Behavior Q&A Flashcards
Describe a time when you MOTIVATED yourself to complete an assignment or task that you DID NOT feel like doing.
Situation: In my role, I was tasked with informing an excellent candidate that we had chosen another candidate with more experience for the position.
Task: Despite not feeling like making this call, I knew it was important to handle the situation professionally and empathetically.
Action: To motivate myself, I put myself in the candidate’s shoes, imagining how I would want to be treated in the same situation. I then mentally prepared myself by counting down from three and telling myself to “just do it.”
Result: By taking this approach, I made the call with empathy and professionalism, ensuring the candidate felt respected and valued despite the outcome.
Describe a time when you MOTIVATED yourself to complete an assignment or task that you DID NOT feel like doing.
I am ACTIVE & SELF-MOTIVATED; however, there are times when I run out of steam. During those times, I remind myself that of the SFD or PFD (poopy 1st Draft). Once I have initiated a task, I always feel better and can perform as expected.”
Tell us about a time when you had a difficult decision to make, and how you ended up making the decision
*had to decide if I would move into Human Resources or stay working with the controller of the company. I made a pro/con list and decided that the pro’s (including how much I enjoy helping people-which lol helps me understand self) outweighed the cons. I also looked forward to working with the HR Director and being able to continue to learn about the company. I wanted to help train people & ended up creating trainings on topics like harassment, recruitment, and benefits
Tell us about a time when you had a difficult decision to make, and how you ended up making the decision
With Avalon I often had to decide between hiring one candidate or another. My boss gave me the final decision with CNAs even though I would interview with the CNA supervisor present. I would always take the supervisor’s opinion into account and we rarely disagreed. However, we had a candidate who mentioned he had ALMOST gotten into a fistfight at his last job. I held firm in protecting the company even though the CNA supervisor said that his references were amazing. I felt that another candidate was a better fit and choice because of the red flag.
Tell me what you do when an employee says that someone is disrespecting them with NOT their words but their actions.
I asked EE:
How you can maintain your integrity and make generous assumptions about this person’s motivations/intentions/behaviors?
A generous assumption would be that he/she is hurting/struggling.
Maybe we start by taking to them about what has changed and if they’re ok. THEN we ask for behavior we want see!
How did you handle an employee relations conflict?
I understand that there is a lot of conflict between you & another team members. This is a stressful project & it’s miserable for us all to work under this constant tension. It’s not sustainable.
Can you tell me what you are going thru & how I can support you? Ok—thanks for talking to me & that is hard. The company needs you to clean it up by next week or we will need to suspend you. What is your preference & please tell me how I can support you.
Integrity is
choosing COURAGE over COMFORT
Integrity is
Choosing what is RIGHT over what is fun, FAST or EASY
Integrity is
Choosing my values OVER simply professing them
Being HONEST about the stories we’re making up & that there might be something going on that I/we don’t fully understand
vs
hiding fears
acting on ANGER or SELF-protective impulses
Boundary example
It’s NOT ok to blow me off when I ask for your help
Shame is much more likely to be the cause of destructive behavior THAN the cure!!!
Guilt and empathy are the emotions that lead us to ? how our actions affect other people. Both GUILT & EMPATHY are severely diminished by the presence of SHAME>
Think about a difficult boss, professor, or coworker. How did you successfully interact with this person?
Luckily I’ve never had a difficult boss. I’ve LOVED my bosses. However, I did once work w/ an employee who was the niece of a supervisor and I received complaints about that employee HARD 2 work w/ & under the protection of her Aunt. I worked with the employee to praise the niece on the things she was doing well. I worked with her to build up the confidence to ask for the behaviors that she needed the niece to step-up with.
The meaning of the phrase “everyone is a leader”
- means we all can decide to step forward and be responsible for what is going on around us.
*In successful organizations, being a leader isn’t just about people managing others. Instead, it’s about helping to make everyone on your team a leader.
Hold people accountable for their actions in a way
that acknowledges their humanity. It isn’t easy but WE CAN require accountability while also EXTENDING YOUR COMPASSION.
Leaders must either invest a reasonable amount of time attending to fears and feelings, or
OR squander an unreasonable amount of time trying to manage ineffective and unproductive behavior.
Assuming the best about others
can fundamentally change my life!!
People learn how to treat us
based on how we treat ourselves!
*If I don’t put a value on my work or my time, neither will the person I’m helping. Boundaries are a function of self-respect and self-love.
We can’t RISE STRONG when
when We’re On the Run
What did Nelson Mandela say about Resentment?
Mandela said “Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.”
CALM is equally contagious as anxiety
Take a few DEEP BREATHS & GET CURIOUS
Transformational - One of my fav leadership styles
This type of leadership requires offering a grand vision and rallying your employees around it.
What qualities should a team leader have?
Acknowledgment, appreciation and giving due credit
Active listening
Showing commitment
Having a clear vision
Investing in the team’s future
Acting with integrity
Acting objectively
MOTIVATING OTHERS
What did you dislike about your previous job?
W/ H4U, I told my HR director that I wished we provided more training or development to all employees. So, I suggested it and ended up providing training to managers on performance discipline and training on fraud, water abuse, benefits& SH 2 employees.
I suggested more social events to strengthen the team at my hospice job & we had a Wellness Challenge.
Are there new industry trends that could benefit our company?
*Financial Wellness training to employees
*Communicating/Educating on Benefits (max out of pocket)
*People Analytics
*Upskilling and Reskilling for Competitive Edge
How would you describe your personality?
*openness
*conscientious (careful & diligent)
*extroversion
*agreeableness
*emotional stability (do not let their emotions dictate their behavior & find a way to appropriately express their emotions)
What do you look for in a manager?
*Someone I can come to and make sure that I’m meeting goals
*active listener
*transparent / candid
*good at focusing me on CHANGING COMPANY GOALS
*respect
*someone who might enjoy talking about HR law cases every few months
Share some of your long-term career goals
*keep up w/ HR laws
*Obtain my SPHR
*Continue to grow as a trainer/communicator
*Maybe get my master’s degree by the time I’m 55
Are there any tasks that you dislike?
I don’t enjoy firing people but I know it’s sometimes necessary. Letting someone go might be what is best for them in the end as well.
I once had a boring class & a cheap $30 standing desk helped me to stay focused. I also fight off fear of NEW learning w/ flashcards.
The DIRTY YES
Friend tells you yes to your face & then goes behind your back & say NO
*similar to backchannel meetings
Describe a time when you provided ADMINISTRATIVE SUPPORT for people operations. What tasks did you handle, and HOW did you ENSURE ACCURACY & EFFICIENCY in your responsibilities?
To ensure accuracy w/ records, I cross-checked data entries with different sources to verify employee details.
To enhance efficiency W ee benefits,I created standardized templates for benefit communication, reducing response time and ensuring consistent information delivery.
Describe a time when you provided ADMINISTRATIVE SUPPORT for people operations. What tasks did you handle, and HOW did you ENSURE ACCURACY & EFFICIENCY in your responsibilities?
For offboarding, I followed a checklist to terminate access, update records, and process final payments efficiently.