer 10

But are you also prepared for it backfiring?

Question 11

with the most

Answer 11

I think what’s important is to do what your heart says, what you feel comfortable with the most.

Question 12

acknowledge your determination.

Answer 12

But at the same time, remember even if it doesn’t work out, it’s not your fault. You’ve done all you good to better yourself. Seeking answers even in this grim situation. Gotta remind yourself it’s an accident that no one is at fault and acknowledge your determination.

Question 13

no matter how it would be like?

Answer 13

You’re right. What would the situation be like if you can manage yourself a little better? When you’re willing to confront the boy no matter how it would be like?

Question 14

That’s a good way to see it.

Answer 14

That’s a good way to see it.

Question 15

Or just the fact that you approached him?

Answer 15

So how would you know you have achieved your goal? If the boy is able to sympathize with you and tell you more about what happened? Or just the fact that you approached him?

Question 16

after you approached him?

Answer 16

What do you think you would do differently after you approached him?

Question 17

we did our best.

Answer 17

I’m glad you found and reaffirmed your values. You’re right, a lot of times things are out of our control. What’s important is that we did our best.

Question 18

clarify before you proceed?

Answer 18

I’d be glad to help. I’m hearing that you are seeing positive development in yourself and you know what to do next. Is there anything you want to clarify before you proceed?

Question 19

Do you want to talk about it more?

Answer 19

I’ve noticed you did a projection of your husband’s unwillingness to communicate on the current situation. I’m kinda confused. Does it intertwine with the current situation? Do you want to talk about it more?

Question 20

Do you think it affects your decision in any way?

Answer 20

Do you think it affects your decision in any way?

Question 21

payback and self-fulfillment?

Answer 21

So is this some sort of payback and self-fulfillment?

Question 22

feel about that?

Answer 22

How do you think your son would feel about that?

Question 23

further guilt too.

Answer 23

Yeah… again, it’s important to think that you’ve really done everything you could, and no one is blaming you for anything, so there’s no need for further guilt too.

Question 24

your answers.

Answer 24

So the reflection of your feelings right now is acceptance, peace, yet determination as you look for your answers.

Question 25

clear now

Answer 25

Is your direction more clear now?

Question 26

right now

Answer 26

tell me how you’re feeling right now

Question 27

worse lately

Answer 27

do you think it’s getting better or worse lately