cmh test 4 (final) Flashcards
A central aspect of quality time is ___
Togetherness
Quality time is giving someone your ___ attention
Undivided
I do not mean just to be in close ___
Proximity
Togetherness has to do with ___ attention
Focused
It does mean that we are doing something ___ and that we are giving the other person our full ___
Together, attention
The important thing ___ is that we are spending ___ time with each other
Emotionally, focused.
The activity is just a ___ that creates the sense of togetherness
Vehicle
Quality conversation means a ___ dialogue where 2 individuals are sharing their ___, ___, ___, and ___ in a friendly, uninterrupted context
Sympathetic, experiences, thoughts, feelings, desires
Words of affirmation focus on what we are ___; whereas quality conversation focuses on what we are ___
Saying, hearing
Many of us are trained to ___ problems and to ___ solutions
Analyze, create
A relationship calls for ___ listening with the idea of understanding the other person’s thoughts, feelings, and desires.
Sympathetic
Some practical tips for quality conversation: maintain ___ ___ when your spouse is speaking
Eye contact
Don’t listen to your spouse and do ___ else at the same time
Something
Listen for ___
Feelings
Observe ___ ___
Body language