SOCIAL ETIQUETTE/ MANNERS Flashcards

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is about considering the feelings
of other people, and being the kind of person that others will like and
respect.

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good manners

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What Are Etiquettes?

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  • They are a set of rules forms and practices established for behavior in the
    society or in professional life.
  • They are rules of good workplace
    manners.
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why etiquette is needed

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  • We need etiquettes to grow in life
  • If someone lacks an understanding of basic etiquette, he might feel uncomfortable in social situations.
  • With this discomfort, he might experience embarrassment or nervousness that puts him at a disadvantage.
  • With a solid foundation in etiquette and
    manners, a person can feel strong and confident,
    even in new or unfamiliar situations.
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Where etiquette is required?

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  • Personal Matters
  • Family Matters
  • Schools, College and Office
  • Environment
  • It is required for Career Success.
  • It builds leadership quality in
    one’s personality.
  • It refines skills needed for
    exceptional service
  • It enlightens one’s potential.
  • It creates an impression
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types of etiquettes

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  • Social etiquettes
  • Business etiquettes
  • Phone etiquettes
  • Email etiquette
  • Table etiquette
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The ability to translate good
manners into social life. It will
allow you to put your best foot
forward in dealing with day-to-
day social demands

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social etiquettes

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2 categories of social etiquettes

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Personal etiquettes
* Family etiquettes

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personal etiquettes

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Personal Hygiene
* Skin
* Hair
* Hands Nails
* Tooth
* Feet
* Shoes
* Hose
* Uniform
* Jewellery

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personal etiquettes

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Dress Codes
* Informal
* Formal
* Simplicity
* Sense of Taste
* Fitting In Color Blending
* Accessories
* Dressing for Occasions

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personal etiquettes

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Postures
* Sitting
* Standing
* Talking while standing
* Good Posture
* Impatience
* Sitting in Groups
* Mind & Soul
* Thoughts
* Habits
* Character
* Attitudes

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mind and soul

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Mind and Soul
* Thoughts
* Habits
* Character
* Attitudes

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  • empathy
  • sympthy
  • responsibility
  • respect
  • status
  • heredity
  • rights
  • good will
  • mutuaality
  • advantages
  • disadvantages
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family etiquette

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  • Being helpful to others in
    your home
  • saying
    *‘please’ and
    *‘thank you’
    *“welcome”
  • sharing, and not grabbing
    and keeping good things
    to yourself
  • respecting other people’s property and
    their rooms
  • Helping the family by doing your
    chores
  • cleaning up after yourself
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good manners at home

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  • ask if you can borrow or have something, not just taking without asking permission
  • returning things that you have
    borrowed
  • waiting your turn before you speak
  • holding the door open
    for the person coming
    in, especially if he is carrying
    something
  • respecting your own and other people’ property, epecially school property
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manners in school

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  • Always wear your seat belt and insist
    that your passengers do.
  • Never drink and drive. These safeguards
    are the most thoughtful acts of all as
    they can save lives.
  • Driving a car requires your full attention.
    Distractions, such as putting on makeup,
    snacking, using your iPod, texting, or
    chatting on a cell phone, interfere with
    your ability to respond physically and
    mentally.
  • Signal your intentions. Using your turn
    signals before turning a corner or
    switching lanes is a must.
  • Drive at the speed limit.
    Driving too slowly can also
    cause accidents.
  • Keep some distance
    between you and the car
    ahead of you. Tailgating is
    both aggressive and a sure
    way to rear-end someone
    who stops suddenly.
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good manners in cars

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driving dont’s

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  • Individual drivers have their own
    particular pet peeves, but the following
    behaviors by either aggressive or
    clueless drivers can aggravate even
    patient drivers:
  • Blocking the passing lane for more than
    a reasonable amount of time.
  • Speeding up when you’re being passed.
  • Driving in the breakdown lane to pass a
    long line of stopped traffic.
  • Daydreaming at a stoplight after it turns
    green.
  • Making left turns from the right
    lane, or vice versa.
  • Not using turn signals.
  • Creeping along while talking on
    a cell phone.
  • “Blocking the box,” or becoming
    stuck in the middle of an
    intersection.
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  • Be on time
  • Wait to sit until host/hostess
    indicated the seating arrangement
  • Stand on the right side of your chair
    and enter from your left
  • Put your napkin on your lap
  • Don’t eat with your mouth full
  • Keep one hand in your lap unless
    you are eating European style
  • Remove anything from your mouth
    with the same implement that it
    went in with (except bones)
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manners in dinning etiquette

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  • Eat at a moderate speed
  • Try to maintain some polite
    dinner conversation
  • Never medicate yourself at the
    table
  • If you must leave the table,
    place your napkin on your chair
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Dining Etiquette

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MANNERS DURING BEREAVEMENT

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  • Sharing a fond memory” of the
    person who passed will help the
    grieving focus on happier times
  • Avoid platitudes that can perceived
    as insensitive, like “He’s in a better
    place,” and “The pain will lessen in
    time.” Don’t ask how the person
    died, or tell the bereaved you know
    how they feel. There’s also “no use
    questioning the medical care, or
    what could have been done
    differently,” “I think there’s power
    in just a smile, a hug, a pause.”
  • While black is the traditional
    color of mourning and a safe
    option, it’s not the only color
    you may choose,” “Grey, blue,
    and eggplant are other choices.”
    “A funeral is not the time to
    make a bold fashion
    statement…be subtle and
    tasteful.”
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  • Different religions and cultures
    have different funeral customs;
    Do some research online or call
    the house of worship. And be
    prepared, says Swann, “to do as
    the Romans do.” In other words,
    “do your best to join in and take
    part in the service” no matter
    how different it is from your
    own traditions.
  • Sympathy cards and food are
    good ideas. “Often there are out
    -of-town family and friends that
    come in for the funeral and a
    meal that is easy to reheat is
    always a plus,”
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BEREAVEMENT AND FUNERALS

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As tempting as it may be, don’t take
photos of long-lost relatives or
friends you haven’t seen for a while,.
“It may be a happy occasion to
reconnect, even under difficult
circumstances, but don’t let the
bereaved see you behaving as if you
are at a graduation party, rather
than a funeral. And going up to the
coffin and snapping a picture is not
appropriate.” Likewise, skip the
social media posts.
* Never, ever answer your cell for
a call

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BEREAVEMENT AND FUNERALS

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dating etiquette

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  • Eye contact is crucial when
    dating, so it is good
    etiquette to provide as
    much attention as possible
    to your date. She should feel
    as if she’s the only person in
    the room.
  • Be a listener and do not
    talk her to death.
  • Listening shows interest
    and the ability to
    compromise. If your idea
    of a date is talking about
    yourself and your
    opinionsall night then do
    her a favor and stay
    home
  • Be courteous and complimentary
  • Your date has made an effort for
    you and your personal opinions
    aren’t quite welcome at this
    stage
    Also, always turn up for a date unless you
    have given plenty of time for it to be
    cancelled.
  • Standing her up is not appropriate
    adult behavior.
    -Try to turn up on time and don’t keep
    your date waiting. If your transportation
    is unreliable, get going in plenty of time.
    Being punctual shows respect and
    responsibility.
  • Try to avoid being
    opinionated or arrogant on
    a date and also avoid
    discussions about politics
    and religion
  • Don’t be rude to others on a date.
  • You should aim to display a pleasant
    personality so arguing about a
    service charge or whether the wine
    is chilled enough will make you
    look like a fool.
    In terms of appearance, make an effort to
    dress well as there is no excuse not to.
  • Poor appearance displays
    laziness and contributes
    greatly to negative self
    promotion.