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Question 1

A young couple just ended their relationship after a 9-month engagement. The one of the individuals is seeking short-term counseling to assist in grieving this loss. Which type of loss best describes what this client is experiencing?
A) Safety loss
B) Loss of security and sense of belonging
C) Loss of self-esteem
D) Loss related to self-actualization

Answer 1

B) Loss of security and sense of belonging

Types of loss include safety loss (loss of a safe environment), loss of security and a sense of belonging (loss of a loved one affects the need to love and the feeling of being loved), loss of self-esteem (any change in how a person is valued at work or in relationships or by him or herself), or loss related to self-actualization (external or internal crisis that blocks or inhibits strivings toward fulfillment).

Question 2

A child who has witnessed the murder of his classmate while at school would experience which kind of loss?
A) Physiologic loss
B) Loss of self-esteem
C) Loss related to self-actualization
D) Safety loss

Answer 2

D) Safety loss

Safety loss is the loss of a safe environment. That feeling of safety is shattered when public violence occurs. Examples of physiologic loss include amputation of a limb, a mastectomy or hysterectomy, or loss of mobility. A loss of self-esteem includes any change in how a person is valued at work or in relationships or by himself or herself can threaten self-esteem. Loss related to self-actualization includes an external or internal crisis that blocks or inhibits strivings toward fulfillment that may threaten personal goals and individual potential.

Question 3

Which of the following terms is used to describe the process by which a person experiences the grief?
A) Anticipatory grieving
B) Disenfranchised grief
C) Bereavement
D) Mourning

Answer 3

C) Bereavement

Bereavement refers to the process by which a person experiences the grief. Anticipatory grieving is when people facing imminent loss begin to grapple with the very real possibility of the loss or death in the near future. Disenfranchised grief is grief over a loss that is not or cannot be acknowledged openly, mourned publicly, or supported socially. Mourning is the outward expression of grief.

Question 4

A married couple has just received the news that the husband has terminal cancer. The wife tells the nurse, ìMaybe if we get another opinion and start treatment right way there is a chance of survival.î The nurse documents that the wife is expressing signs of which of Kubler-Ross’s stages of grief?
A) Denial
B) Anger
C) Bargaining
D) Depression

Answer 4

C) Bargaining

Kubler-Ross developed a model of five stages to explain what people experience as they grieve and mourn: (1) Denial is shock and disbelief regarding the loss. (2) Anger may be expressed toward God, relatives, friends, or health-care providers. (3) Bargaining occurs when the person asks God or fate for more time to delay the inevitable loss. (4) Depression results when awareness of the loss becomes acute. (5) Acceptance occurs when the person shows evidence of coming to terms with death.

Question 5

After being laid off from work, a client becomes increasingly withdrawn and fatigued, spends entire days in bed, is unkempt, and is eating and sleeping poorly. The nurse would recognize that the client is in which stage of grieving, according to Kubler-Ross?
A) Anger
B) Bargaining
C) Denial
D) Depression

Answer 5

D) Depression

The client’s symptoms are characteristics of depression, which usually occurs when awareness of the loss becomes acute. Anger may be expressed toward God, relatives, friends, or health-care providers. Bargaining occurs when the person asks God or fate for more time to delay the inevitable loss. Denial is shock and disbelief regarding the loss.

Question 6

The client says to the nurse, ìI really want to see my first grandchild born before I die. Is that too much to ask?î The nurse would recognize that the client is in which stage of grieving, according to Kubler-Ross?
A) Acceptance
B) Anger
C) Bargaining
D) Depression

Answer 6

C) Bargaining

Clients often set goals such as living until a certain time or to experience a particular event, and then they will be ready to die: that is the bargain. Acceptance occurs when the person shows evidence of coming to terms with death. Anger may be expressed toward God, relatives, friends, or health-care providers. Depression results when awareness of the loss becomes acute.

Question 7

Kubler-Ross developed a model of five stages to explain what people experience as they grieve and mourn. Which is stage V of Kubler-Ross’s stages of grieving?
A) Denial
B) Bargaining
C) Acceptance
D) Anger

Answer 7

C) Acceptance

Acceptance occurs when the person shows evidence of coming to terms with death. Denial is shock and disbelief regarding the loss. Bargaining occurs when the person asks God or fate for more time to delay the inevitable loss. Anger may be expressed toward God, relatives, friends, or health-care providers.

