Father and Son Flashcards

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“black and squat, dull like a garden slug”

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  • Just as a garden slug is black and destructive, so too is the gun going to destroy a beautiful relationship/family setting/life.
  • Garden refers to how the father loved to garden before the passing of his wife
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“I had to go and collect you. Like a dog.”

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  • Compares his son to a dog
  • Suggest that the dad is feeling tense and stressed, but is also worried about the condition is son is in
  • Suggests that the son feels detached - he isn’t showing any remorse or is trying to fix their relationship - and humiliated as he is compared to a dog
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“A baby pressed to my shaved cheek. Now his skin is sandpaper. He is a man.”

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  • Metaphor
  • He has grown up, become rough and now has a hard exterior
  • One-worded answers to his father, swears at him, no longer shows him any respect
  • Their relationship has changed - from close to now never speaking to him father (keeping secrets)
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“I taught him how to tie a blood-knot”

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  • When he was a child, his father taught him how to tie a blood-knot
  • Symbolises their close relationship
  • An unbreakable bond
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“Fishing”

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  • Sum up the relationship between them: the father is able to “strike” and “to play” the son so that he will not “escape”.
  • With a mere reference to his earlier …
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“Used to dig the garden, grow vegetables and flowers for half the street” “Now he just sits and waits. He sits and waits for me and the weeds have taken over.”

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  • All the father does now is sit and wait for his son to return
  • The fathers life has grown over control - letting the bad things take over all the good things in his life
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“Let me put my arms around you.”

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By the end of the story, the father cradles his dead son in his arms, just as Mary cradles the dead body of Jesus in traditional art. He can finally say how he feels about his son, having fully taken on the motherly role which the son needed so badly in his life.

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“snap of a switch”
“his bare feet click”
“crackling like fire”

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onomatopoeia - associations with violence, guns, bombs etc

w/c - snap - word choice of snap has connotations of something done with ignorance and quick.
- suggests a break in their relationship

  • Tone of the ‘s’ sound used to give more of a harsh snappy tone.
  • the violence/tension between the father and son is heightened by these references to Belfast
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“This is my son who let me down. I love him so much it hurts but he won’t talk to me.”

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w/c - it hurts - suggests that the more the father loves and longs for his son the worse it gets as all the father wants to he is close however the son wants as much distance as possible.

contrast - let me down & love

  • father’s thoughts reveal his love for his son and the problems they have with each other.
  • the father wishes to share a connection with his son like he used to but now he can no longer find a way to talk with his son.
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“When he sees me he turns away”

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literal/metaphorical - doing anything to avoid communication

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“Where are you going today?”
“What’s it to you?”

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  • the speech of both is clipped, tense and ultimately pointless
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“The sound of ambulances criss-crosses the dark.”

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Tone - given off by the ‘c’ sound - suggests the spread and regularity of the ambulances at night, fear that the son might be in one

  • suggests that northern Ireland is a dangerous place for someone to live, especially during the Troubles. There isn’t any time in which his home is safe, as there is always danger somewhere waiting for him to step out of his house.
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13
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“I sleep with the daylight”

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  • both live in fear for son’s life
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“front door shudders as he leaves”

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personification/transferred epithet - emotions of the characters are transferred to the house, showing how the characters feel like they cannot trust each other enough to share how they feel so they have to assume through their actions on how they feel.

imagery - Just as the door trembles in fear so too does the father every time the son leaves the house as he is riddled with the fear of the possibilities of what the son is doing.

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“My son is breaking my heart”

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  • emphasises his pain and suffering
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“Is it my fault there is no woman in the house? Is it my fault a good woman should die?”

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  • we have to piece together fragments revealed by each character
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“A baby pressed to my shaved cheek. Now his chin is sandpaper. He is a man”

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metaphor - he has grown up, become rough, and now has a hard exterior

  • highlights his roughness/hardness of the son - no love/emotion
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“When he was a boy, I took him fishing. I taught him how to tie a blood-knot.”

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  • The word choice of “blood-knot” symbolises how close their relationship was before the son grew up and began to ignore his father.
  • The ends of a blood-knot intertwine showing that they can never escape from one another and will always be connected by the blood they share.
  • This suggests that it is more than a way to fish but more something that represents how close they once were, they are family and are tied together till the end. It is something that if pulled gets tighter.
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19
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“I must speak to him. Tonight at tea. If he is in.”

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  • it is clear that though the father must speak to his son, he constantly puts off any real conversations or physical contact.
  • the frustration of the reader is intensified by the feeling of foreboding which is present from the earliest moments of the story.
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“He takes up the paper between him and his father.”

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  • shows the divide between the father and son. The son will do anything to ensure that he isn’t next to his father as he feels like he no longer knows who he is anymore.
21
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“My son, he looks confused.”

