Study Questions Flashcards
Many young people are blank and don’t feel the immediate need to seek help for life’s problems.
Individuating
For counselors who decide to minister to youth in our society, many hours can be spent, blank blank banging one’s head against the wall.
Figuratively speaking
Counseling youth can be difficult, due in part to: the blank blank between the client and the counselor; and blank blank that youth develop towards adults; the blank blank youth face trying to find their identity; and the fear of being blank.
Age disparity; inherent distrust; spiritual struggles; different.
Even in the midst of the world that only gives “blank blank,” this population is eager for direction and truth.
Gray truths
Through individual, family, group therapy and the use of the A. P. S., youth can be helped with blank and blank relationships, as well as those with authority.
Interpersonal, family
Youth ask many questions when they begin a counseling relationship. A few of those questions are:
Do you accept me? Do I matter? Do you care about me or love me? Is this Jesus stuff real? Does faith in Jesus stuff work?
In counseling youth, the greatest asset a counselor can have is the ability to maintain a positive regard through a blank blank.
Christ-like spirit.
This population only wants to know that they blank to blank, and innately desires to learn that they blank to blank.
Matter, counselor, matter, God.
A word of caution to those who would choose this path: understand that many times you, the counselor, might not see the blank blank of your ministry to this population.
Immediate benefit
Young people began to show signs of maturing blank about the age of 11.
Physically
This struggle for identity continues throughout much of adolescence and is referred to by Eric Erickson as an “blank blank.”
Identity crisis
At the age of blank the young person is well on his or her way to becoming an adult.
13
Parrot identifies seven common paths to finding identity: blank blank, blank blank, “blank-blank” blank, rebellion, others opinions, idols and cliquish exclusion.
Family relations, status symbols, “grown-up” behavior
Educating parents about what to expect from the child’s normal development cycles will aid them in not blank at this very crucial time.
Disconnecting
“Should a young person feel that the environment tries to blank him too radically of all the forms of expression which permit him to develop and integrate, he may resist with wild strength encountered in animals who are suddenly forced to defend their lives.”
Deprive
Counselors have a great call to accept the youths blank blank, and through training, tools, and the Holy Spirit, to walk alongside a youth to bring their life in order.
Developmental level
The blank stage is a normal part of teen development.
Grunt
Developing youth want to explore the possibilities of the world but also want to know their parents are still there to blank them if they need it.
Help
When counseling youth, the counselor should be very aware of the “blank blank” world in which young people live.
“Not fair”
Trying to help young people with blank blank skills in early adolescence is one of the most difficult tasks
Decision making
As the youth reaches 13 and more so at 14, he or she is developing the ability to think blank.
Abstractly
Girls are usually ahead of boys blank.
Developmentally
Middle blank is time between the ages of 141/2 years old to around 16.
Adolescence
He or she is self – involved, vacillating between a blank self – image and a self – image of blank high expectations.
Poor, unrealistically
In blank blank there is an even greater reliance on the youths peer group
Middle adolescence
It is typical to have blank that are “on again off again,” constantly evolving or even ending.
Relationships
Satan promotes the “blank” aspects of God’s creation of sex and sexual development to entice humans – especially our youth – to experiment.
Mystery
Counselors who counsel youths of the opposite sex are strongly cautioned to resist discussion of blank blank with the client, other than asking if the youth is sexually active, because that fact is a blank blank.
Sexual activity,treatment issue
In the area of spiritual development, the middle adolescent begins to question and challenge the blank blank of their parents to the point that they may even doubt the existence of God.
Religious practices
Blank blank is evidenced by a more definitive development of identity.
Late adolescence
Psychologist Eric Erickson theorized that a person must move through the following four development stages on his or her way to identity: blank, blank, blank, and blank.
Trust, autonomy, initiative, industry.
Industry is characterized by the youth’s realizing that he or she alone must take responsibility for blank blank, and for the quality of the work he or she displays in achieving those goals.
Setting goals
Blank and blank late adolescents show and internalization of beliefs, values, and morals.
Spiritually and socially
Past blank or blank and blank problems that impede normal development are to be treated through effective counseling and temperament therapy.