Question 8

Friends of a teenage male recently killed in a car accident are discussing their sense of loss. Which of the following comments best indicates that the friends are trying to make sense of the loss cognitively?
A) ìWhy did he have to die so young?î
B) ìHe shouldn’t have been driving so recklessly.î
C) ìIf we had only stayed longer, he would not have been on that road.î
D) ìIt took the ambulance too long to get there.î

Answer 8

A) ìWhy did he have to die so young?î

One of the cognitive responses to grief involves the grieving person making sense of the loss. He or she undergoes self-examination and questions accepted ways of thinking. The loss challenges old assumptions about life. Anger, sadness, and anxiety are the predominant emotional responses to loss. The grieving person may direct anger and resentment toward the dead person and his or her health practices, family members, or health-care providers or institutions.

Question 9

The nurse is working with a woman who lost her partner nearly 3 weeks prior. The woman has recently become less emotional and expressed that few things in her life have meaning right now. Which response by the nurse is most appropriate at this time?
A) ìI am concerned. You are starting to show signs of ineffective grieving.î
B) ìYou must feel some anger. It is alright to let that out.î
C) ìLet’s look at the things in your life that you still enjoy.î
D) ìYou are just starting to accept that this loss is real.î

Answer 9

D) ìYou are just starting to accept that this loss is real.î

As the bereaved person begins to understand the loss’s permanence, he or she recognizes that patterns of thinking, feeling, and acting attached to life with the deceased must change. As the person relinquishes all hope of recovering the lost one, he or she inevitably experiences moments of depression, apathy, or despair. The acute sharp pain initially experienced with the loss becomes less intense and less frequent.

Question 10

The nurse is working with a client who lost her youngest child 2 months ago. When the nurse approaches, the client, the client yells, ìI don’t want to talk to you. You have no idea what it’s like to lose a child!î The nurse bases her response to the client on the understanding of which of the following?
A) Hostility is a common behavioral response to grief.
B) It is too soon after the loss to empathize with the client.
C) Personality traits such as aggressiveness are exaggerated during the grief process.
D) The nurse may have nonverbally indicated a judgmental attitude toward the client.

Answer 10

A) Hostility is a common behavioral response to grief.

Behavioral responses to grief are often the easiest to observe. Irritability and hostility toward others reveal anger and frustration in the grief process.

Question 11

Which of the following are eventual outcomes of the emotional dimension of grieving? Select all that apply.
A) The survivor begins to reestablish a sense of personal identity, direction, and
purpose for living.
B) The survivor begins to gain independence and confidence.
C) The survivor develops new ways of managing life and new relationships.
D) The survivor’s life returns to the same state as it was before the loss.
E) The survivor forgets about the loss.

Answer 11

A) The survivor begins to reestablish a sense of personal identity, direction, and
purpose for living.
B) The survivor begins to gain independence and confidence.
C) The survivor develops new ways of managing life and new relationships.

Eventually, the bereaved person begins to reestablish a sense of personal identity, direction, and purpose for living. He or she gains independence and confidence. New ways of managing life emerge and new relationships form. The person’s life is reorganized and seems ìnormalî again, although different than that before the loss. The person still misses the deceased, but thinking of him or her no longer evokes painful feelings.

Question 12

The nurse is conducting a history and physical exam on a client who is grieving the unwanted loss of a marriage by divorce. Which of the following physical symptoms of grief would the nurse most likely expect to detect in the history?
A) Headaches
B) Insomnia
C) Weight loss
D) GI upset

Answer 12

B) Insomnia

Those grieving may complain of insomnia, headaches, impaired appetite, weight loss, lack of energy, palpitations, indigestion, and changes in the immune and endocrine systems. Sleep disturbances are among the most frequent and persistent bereavement- associated symptoms.

