10-beware the fragile ego the law of envy

Question 1

draw value

Answer 1

draw value from internal measure not outside

Question 2

envy

Answer 2

nothin is more elusive and painful than envy

Question 3

signs of envy

Answer 3

3 way to stay away of envy:
-see the signs
-see the type of people
-see to trigger

Question 4

signs of envy

Answer 4

sign of envy:
-micro expressions: look at eyes and face/ test them in a good and bad news
-praising the wrong factor: work vs money - underlying hostility
-back biting: gossiping
-push and pull: engage emotion and then let you go

Question 5

people of envy

Answer 5

people of envy:
-family attention when child but abandoned after becoming adults
-they devalue everything to direct their emotion and reexperince childhood emotions

Question 6

5 types of envy

Answer 6

-the levelers: cynical people always mediocre
-self entitled slackers: they are brief in everything and want everything -hate
-status seeker: everything is a point of comparison -esp money
-the attacher: make themselves usefull
-insecure master: higher up more insecurities - do not stimulate them

Question 7

envy triggers

Answer 7

change of your status and success
-natural look is the highest source of envy-show clumsiness purposely or put thing on luck - like JFK
-place attention on other people junior people ask for opinions
-social media makes envy all over

Question 8

beyond envy:

Answer 8

only conscience about the initial trigger but have to learn to deal with it on a deeper level
-use it a productive way and channel the energy to do better
-always look beyond their face and see the problems too
-gratitude is a muscle to exercise
-the lowest of the lowest animals seek pleasure in misery of others- activity feel their joy as a form of empathy
-transform envy to emulation: realize your potential than seeking attention