lect 5 cont - adulthood, communication, etc Flashcards

1
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do hetero men value physical attraction more than hetero women

A

yes

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2
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what is considered attractive in women

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symmetry, body size, proportions, facial attractiveness

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3
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sexual selection

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think darwin naturla selection.
when one sex prefers a certain charcteristic there becomes more people with those traits in future generations.
passing on a reproductive advantage

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4
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parental investment theory

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women have a greater minimal obligatory investment (9mo)
for women the consequences of a poor mating decision can be much worse
women are choosier becasue of the higher stakes for them

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5
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sexual strategies theory (male)

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key issues for men: choosing which women are able to reproduce. to do this they rely on cues that are realted to fertility such as the waist to hip ratio. they also minimize their commitment level and may want to sleep with others.

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sexual strategies theory (female)

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key issues for women: they are more choosy. they want a partner who is committed and can invest resources.

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7
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social factors of attraction

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culture. our culture influences who we are attracted to

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8
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T/F

on average women tend to rate appearacnce as less important than men do

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true

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9
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what do women prefer in sexual partners

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taller (confidence, power, strength), muscularity

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10
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is there variation in what a women finds attractive depending on what part of her cycle she is in

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yes

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11
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what do men find attractive in sexual partners

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younger women, larger breasts, thinner

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12
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what waist to hip ratio do men prefer

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0.7

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13
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what waist to shoulder ration do women prefer in men

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0.75 or lower

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14
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facial sexual dimorphism

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we have a prefrence for traits that show maturation.

women: big eyes, small nose, small chin, full lips
men: strong jaw, forehead

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15
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facial averaging

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taking many different faces and averaging them into one. it is seen that we prefer the averaged face over any of the indiv faces

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16
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does personality impact attractiveness

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yes. if shown a picture and told either the person has good, bad, or neutral personality, the people who were said to have good will get better rating than the same person but said to have bad personality.

17
Q

is there a genetic factor to what we like

A

no

18
Q

choosing sexual partner

A

men and women are more alike in their chocies

19
Q

what non physical traits are looked for in a partner for marriage

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women: trustworthy and sensitive
men: sensitive and trustworthy

20
Q

what are key predictors of partner choice

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proximity and familiarity.

how close they are to you, as well as how often you see them

21
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3 factors in partner choice

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similarity, homophily (contact with people of similar status), ethnicity

22
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what other 2 factors can physical attractivenes be associated with

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SES and education

23
Q

reciprocal liking

A

we like who likes us

24
Q

triangular theory of love

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3 fundamental components: intimacy, passion, commitment

25
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intimacy, passion, commitment details

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intimacy: emotional component
passion: physical attraction and drive for sexual expression
commitment: short term is love, long term is commitment to maintain

26
Q

what is most associated with sexual satisfaction

A

intimacy

27
Q

high intimacy + passion

A

romantic love

28
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high intimacy + commitment

A

compassionate love

29
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high passion + commitment

A

fatuous love

30
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sternberg’s love theory

A

we all have a proposed idea in our mind of what love looks like. he had 25 common stories.

31
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what are the 4 horsemen of apocalypse (Gottman)

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criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stone walling