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  • when the father thinks of the son, it is in terms of desperate affection
22
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“I want you to talk to me the way I hear you talk to the people at the door.”

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  • the father is jealous of his son’s friends talking to him as he and his son do not share those moments with each other, even though they are the ones who kill him.
23
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“I pulled you away from death once and now you will not talk to me.”

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imagery - i pulled you away from death once - suggests that his fears are justified as son’s association with drugs have been fatal previously

  • son’s involvement with drugs/crime has gotten him into trouble before
24
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“I want to know if you are in danger again.”

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repetition - shows that the task is impossible - there is too much that he now needs to find out

  • the father receives no gratitude from the son, but the father still has not given up on his son.
25
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“About…”

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  • shows father is afraid to approach the subject incase his son runs away from him again.
26
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“my hand shakes”

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  • the sons behaviour has made the father a nervous wreck, addicted to his prescripted medicine.
27
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“You think the world is waiting round the corner to blow your head off.”

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irony - the fear is justified as this is what happens to the son during the story’s climax

28
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“He’s scared of his own shadow.”

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  • this is the son’s view of his father
29
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“Son, you are living on borrowed time.”

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  • the constant gap between feeling and expression makes the reader more impatient for some sort of communication between the two of them.
30
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“Let me put my arm around your shoulders and let me listen to what is making you thin. At the weekend I will talk to him.”

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  • even when his son returns after he believed him to be dead and he seems determinded to apologise and explain his behaviour, he again is deflected from his purpose by the sight of a gun and chooses to pray for his son, instaed of speaking to him directly.
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“Then, on the radio, I hear he is dead.”

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  • the father is constantly imagining his son is dead and in the end, this is unavoidable.
32
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“My mother is dead but I have another one in her place. He is an old woman.”

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  • the son feels he has no male role model in his life
  • The father is so overtaken by grief and is constantly worrying about his son that he abandons what is typically known as male characteristics and takes up the role of a woman. The son is ashamed of what his father has become and no longer seeks his help or advice.
  • Shows how the father has changed out of the father role and transitioned into the mother role as he is always worrying about the fears of what the son is up to and if he is alive or dead. This haunts the dad.
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“He used to dig the garden, grow vegetables and flowers for half the street. He used to fish. To take ne fishing. Now he just waits. He sits and waits for me and the weeds have taken over.”

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  • all the father does now is sit and wait for his son to return
  • childhood memories of happier times

metaphor - weeds have taken over - the fathers life has grown over control - letting the bad things in his life take over

34
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“Not this again.”
“The boy curls his lip as if snagged on a fish-hook.”

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  • Shows the aggression that the son feels.
  • Even though there is a lack of communication between the father and son, the father still feels empathy for his son and wants him to be safe, and the son feels as though he is a failure due to his previous mistakes.
  • He feels like he has disappointed his father and is hurt by those even though their relationship isn’t like how it was before he grew up.
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“I let you go once - and look what happened”

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  • father embodies human tendencies to cast up in detail every fall from grace
36
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“I had to go and collect you. Like a dog.”

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  • this suggests that the father is feeling tense and stressed about the situation, but is also worried about the condition he might find his son in. The son feels humiliated that his father has to see him in this state.

simile - Just as a dog is an animal and can’t operate on his own, so too is the son still dependent on his father to help him get out of trouble, even though he is reluctant to do so.

  • Referring to his son as a dog suggests that he is something that is owned and irresponsible.
  • Son would have felt shame and embarrassment as well as the father as he his treating his son like a animal
    that gets carried about.
37
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“Today I thought you were dead.”

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  • even in their most intense moments, communication cannot be provoked
38
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“Go and wash your mouth out.”

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  • son despises this new role which his father has assumed - son responds by swearing which turns the conversation aggressive.
  • father has no control/authority over his son - meagre request
39
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“Let me put my arms around you.”

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repetition - shows how strong the father’s desire is to be close to his son

40
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“… and talk like we used to on the bus from Toome.”

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  • father wanted physical contact, or some kind of connection, with his son throughtout the entirety of the story
41
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“What’s that? Under your pillow?”
“It’s none of your business.”

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  • the reader feels pity for the dad as we hear the son’s thoughts in the narrative and the father is trying everything to find a way to talk to his son
42
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“Maybe”

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  • show that the father is trying to find ways to ensure that his son is safe
43
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“The news begins.”

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foreshadowing - hints that something bad will happen

44
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“his feet on the threshold.”

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Irony - the father tried to keep him at home

  • son is not even safe at home.
45
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“The news has come to my door.”

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doorstep - represents the divide between the safety of the house and the dangers of Belfast

46
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“you are not badly hurt.”

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the false calm at the son’s death - the father is trying to convince himself his son is not dead.