Personal Relationships Flashcards

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A phenomenon that many people think is easy to define yet complicated to explain. There is no single absolute definition of it. We can find many definitions of love from many sources based on cognitive, behavioral, and emotional.

A

Love

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2
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Physiological desire.

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Passion

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3
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One can share all one’s thoughts and actions with another.

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Intimacy

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4
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Willingness to stay.

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Commitment

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5
Q

WHAT ARE THE THREE

BASIC COMPONENTS OF LOVE BY ROBERT JEFFREY STERNBERG?

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Passion, Intimacy, Commitment

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6
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Love at first sight.

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Infatuation (Passion)

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7
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Create the experience of warmth.

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Liking (Intimacy)

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8
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Long-term and stagnant relationships.

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Empty Love (Commitment)

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9
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The commitment made on the basis of passion.

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Fatuous Love (Passion & Commitment)

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10
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Not only drawn physically to each other but are also bonded emotionally.

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Romantic Love (Intimacy & Passion)

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11
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An intimate, non-passionate type of love that is stronger than friendship.

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Companionate Love (Intimacy and Commitment)

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12
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The complete form of love.

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Consummate Love (Passion, Intimacy, Commitment)

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13
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A simple admiration for someone else which is often mistaken as love.

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Infatuation

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14
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  • “crush” or “puppy love”

* Seldom last long.

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Simple Infatuation

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15
Q
  • Mistaken for “romantic love”.
  • Not the same as being in love.
  • Strange mix of lust and emotions.
  • May develop into love.
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Romantic Infatuation

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16
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Strong tender feelings for another are balanced by reason and deep respect. Love entails a lot of sacrifices.

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Real Love

17
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ENUMERATE THE MANIFESTATIONS OF A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

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  • Make decisions together.
  • Have friends and interests outside the relationship.
  • Open and honest communication.
  • More good times than bad.
18
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ENUMERATE THE MANIFESTATIONS OF AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

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  • Tries to change the other.
  • One makes most of the decisions.
  • Drop friends & interests outside of the relationship.
  • Tend to yell, threaten, hit or throw things.
  • Make fun of the other’s opinions.
  • Keep track of the other.
19
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This is when the other person is being abusive to his/her partner.

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Dating Violence

20
Q

5 SIGNS THAT YOUR PARTNER IS VIOLENT

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  • Jealous or possessive
  • Blames other people that’s wrong
  • Damages a partner’s thing
  • Wants to control
  • Posts embarrassing information
21
Q

ENUMERATE THE EFFECTS OF DATING VIOLENCE

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  • Depression
  • Low self-confidence
  • Eating disorders
  • Drug or alcohol abuse
22
Q

HEALTHY DATING TIPS

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  • Avoid too much physical contact
  • Date in public places
    • Invite other friends if possible
  • Inform someone of your whereabouts
23
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WAYS TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

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  1. Don’t be totally consumed by each other.
  2. Support each other.
    • Be a good listener.
    • Offer encouragement.
    • Provide a safe place.
  3. Practice forgiveness.
  4. Develop better communication.
    • Don’t use directive language.
    • Relay your expectations.
    • Say “please”
    • Fight fair.
  5. Find small ways to serve each other.
24
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THINGS THAT MUST BE DONE INDEPENDENTLY

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  1. Make good on your own words.
  2. Take responsibility for your own happiness.
  3. Be loyal.
  4. Be realistic.
  5. Admit your mistakes.
  6. Listen to your partner.
  7. Encourage him/her.
  8. Express your feelings.
    • Tell him/her about your problem.
    • Safe to open up.
    • Don’t be afraid to lose him/her every minute.