Dynamics of Attraction, Love, and Commitment Flashcards
Factors of Attraction
- Physical Attractiveness
- Familiarity (classmate, neighbor, etc.)
- Similarity (likes, dislikes, etc.)
- Proximity (closeness)
- Reciprocity (mutual)
3 main components of love (Triangular Theory of Love)
intimacy, passion, and commitment
who suggested the Triangular Theory of Love
Robert Stenberg
an interpersonal relationship that involves physical or emotional intimacy. characterized by closeness, connectedness and boundedness
intimacy
described as an intense emotion toward a person. also shown as compelling interest for someone, like having the desire to spend time with them. (physical attraction, romance, sexual connection)
passion
an act of deciding to consistently fulfill and live by agreements with another person. wherein, the values of integrity and respect are evident (showing loyalty and conveying honesty)
commitment
no commitment, passion, and intimacy (people from everyday life, etc.)
non-love
intimacy only (friends/best friends)
liking
passion only (love at first sight, obsession, can lead to romantic love, can also disappear easily)
infatuation/infatuated love
commitment only (stagnant rs, arranged marriage)
empty love
intimacy + passion (being bonded emotionally and physically to another person)
romantic love
intimacy + commitment (family members, close friends, long-term rs)
companionate love
passion + commitment (arranged marriage)
fatuous love
all (ideal type, based on efforts but typically as umpisa lang, complete love)
consummate love