Chapter 16

Question 1

6th Commandment

Answer 1

You shall not commit adultery

Question 2

9th Commandment

Answer 2

You shall not covet your neighbors wife

Question 3

___________ is one of the greatest gifts you can give one another

Answer 3

friendship

Question 4

True friendship imitates ____ for us- he gave his life for us

Answer 4

Jesus’ total love

Question 5

our maleness or femaleness

Answer 5

sexuality

Question 6

God wanted men and women to grow in ________- the total committed love of a man and woman for each other is sealed and protects by the sacred ________.

Answer 6

love and friendship

sacred vows of marriage

Question 7

In Scripture the love of marriage is compared to the love of ____.

Answer 7

Christ for his Church

Question 8

God blesses the union of a man and woman in the _____.

Answer 8

Sacrament of Matrimony

Question 9

Married love includes:
\_\_\_\_\_\_ all things
\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ the other person as they are
Meeting the \_\_\_ and \_\_\_\_\_ of life together
\_\_\_\_\_ the children God sends
Being \_\_\_\_\_\_\_ until death

Answer 9

sharing all things
treasuring the other person
meeting the joys and pains of life together
cherishing the children
being faithful until death

Question 10

How can we prepare for marriage now?

Answer 10

Meet as many people as possible- learn about people, learn how to get along
Practice love on other levels
be generous
learn to sacrifice and forgive
learn to be in control of yourself- in all ways: thoughts, words, actions (including sexually)

Question 11

God given gift by which a married man and woman express and deepen their love and cooperate with God in a new life

Answer 11

Sex

Question 12

Allows a married couple to share in God’s power to create life

Answer 12

sex

Question 13

protected by the unbearable, totally committed bond of marriage

Answer 13

sex

Question 14

gift of self

Answer 14

sex

Question 15

signifies a deep, faithful love

Answer 15

sex

Question 16

comes with responsibilities- nurturing each other, raising a family

Answer 16

sex

Question 17

priests, brothers, and brothers sacrifice this gift to focus their love not just on one person but on all God’s people

Answer 17

sex

Question 18

act of being sexually unfaithful to one’s husband or wife

Answer 18

adultery

Question 19

virtue by which we continuously show respect for our God-given power to bring life into the world

Answer 19

chastity

Question 20

recognize that sexual power is only used in marriage
all people practice this- married and unmarried
to mirror God’s perfect love we must be pure in thoughts, words, actions
Jesus is the perfect model of this

Answer 20

chastity

Question 21

the virtue that helps us choose appropriate dress and behavior so as not to call attention to our sex or ourselves

Answer 21

modesty

Question 22

avoid _____

Answer 22

illusions

Question 23

sex should not be used to ____ ___ or for ______

Answer 23

prove love or for popularity

Question 24

sex should not be used for _________

Answer 24

entertainment

Question 25

using language that is ____, ______, is not showing good, respectful behavior- it is not adult

Answer 25

rude or sexual

Question 26

will help you as a Christian to treat your sexuality with respect

Answer 26

Action Plan

Question 27

Show _______ for yourself- you are loved by God

Answer 27

reverence

Question 28

Practice ____ ______- discipline yourself... learn how to say no... unselfish love wants the best for the other person

Answer 28

self control

Question 29

have a _______ attitude towards sex- be ____ and ______- treat others as people of God, not as objects

Answer 29

have a respectful attitude towards sex- be chaste and modest

Question 30

develop ____ _______ with those who share your values- spend time now preparing for marriage... learn what it means to be a friend, learn to respect people, find out the qualities you admire in others, be the best you can be, spend time with groups of people instead of "single" dating now

Answer 30

healthy friendships

Question 31

Follow a good decision making plan:

Answer 31

``` Define the problem determine possible solutions evaluate how each reflects values take time pray consult adults decide ```