Section 3: Conflict

Question 1

Conflict definition

Answer 1

disagreement b/w 2 interdependent pp who perceive they have incompatible goals

Question 2

Four “I’s” of conflict

Answer 2

• Interdependent (“breeding ground for it)
• Inevitable (where there’s interdep.)
• Incompatible goals (perceived)
• Interaction (“ball & chain”)

Question 3

Conflict results in constructive & destructive outcomes

Answer 3

Destructive = hurt ea other, not learn or improve

Constructive = new ways of being together, reinforces commitment

Question 4

The way partners manage conflict..

Learning to manage it constructively is imperative for..

Answer 4

is a BETTER predictor of relational satisfaction!

long-term satisfying relationships

Question 5

Diff types of relationships and conflict topics

Answer 5

1. Parent-child = control issues (2yrs/ teen
2. Siblings = shared resources
3. Roommate = privacy, chores
4. Romantic = (1) criticism, $, chores

Most conflicts occurs in romantic relationships

Question 6

General conflict areas

homo- and hetero-

Answer 6

• Power: lack of equality, excessive demands
• Social issues: politics and society
• Personal flaws: grooming, driving, drink
• Distrust: previous lovers, lying
• Physical intimacy: sex, lack affection
• Distance: physical absence, school