10: Constructing an Adult Life Flashcards

(30 cards)

1
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phase of life that begins after high school, lasts through the late twenties - devoted to constructing an adult life, exploring options

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emerging adulthood

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2
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sharing a household in an unmarried romantic relationship

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cohabitation

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3
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moving out of one’s childhood home and living independently for the first time

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nest-leaving

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4
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concept that we regulate our passage through adulthood by referring to our society’s timetable that tells us which life activities are appropriate at certain ages

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social clock

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5
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cultural ideas about the appropriate ages to engage in particular activities or life tasks

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age norms

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6
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being on target in a culture’s timetable for achieving adult life tasks

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on time

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7
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being too early or too late in a culture’s timetable for achieving adult life tasks

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off time

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8
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in Erikson’s theory, the life task of deciding who to be as an adult

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identity

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9
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Erikson’s term for a failure in identity formation, marked by the lack of any sense of a future adult path

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role confusion

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10
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James Marcia’s four categories of identity formation - identity diffusion, identity foreclosure, moratorium, and identity achievement

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identity statuses

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Marcia’s term for an identity status in which the person is aimless or feels totally blocked, without any adult life path

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identity diffusion

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Marcia’s term for an identity status in which the person decides on an adult life path without any thought or active search (usually informed by an authority figure)

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identity foreclosure

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13
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Marcia’s term for an identity status in which the person is actively exploring different possibilities to find a truly solid adult life path

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moratorium

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14
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a fully mature identity, when a young person decides on a satisfying adult life path

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identity achievement

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15
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when a young person is unable to decide between different identities, becoming emotionally paralyzed and extremely anxious

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ruminative moratorium

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16
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how people come to terms with who they are in relation to their unique ethnic or racial heritage

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ethnic identity

17
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how people of mixed racial backgrounds come to terms with who they are in relation to their heritage

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biracial or multiracial identity

18
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Csikszentmihalyi’s term for feeling total absorption in a challenging, goal-oriented activity

19
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the change from the schooling phase of life to the work world

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school-to-work transition

20
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Erikson’s first adult task, which involves connecting with a partner in a mutual loving relationship

21
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on-again/off-again romantic relationships in which couples repeatedly get together and then break up

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relationship churning

22
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Bernard Murstein’s mate-selection theory that suggests similar people pair up and that our path to commitment progresses through three phases

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stimulus-value-role theory

23
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in Murstein’s theory, the initial mate-selection stage, in which we make judgments about a potential partner based on external characteristics such as appearance

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stimulus phase

24
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in Murstein’s theory, the second mate-selection stage, in which we make judgments about a partner based on similar values and interests

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value-comparison phase

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in Murstein's theory, the final mate-selection stage, in which committed partners work out their future lives together
role phase
26
the principle that we select a mate who is similar to us
homogamy
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the different ways in which adults relate to romantic partners, based on Mary Ainsworth's infant classification
adult attachment styles
28
an excessively clingy, needy style of relating to loved ones
preoccupied/ambivalent adult attachment
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a standoffish, excessively disengaged style of relating to loved ones
avoidant/dismissive adult attachment
30
the genuine intimacy that is ideal in love relationships - empathy, balance
secure adult attachment