PSY311 4. Attachment Flashcards
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What is Emotional Attachment?
John Bowlby (1969) – the strong affectional ties
that we feel for key people in our lives
– Characterized by mutual affection and a desire for
proximity
• Reciprocal relationships
– Formed by synchrony between mother and baby
• “Sensitive period” hypothesis
– Not true, attachment builds gradually over the first
years of life
What is Emotional Attachment?
spend a lot of time together and learn more about each other
strong emotional bonds are built
for a rhythm where the mother learns about the babies’ needs and when they need it
sensitive period: need skin to skin contact to form an attachment immediately after birth
adoptive children can still form secure attachment
not form in the first few minutes or days - continuous process that goes on for months to a year forming a synchronicity
What is Emotional Attachment?
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What is Emotional Attachment?
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
One theory - “I love you because you feed me”
– Freud and Erikson (psychoanalysis)
• oral stimulation, trust vs. mistrust
– Sears (behaviorism)
• mother as secondary reinforcer
• Harlow and Zimmerman (1959)
– Baby monkeys weaned by two surrogate mothers – one
wire and the other cloth
• Even monkeys who were fed by wire mother preferred cloth
mother
• Therefore comfort is more important for attachment than
feeding
Why Does Attachment Happen?
-Freud: infants get satisfaction from the mouth
stronger bond to mother if mother was generous and relaxed in breastfeeding
Erikson: trust vs. mistrust stage - mother’s responsiveness was more important
Sears: feeding was important - 1) baby gives off positive responses when breastfeeding (makes mother more attached) + 2) mother provides baby comfort (food, warmth, tender touching, soothing voice) and becomes associated with comforting things
Harlow: interested in love and attachment
disproves that attachment occurs because of feeding
Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Harlow’s Monkeys
-Wire mother vs comfort mother for monkeys
feeling of security and comfort from mother
wire monkey chose comfort mother
Harlow’s Monkeys
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Harlow’s Monkeys
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
• Another theory (ethology) - “I was born to love you,
you were made to love me”
– Purpose of attachment is to promote survival
• Imprinting in geese, for example
• Babies look and act adorable
– Bowlby – “attachment behaviour system”
Why Does Attachment Happen?
-Ethology: long range purpose is for baby to survive and pass off genes
research started with animal studies - Lorenz
imprinting is an adaptive behaviour
Kewpie bond effect: chubby cheeks, small size, smiling, cooing makes them adorable
true for any species
attachment behaviour system: all working together to form attachment (enjoyment of taking care of child and belief they are doing a good job)
Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Why Does Attachment Happen?
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Does this Mean that Attachment in
Humans is Automatic?
• John Bowlby said that:
Human beings are biologically prepared to form
close attachments
but
Secure emotional bonds will not develop unless
mother and baby learn over time how to respond
appropriately to each other
Does this Mean that Attachment in
Humans is Automatic?
-secure attachments occur gradually as they learn how to react appropriately to each other
learn how to regulate their behaviour around each other
it can go wrong (depressed mothers)
Does this Mean that Attachment in
Humans is Automatic?
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Does this Mean that Attachment in
Humans is Automatic?
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The Beginning of Attachment ResearchThe Beginning of Attachment Research
• Robertson and Bowlby (1952) at the Tavistock clinic in
London
– Identified three phases of separation from mothers
1) Protest phase
2) Phase of despair
3) Detachment phase
The Beginning of Attachment Research
at the time it was normal to leave children for long periods
Case Study John 17 months - residential nursery for 9 days
distressed for several days - became despair
John became emotionally detached
2) mourning
3) defence mechanism - repression-
The Beginning of Attachment Research
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The Beginning of Attachment Research
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