Exam 3: Lecture 10 Flashcards
What are the types of grief?
anticipatory
acute
shadow
disenfranchised
response to a real or perceived loss before it occurs a dress rehearsal
anticipatory grief
is a crisis – somatic, emotional, & functional symptoms
acute grief
moments of intermittent sadness – often with triggers (anniversary of event)
shadow grief
when a person cannot openly acknowledge or publicly mourn a loss – socially disallowed or unsupported – same sex, AIDS, suicide
Disenfranchised grief
What are the types of loss in older age?
loss of relationships
life transitions
What is loss of relationships?
Significant others – family, friends
Social contacts – variety of ways
Illness
Death
Distance
Decreased mobility
What is life transitions?
Roles
Financial security
Independence
Health
Mental stability
Loss of response model: beginning, middle, and end stages?
Grief is processed with 3 stages
Beginning
Physical and psychological manifestations
Middle
Day to day functioning affected
End
Griever emerges refocused and adjusted
Loss response model: steps 1, 2, and 3?
Person/Family/Grievers are a system
Loss creates chaos and disequilibrium
System must restore equilibrium
Step 1
Make sense of the loss
Search for meaning – why did this happen to us/me?
Why wasn’t it me?
Step 2
Integration and acceptance of the loss
Emotions stabilized or channeled
Others step in ready to assume roles of one lost
Step 3
System redefines itself
Reframing memories
Things may be different, but that is accepted
Cyclical Loss-Response Model for Older & Multiple Chronic Conditions?
The goal is not to prevent grief but to support those who are coping with grief and facilitate the return of stability to the system each time a new loss occurs.
LRM interventions?
Searching for Meaning
Engaging Emotions
Informing Others
Adaptation
Reframing Memories
Active Listening is a common to all of the above!
Loss of a spouse or partner?
Most difficult life loss – Second to loss of a child
Spousal bereavement:
- Greater in women than men
- Men tend to re-partner or re-marry sooner and more often than women
–> Loneliness, need to be cared for
–> High suicide risk on widowers (men)
73% women over 85 widowed
35% men over 85 widowed
Whole person effects: Physical, psychological, social, practical, and economic
What is the grief cycle?
The cycle of acceptance
- Normal Existence
- Receipt of Bad News
- Denial
- Anger
Aggression - Depression
Confusion, early bargaining, and continued anger and denial - Bargaining
- Acceptance
Nursing Actions Families Report as Helpful?
“They kept me informed”
Asked how I was doing and offered support”
“Put their arm around me when I cried”
“Brought me food”
“Knew my name”
“Cried with me”
“Brought me a bed and encouraged me to stay in the room while he was dying”
“Told me to hold his hand”
“Held my hand”
“Got the Chaplain for me”
“Let me take care of my husband”
