Knowledge IV Flashcards
Push for specifics. Dont get wrapped up defending against their broad statements. Ask for something more specific
Debates
Validation I hear you
Offer justification for feeling an emotion.
Refer to specific emotion and
Wow that would be confusing
He really said that? That would be confusing
I’m so happy for you, you worked incredibly hard, it must feel amazing
Invalidating emotions Dont worry It could be worse It's not that big of a deal It'll be fine (We usually invalidate a bad emotion like anger, fear and jealousy)
Black dragon society
Formed by disgruntled samurai after the meiji restoration they they became a nationalist secret Society that helped push japan into WWII. They pushed for just Asia at first and courted government officials as well as yakuza.
Later take funded black power movements including the nation of Islam to foment revolution. They are rumored to have worked with hitler and rasputin as well.
TAKING THE FIVE PRECEPTS
In Buddhist countries there is a practice that distinguishes ‘lay Buddhists’ from ordinary Buddhists. It is also practiced on Buddhist holidays by serious Buddhists. This practice is the Taking of the Five Precepts.
The five precepts are:
1. Do not take life 2. Do not take what is not given 3. Do not distort facts 4. Refrain from misuse of the senses 5. Refrain from self-intoxication through alcohol or drugs
Self and emptiness- Dali lama
All things are empty because all things are casually linked meaning everything is constantly changing. They are just parts in a causal link. Chandra kierti tells us we grasp at our own ego then we grasp at “mine”.
The self is real but the self we are grasping at is not not real. Were forever changing.
When goodness grows weak. When evil increases. I make myself a body. In every age I come back to deliver the holy, to destroy the sin of the sinner, to establish righteousness, he who knows the nature of my task and my holy birth is not reborn. When he leave this body he comes to me. Flying from fear, from lust and anger, he hides in me, his refuge and safety. Burnt clean in the blaze of my being. In me many find home
bagavad gita
Familiarity
- UX
Light switches and fans are the same design. They are familiar but not intuitive.
Users spend most time using apps other than users.
If it looks like a duck and lts located like the duck, users will think its duck even if labeled otherwise.
Red LEDs are bad indicators because they arent consistent
Learn ability isnt the goal. It’s a consolation prize.
Users shouldn’t think about the UI. It should be invisible
Polyamory
What is love? Its patient, it’s kind, it’s an emotional experience,, means never having to say your sorry, love is a battle friend, finding the souls counterpoint Im another, baby dont hurt me.
Polyamory isnt just for commitment-phobes or sex addicts. People love different sexual orientations and gender identities. Love is love.
Define- love. Now define polyamory.many loves.
“Men honor what lies within the sphere of their knowledge, but do not realize how dependent they are on what lies beyond it.”
Zhuangzi, Chuang Tsu: Inner Chapters
“Everything is sorrow for the wise.”
Patañjali,
“We are not cabin-dwellers, born to a life cramped and confined; we are meant to explore, to seek, to push the limits of our potential as human beings. The world of the senses is just a base camp: we are meant to be as much at home in consciousness as in the world of physical reality.”
bagavad gita
“Feelings of heat and cold, pleasure and pain, are caused by the contact of the senses with their objects. They come and they go, never lasting long. You must accept them.”
bagavad gita
Validate all emotion -I hear you
You can validate any emotion even if you dont agree. You dont need to agree you can still be curious until the get it all out. “That sounds super frustrating “
Picture them as a child. Think about all the things that must have happened between them between then and now
New human rights movement
Inequality is built intrinsically part of the system. Human suffer, starvation and death are not only built into the system in which in order for someone to win, other have to loose.
Russell brand complement
When you get a complement, accept the compliment then give the complement back. Thanks so much and you look spectacular today as well.
Strategy is not a lengthy action plan
There is no paint by numbers approach.
Strategy is not a lengthy action plan. It’s the evolution of a central idea thought continually changing circumstances.
Absolute certainty of perfect is very charismatic.
Eye contact and every long handshake.
Strategy is not a lengthy action plan
There is no paint by numbers approach.
Strategy is not a lengthy action plan. It’s the evolution of a central idea thought continually changing circumstances.
Absolute certainty of perfect is very charismatic.
Eye contact and every long handshake.
“Men don’t settle down, we surrender. You gotta surrender eventually because you don’t want to be old man in the club. Commitment might give you a headache but new pussy will clear it right up”
chris rock
Polyamorous
Your lover needs to be your best freind, romance novel beloved, kinky play partner, co parent, therapist, caretaker, personal trainer, support group facilitator, parent at times
You are never enough for everyone’s needs. One person can fill all your needs. Let them fill needs you cant or wont fulfill separately.
Craft relationships that fit you life rather than visa versa
2.8 million people died in 200 of preventable social causes and racism. Rich people have 13 years of life on average poor people have a 50 percent higher chance of developing heart disease. Stress, bad diets, obesity contributes. It’s not just below the poverty line. It’s a gradient. The people lion the bottom have a 4x higher chance of death. In the middle it 2x as high.
New human rights movement
Neil Degrase Tyson
It’s not enough to be right, you also have to be effective. You can say this how the world should be but if you dont have a plan to enact it go home.
Civil rights movement- researchers explain mass action with no tangible reward as being encouraged by shame of not participating. It’s harder however to account for leaders and first followers when then movement gets going.
Civil rights movement
Time and space are categories imposed on the universe by your mind.
(Dune)
Assassins
Taught about cult mysteries and schooled in Aristotles teaching. Learn islam was just a dim reflection of what was true.
6th degree were introduced to god of time or chronos
7th degree- learned creation and destruction were one and good an evil were mere illusions
8th degree- true god was a nameless and not to be worshiped. Nothing was true and everything was permitted. There was no god , or heaven or hell
Saba made a carefully constructed garden, he would drug followers and let them wake up in ‘heaven’. He then would drug them again and tell them to follow him to return back to the heaven.