Question 13

The nurse is caring for a hospice client whose death is imminent. In preparing the family for the death of their loved one, then nurse prepares to assist the family in which of the following, regardless of the family’s cultural preferences? Select all that apply.
A) Dealing with the shock of losing a loved one
B) Burial plans after death had occurred
C) Efforts to stay connected to the client after death
D) Use of support from family and friends
E) Anger at the loss of a loved one

Answer 13

A) Dealing with the shock of losing a loved one
C) Efforts to stay connected to the client after death
E) Anger at the loss of a loved one

Universal reactions include the initial response of shock and social disorientation, attempts to continue a relationship with the deceased, anger with those perceived as responsible for the death, and a time for mourning. Not all cultures bury their deceased. Some cultures mourn privately, not turning to the support of others.

Question 14

The most effective way for the nurse to provide culturally competent care to individuals who are grieving is which of the following?
A) Understand the practices associated with a client’s culture.
B) Suggest developing a new ritual to make mourning meaningful.
C) Ask the client what rituals are personally meaningful.
D) Contact a spiritual leader from the client’s culture to become involved.

Answer 14

C) Ask the client what rituals are personally meaningful.

Rather than assuming that he or she understands a particular culture’s grieving behaviors, the nurse must encourage clients to discover and use what is effective and meaningful to them.

Question 15

nurse has been caring for a gunshot victim who has just died. Various family and friends are present. One of the visitors privately discloses to the nurse that she and the client were having an illicit affair. Which of the following is the best action by the nurse after learning of this relationship?
A) Give the name of a clergy to the visitor and suggest she contact him for support
B) Encourage the visitor to ask for support from the friends who are present
C) Ignore the information about the affair and tend to the family
D) Privately offer support to the visitor who was having the affair with the client

Answer 15

D) Privately offer support to the visitor who was having the affair with the client

Relationships between lovers, friends, neighbors, foster parents, colleagues, and caregivers may be long-lasting and intense, but people suffering loss in these relationships may not be able to mourn publicly with the social support and recognition given to family members. In addition, some relationships are not always recognized publicly or sanctioned socially such as extramarital affairs. The grief process is more complex because the usual supports that facilitate grieving and healing are absent. Therefore, nurses should be mindful to provide needed support.

Question 16

Which of the following losses are likely to result in disenfranchised grief? Select all that apply.
A) A young adult whose spouse has just died suddenly
B) A family whose long-time pet snake has just died
C) A nurse who has just witnessed the death of a patient
D) A couple who has just experienced pregnancy loss
E) The gay lover of a man who just died from AIDS
F) The mother and sister of a soldier who was killed in war

Answer 16

B) A family whose long-time pet snake has just died
C) A nurse who has just witnessed the death of a patient
D) A couple who has just experienced pregnancy loss
E) The gay lover of a man who just died from AIDS

Circumstances that can result in disenfranchised grief include a relationship that has no legitimacy, the loss itself is not recognized, the griever is not recognized, or the loss involves social stigma. A young adult whose spouse has just died suddenly is not likely to experience disenfranchised grief because of their legal relationship. A family whose long-time pet snake had died is likely to experience disenfranchised grief because the death of a pet is not seen as socially significant. A nurse who had just witnessed the death of a patient is at risk for disenfranchised grief because the needs of nurses and hospital chaplains are not recognized. A couple who had just experienced a pregnancy loss are at increased risk for disenfranchised grief because the loss of an unborn child is not recognized. The gay lover of a man who just died from AIDS is at risk for disenfranchised grief as the relationship had no legitimacy and the loss involves social stigma. The mother and sister of a soldier who was killed in war would not likely experience disenfranchised grief because they have a kin relationship with the decedent.

Question 16

A woman has just had a therapeutic abortion to end an unintended pregnancy. Afterward, the woman cries because although she wanted to have children in future years, this pregnancy was not well-timed. Which type of grief is this woman most likely to experience?
A) Anticipatory grief
B) Absence of grief
C) Complicated grief
D) Disenfranchised grief

Answer 16

D) Disenfranchised grief

Disenfranchised grief is grief over a loss that is not or cannot be acknowledged openly, mourned, publicly, or supported socially. Anticipatory grief occurs when a person experiences imminent loss and begin to grapple with the very real possibility of loss or death in the near future. It is not absence of grief as the woman is grieving. It is not currently complicated grief as the loss has just occurred and does not seem out of proportion to the loss.

