Verbal communication Flashcards

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What is language

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  • a system of arbitrary symbols of ideas or things being refered to
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Misunderstandings ca occur when

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  • there is an indirect relationship between symbols and what is being referred to
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Triangle of meaning includes three things

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  1. thought
  2. symbol
  3. referent
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Syntactic rules

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  • rules that govern the way symbols can be arranged as opposed to the meaning of the symbols
  • order
    EXAMPLE: “the big toe, has a different meaning than the toe big”
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Sematic rules

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  • govern the meaning assigned to words
  • refer to word orders
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Equivical language

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  • consists of words with more than one commonly accepted definition
    EXAMPLE: groom
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Pragmatic rules

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  • help communicators understand how messages may be used and interpreted in a given context
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pragmatic rules consist of

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  • denotative meaning
  • connotative meaning
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Abstraction

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  • language that is vague and unclear
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Bypassing

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  • that same words mean different things to different people
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low contet cultures

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  • place emphasis on worlds
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High context cultures

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  • place emphasis on non verbal expressions and surrounding context
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Convergence

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  • adapting ones speech style to match that of others whom the communicator wants to identify with
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Divergence

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  • speech mannerism that emphasize the communicators diffrences from others
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Deferential language

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  • language style in which the speaker defers listners by using hedges, hesitations, intensifiers, polite forms, tag question, and disclaimers
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Hedge examples

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  • kinda
  • think
  • guess
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Hesitations Examples

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  • uh
    well
    er
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Intenifier examples

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  • really
  • very
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Polite forms examples

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  • excuse me
  • sir
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Tag question examples

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  • its about time we got started, isnt it
  • dont you thing we should give it another try
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Disclaimers examples

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  • I probably shouldn’t say this but
  • i’m bot really sure but
22
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Disruptive language consists of

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  • fact opinion confusion
  • inference
  • emotive language
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fact opinion confusion

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  • also called fact inference confusion
  • occurs when inference’s of assumptions are presented as facts
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Infrence

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  • a conculsion that is arrived at, from an interpretation of evidence
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Emotive language

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  • describes something but really announces the speakers positive or negative attitude towards a person, situation, or topic
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i language

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  • a statement that describes the speakers reaction to another persons behaviour without making judgements about the behaviours worth
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“i” language advantages

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  • takes responsibility for personal thought, feelings and wants
  • less defence provokinking that
    ‘you
    ‘ langauge
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“i” langage disadvantages

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  • can be perceived as egotistical, narcissitic, and self-absorbed
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tips when using “I” language

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  • use i language when the other person doesnt previeve the problem
  • combine “i” with “we” lanuage
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“we” langauge advantages

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  • signals inclusion, immediacy, cohesiveness, and commitment
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“we” langauge disadvantages

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  • can speak improperly for others
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“we” language tips

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  • combine with “i” language
  • use in groups setting to enhance unity
  • avoid expressing personal thoughts, feelings, and wants
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“you” langauge advantages

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  • signals other orientation, particullarly when the topic is positive
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“you” langauage disadvantages

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  • xan sound evaluative and judgemental, particullary during confrontations
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“you” langauge tips

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  • use”i” language during confrontations
  • use “you” language when praising others
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Metamessages

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  • can be exchanged verbally or nonverbally
  • communication about communication
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Non-verbal metamessages

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  • provides information about the emotion and relation of impact of what the speaker is expressing with the verbal message
  • could be sacasm
38
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Misunderstandings is coaused by

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  • the ineffective ise of verbal messages
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Figurative langaue

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  • do not conform to the sematic rule
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Metaphor

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  • involves an impicit comparision of two things that are not alike
    EXAMPLE: time is money
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Irony

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  • the use of language that indicate two opposing ideas
    EXAMPLE: open secret
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Idiom

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  • worlds that provide artistic expression of ideas
  • can be used to amplify messages
    EXAMPLE: knowledge is power
43
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Informal lanuage consists of

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  • jargon
  • colloquialism
  • slang
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Jargon

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  • specialized words used by a certain group
  • often difficult to understand by an outsider group
45
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Colloquialism

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  • use of informal worlds in everyday langauge
    EXAMPLE: wanna, gunna
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Slang

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  • informal worlds used in day to day communication by certain groups who share certain characteristics
  • commonly used when speaking
47
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Guidelines for using verbal messages effectively (6 things)

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  1. focus on the actual
  2. recognize complexity
  3. distinguish between facts and inferences
  4. avoid indiscrimination
  5. talk about the middle
  6. update messages
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Label orientation

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  • avoid
  • tendency to view people, objects, and events in a way they are labeled