Ch. 4 Flashcards
How you experience yourself as a sexual person includes
biological sex gender anatomy and physiology sexual functions values beleifs attitudes
how you experience yourself as a sexual person affects:
your-self image your identity happiness fertility health
intimate relationships can be defined in terms of four characteristics
behavioral interdependence (others) need fulfillment (intimacy, social integration, nurturance, affirmation) Emotional attachment (love), and emotional availability (no fear of rejection, or hurt)
central focus to care for and love one another
family origin
“family” changes with time
family relationships
Relating to yourself consists of:
Accountability (responsible for choices, actions)
self-nurturance (developing your potential)
Self concept (how you define yourself)
self esteem (how you evaluate yourself)
Romantic relationships characteristcs
fascination exclusiveness sexual desire giving the utmost being an advocate
what are the two types of love?
passionate
companionate
what makes a healthy relationship?
predictability
dependability
faith
confronting couples issues consists of
jealousy
changing gender roles
sharing power
unmet expectations
sharing personal information about your past that is relevant to the other persons understanding of your current reactions
self-disclosure
examples of self-disclosure
getting to know yourself
become more accepting of yourself
be willing to discuss your sexual history
choose a safe context for self-disclosure
how do you communicate better?
becoming a better listener be present at the moment show empathy and sympathy ask for clarification control desire to interrupt avoid snap judgements resist the temptation to "set the other person straight" focus on the speaker (avoid launching into your own story)
researchers have found that 93 percent of communication effectiveness is determined by
non-verbal cues
examples of non-verbal cues
touch gestures interpersonal space facial expressions body language tone of voice
an emotional state that arises when the behavior of one person interfaces with that of another
conflict
an intent to act over time in a way that perpetuates the well-being of the other person, oneself, and the relationship
committed relationships
types of relationships
marriage
cohabitation
gay and lesbian partnerships
staying single
types of marriage relationships
monogamy
serial monogamy
open marriage
having children
the recognition and acknowledgment of oneself as a sexual being. it is determined by the interaction of genetic, physiological, environmental, and social factors
sexual identity
refers to a persons enduring emotional, romantic, sexual, or affectionate attraction to others
sexual orientation
the sense or awareness of being male or female
gender identity
gender identity does not match biological sex
transgendered
feel trapped in the wrong body and may opt for reassignment
transsexuals
attracts to opposite, same or both sexes
sexual orientation