Question 17

Which of the following is most likely to prevent the client from experiencing complicated grief?
A) Tendency to suppress emotions
B) History of depression
C) Places trusts familiar others
D) Dependent on others to meet needs

Answer 17

C) Places trusts familiar others

People who are vulnerable to complicated grieving include those with low self-esteem, low trust in others, a previous psychiatric disorder, previous suicide threats or attempts, or absent or unhelpful family members.

Question 18

Which of the following persons are most likely experiencing complicated grieving? Select all that apply.
A) The spouse of a person who died 7 years ago and visits the grave several times a day.
B) The grandchild of a soldier killed in war who visits the grave once a year on
Memorial Day.
C) A driver whose spouse and children all died as a result of his driving drunk.
D) An adult who insisted for many years that he or she hated his or her deceased parent.
E) The parent of a child who died after the having left the child in a car on a hot day.

Answer 18

A) The spouse of a person who died 7 years ago and visits the grave several times a day
C) A driver whose spouse and children all died as a result of his driving drunk.
D) An adult who insisted for many years that he or she hated his or her deceased parent.
E) The parent of a child who died after the having left the child in a car on a hot day.

The spouse of a person who died 7 years ago and visits the grave several times a day is likely experiencing complicated grieving as this is a prolonged period of time with expression of grief that is exaggerated. A driver whose spouse and children all died as a result of his driving drunk likely experiences feelings of guilt as well as loss. An adult who insisted for many years that he or she hated his or her deceased parent is likely experiencing complicated grief as he or she has experienced an ambivalent attachment. The parent of a child who died after having left the child in a car on a hot day is likely experiencing guilt as well as loss.

Question 19

The nurse is meeting a client for the first time who has just spontaneously lost her unborn child. After establishing rapport, the priority nursing intervention should focus
on which of the following?
A) Assessing the client’s support system
B) Exploring what this loss means for the client
C) Discussing helpful ways to cope with the loss
D) Assessing what knowledge the client desires about the situation

Answer 19

B) Exploring what this loss means for the client

Assessment begins with exploration of the client’s perception of the loss. What does the loss mean to the client? The question is valuable for beginning to facilitate the grief process. Further assessment and intervention will be determined based largely on the client’s perception of the event.

Question 20

Which of the following are critical components to assess in a grieving person? Select all that apply.
A) Genetic risk
B) Perception of the loss
C) Support system
D) Coping behaviors
E) Religion

Answer 20

B) Perception of the loss
C) Support system
D) Coping behaviors

The interaction of the dimensions of human response is fluid and dynamic. What a person thinks about during grieving affects his or her feelings, and those feelings influence his or her behavior. The critical factors of perception, support, and coping are interrelated as well and provide a framework for assessing and assisting the client. Genetic risk and religion are not critical components to assess in a grieving person.

Question 21

A client with terminal cancer has been told he has 3 or 4 months to live. Which of the following would indicate to the nurse that further interventions are needed?
A) The client says he wants to live life to the fullest.
B) The client hopes for a peaceful and dignified death.
C) The client is reviewing his life and talking about death.
D) The client says he is well and is making future plans.

Answer 21

D) The client says he is well and is making future plans.

Choice D would indicate that the client is proceeding as though there is no impending loss, so the nurse would need to assist the client with grieving as the client is in denial. The other choices are positive coping behaviors toward death.

Question 22

A young client tells the nurse that her husband died 3 months ago, and she is feeling alone and vulnerable. Which statement by the client would indicate that her coping skills are adequate?
A) ìI can’t understand why this happened to me.î
B) ìI’m mentally healthy. I can solve my own problems.î
C) ìI will find a support group.î
D) ìWhat can I do? My husband abandoned me.î

Answer 22

C) ìI will find a support group.î

Finding a support group indicates that the client recognizes her need for help and is taking action to get the support she needs. The other choices are not indications that the client’s coping skills are adequate for the situation.

Question 23

A couple came to the emergency department with their 5-month-old son. He was pronounced dead of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). In the next day or two, it will be important for this couple to
A) accept that they could do nothing to prevent this death.
B) delay the grieving process until they are ready to cope.
C) minimize their discussion of the death with others.
D) plan funeral arrangements for their son.

