Test #4 Flashcards
How do you know when someone is experiencing an emotion?
Connect their body to their mind
3 parts of emotional experience:
- Internal physicals reactions
- Outward physical reactions
- Psychological labeling of the physical feelings
Heart beating, butterflies in stomach
Internal physical reactions
Voice quivers, muscles tense, smile
Outward physical reactions
“I am sad, happy, etc..”
Psychological labeling of physical feelings
Physical reactions are controlled by:
The autonomic nervous system
Sympathetic – fight or flight
(Parasympathetic – brings you back down)
The first indication that thinking is taking place
Primary cognitive appraisal
Thought has to be involved in emotional process.
Give examples:
Ex:
After class you start walking toward the union.
A piece of paper blows by, no one is afraid.
However if a big ass dog popped out of nowhere, growling with teeth out, you become scared.
Paper - neutral stimulus
Dog - an emotion
Emotions are hard wired into us, which means they come from nature.
Nurture, however, is what “sets off” your emotions
Formulating a plan that you can act on.
Secondary cognitive appraisal
How do we deal with this?
Saying “man I was afraid!”
Labeling
4 ways stress can be harmful
- Prolonged (long / can’t escape)
- No control over the situation
- Unpredictable
- Pressure (not enough time to get it all done)
2 main sources of stress
- Frustration
2. Conflict
Results when something prevents you from reaching your goal
Ex:
Frustration
Ex:
External - traffic / road rage
Personal - you 5ft. but want to be in the NBA
The first response to frustration
Ex:
Persistence
Ex:
Locked out?
Check every key or get into house, eventually you kick in the door or window
You can’t get directly at the source of frustration so take it out on the wrong people
Displaced aggression
Ex:
Can’t punch your boss, so you beat your kid or the dog instead
Formulating a plan that you can act on.
Secondary cognitive appraisal
How do we deal with this?
Saying “man I was afraid!”
Labeling
4 ways stress can be harmful
- Prolonged (long / can’t escape)
- No control over the situation
- Unpredictable
- Pressure (not enough time to get it all done)
Stress Example:
There are 3 groups of rats.
group 1 - given a painful shock
group 2 - sounds buzzer – shock
group 3 - hear sound - - no shock
Which group developed ulcers?
Group 1 because they could not prepare for the shock
Have to choose between incompatible demands and goals
Conflict
4 classic conflict situations:
- Approach - approach
- Avoidance - avoidance
- Approach - avoidance
- Double approach - avoidance
Have two things you wanna do at the same time
Approach - approach
Ex:
Go to football game OR school dance
(Have to give something up)
Have two things that are bad and one ‘must’ happen
Avoidance - avoidance
Ex:
Abortion OR born child
Go to war OR be a deserter
Something that has both positive and negative qualities
Approach - avoidance
Ex:
Great paying work but you have to travel
(Working with Charlie in Pittsburgh)
•attracted to and repelled by it at the same time
You have two choices, both have (+) and (-) attributes
Double approach - avoidance
Ex: Pick 1 (/2) presidents to vote for Pick 1 (/2) bf / gf (Steve lol)
When stress starts out psychological but ends up being physical
(Truly DO have physical symptoms)
Psychosomatic disorders
Suppresses the immune system - can have burn holes / ulcers in stomach
3 ways you are much more likely to develop a psychosomatic disorder:
- Stress
- Have a genetic predisposition for an organ weakness
- Have a pessimistic personality (worry, downer)
2 types of personalities
- Type A - highly competitive / strive for achievement and want to be the best
- Type B - take things as they come / laid back
(Type A tend to have more heart attacks than type B)
Focus attention on how bad you feel but don’t work on making it better
Emotion - focused
the automatic response
6 ways to Relax:
- Exercise
- Meditation
- Teach yourself to relax
- Avoid rushing
- Keep socially involved
- Positive self statements
- (puts good chemicals in your system / rids bad ones)
- (focus attention away from outside issues and on yourself)
- (progressive relaxation - you’re tense and did not realize it)
- (pace yourself)
- (thoughts rush / build up by yourself)
- (ex: “how stupid can I be?”)
Need to fight that initial emotional response and the problem
Problem - focused
**Need to be ‘problem’ focused / NOT emotion
6 defense mechanisms
- Denial
- Projection
- Rationalization
- Repression
- Compensation
- Sublimation
Not facing the facts / truth
Denial
Ex:
At the bar everyday
“I don’t have a drinking problem”
You have negative (socially unacceptable) feelings and push it onto someone else
Projection
Ex:
You don’t like your mom, talks shit on all moms
???
Come up with a reason for doing your behavior, but it is not the truth
(But it is believable)
Rationalization
Ex: Failed a class bc of the professor
Selectively forgetting tragic memories
Repression
Ex:
“Memories too painful to remember, you choose to forget”
Work hard to overcome some weakness / fear
Compensation
Ex:
Cops
“lifting bro!”
Channel frustrated energies into a socially acceptable format
Sublimation
Ex:
Take sexual frustration and put it into working 14 hours a day
(Not necessarily dealing with the intimacy problems)
Ex:
Sports / boxing