Trauma or mental and emotional
According to the national Institute of mental health, “in the US 1 in blank children and adolescents suffer from mental illness severe enough to cause some level of impairment.
10
Blank percent of adolescents in the US suffer from depression.
20
Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder
(ADHD) is present in an estimated blank to blank percent of school age children.
3-5
A goal in counseling anyone is to help the counselee come to blank, blank, and blank according to Psalm 139:13–14.
Believe, embrace, and live
Helping the youth to live, knowing how fearfully and wonderfully made he or she is, requires blank, blank, blank, blank and blank.
Love, acceptance, discipline, training, and patience
In counseling youth, the counselor must recognize his or her own blank and blank.
Strengths and weaknesses.
“God does not call the blank but qualifies the called.”
Qualified
Counselors who deal with young people are often tempted to try to blank blank.
Quantify success
If the counselor has a chance to except a youth as a client and take the time to know them and bless them, he will understand that working with the youth is truly a “blank blank.”
“Noble call”
In nearly every text on counseling youth, there is support for the premise that counselees make more progress when the counselors are blank, blank, and blank.
Warm, genuine, and empathetic.
Through temperament therapy, the counselor will examine his own temperament and be more aware of those areas that might cause a blank when dealing with the youth.
Reaction
A counselor’s self – disclosure to a youth should happen when it is blank to the counselees situation, and when the counselee has been brought through with some victory.
Relevant
Young people are not typically ready to openly share with adults, blank blank.
Especially strangers
The counselor should meet with the parent or guardian to discuss their concerns and have the proper blank blank signed.
Release forms
The parent or guardian should be blank of their role in the counseling process.
Apprised
… So great care should be used when explaining issues of blank to the parent or guardian.
Confidentiality
Young people desire, and even crave, a relationship that is blank and blank,…
Genuine and accepting
Certainly, the goal is not for the counselor to blank like a blank, but rather to allow young people to act their age.
Behave, youth
The young person has an blank blank to know and understand that the counselor will listen to his issues, and protect him from harm.
Essential desire
The preadolescent and adolescent want to exercise their blank, while at the same time remain confident that there is someone nearby to protect them.
Independence
The counselor needs to be able to recognize blank blank as a manifestation of something the young person is trying to portray or protect.
Irregular behavior
An examination of the blank blank of temperament, allows people and counselors to minimize unnecessary anxiety in daily living.
Unmet needs
Blank theory acknowledges God’s creative power and deity, through understanding that his hands made and formed each person. Psalm 199:73
Temperament
Temperament is the basis of our “blank blank.”
Inner self
Blank is the self – selected behavior – based on the prior behavior – that produces blank or blank results.
Personality,Positive or negative
Temperament helps them identify the “blank blank” of drinking problems, eating disorders, drug involvement, and relationship problems, etc.
“Red flags”
Temperament is divided into three specific areas “blank blank and blank.
Inclusion, control, and affection
Blank is the part of temperament where a person has relationships, or interpersonal actions with surface relationships.
Inclusion
The blank area of temperament is the area that identifies who has the power in relationships, with whom the decision making rest.
Control
The blank area of temperament deals with the love, affection, and approval a person expresses and desires
Affection
When the needs of a blank are not met, consistent with God’s desire, we experience blank.
Temperament, anxiety
When succumbing to temperament weaknesses, blank and even blank behavior develops to fill this void, thus factoring God out.
Maladaptive and destructive
The blank helps young people learn and delight in how God made them.
Counselor
There are five different temperaments: choleric, melancholy, blank, sanguine, and phlegmatic.
Supine
Adolescence is probably the most difficult stage of development for those with blank temperaments.
Melancholy
Melancholy, early – adolescent clients have been found to abuse blank and blank while they were home alone.
Alcohol and pornography
Melancholy’s respond more readily to blank than to anger.
Disappointment
Continuous blank is necessary, as their self – images may get in the way of sharing.
Encouragement
Melancholy youth usually blank have many friends
Don’t
Do not blank the melancholy youths by telling them they are wrong, but instead give them information to get them on the right path.
Challenge
In social settings, the blank youth is very charming.
Choleric