Answer 23

D) plan funeral arrangements for their son.

Funerals are often the beginning outward sign of mourning and help begin the grieving process. This couple will need to talk about their son’s death repeatedly as they begin to grieve. It will not likely be possible for them to accept that they could do nothing to prevent this death within this time period, but they must begin to hear this. They should not delay the grieving process.

Question 24

The nurse is establishing outcomes for a grieving client. Which of the following is an appropriate outcome? A) The client will develop a plan for coping with the loss. B) The client will demonstrate self-reliance during the grief process. C) The client will suppress emotions related to the loss. D) The client will verbalize that loss will not adversely affect the quality of life.

Answer 24

A) The client will develop a plan for coping with the loss. Examples of outcomes for the grieving client are as follows: - Identify the effects of his or her loss. - Identify the meaning of his or her loss. - Seek adequate support while expressing grief. - Develop a plan for coping with the loss. - Apply effective coping strategies while expressing and assimilating all dimensions of human response to loss in his or her life. - Recognize the negative effects of the loss on his or her life. - Seek or accept professional assistance if needed to promote the grieving process.

Question 25

The nurse approaches a client who looks very sad and is sitting alone crying. The best response by the nurse in this situation is, A) ìI'm sorry you are sad. Is there anything I can do to help you feel better?î B) ìPlease don't cry. It will get better.î C) ìYou look very sad. What is happening?î D) ìWhat is bothering you?î

Answer 25

C) ìYou look very sad. What is happening?î It is essential to accept the person's feelings without trying to dissuade him or her from feeling angry or upset. The nurse needs to encourage the person to express any and all feelings without trying to calm or placate him or her.

Question 26

A woman has just been served divorce papers from her husband. She has no financial resources and little social support. She states, ìHe's not really leaving. He'll be back.î The most appropriate response by the nurse would be which of the following? A) ìHas he done this before?î B) ìI'll call social services and get you signed up for financial assistance.î C) ìYou have to face reality. Here are the papers.î D) ìHow is this affecting you right now?î

Answer 26

D) ìHow is this affecting you right now?î Adaptive denial, in which the client gradually adjusts to the reality of the loss, can help the client let go of previous (before the loss) perceptions while creating new ways of thinking about himself or herself, others, and the world. While taking in the loss in its entirety all at once seems overwhelming, gradually dealing with the loss in smaller increments seems much more manageable. Help the client shift from an unconscious mechanism of denial to conscious coping with reality by using reflective communication skills.

Question 27

An elderly woman who lives alone is beginning to have difficulty maintaining her household and performing daily tasks. The nurse asks her to identify someone who can help her. The woman replies, ìI don't need help. I've been managing for years.î Which of the following responses helps the client shift from denial to consciously coping with her situation? A) ìYou don't think you need any help? But your family is worried about you.î B) ìIt must be hard to lose your independence. I'll ask a social worker to see what can be arranged.î C) ìIf you were to need help with your house, who might you ask for help?î D) ìIf you don't ask for some help. then the only option is to move to an assisted living facility.î

Answer 27

C) ìIf you were to need help with your house, who might you ask for help?î The nurse can help the client to reach out and accept what others want to give in support of his or her grieving process. Help the client shift from an unconscious mechanism of denial to conscious coping with reality by using reflective communication skills. Do not force people through the coping process by insisting they take certain actions.

Question 28

A client who has been grieving the loss of his wife 2 weeks ago says to the nurse, ìThe best part of my day is when I am back at work. Is that wrong?î The nurse educates that work and other daily activities serve which purpose? A) ìYou cannot work effectively this soon. You should finish grieving first.î B) ìWorking reminds you of your loss. It may be too early to go back.î C) ìWorking is your way of avoiding grief, which will make it harder for you to move on.î D) ìWorking is letting you take an emotional break from grieving. There's nothing wrong with that.î

Answer 28

D) ìWorking is letting you take an emotional break from grieving. There's nothing wrong with that.î The bereaved person can often take a break from the exhausting process of grieving. Going back to a routine of work or focusing on other members of the family may provide that respite. Familiar routines can affirm the client's talents and abilities and can renew feelings of self-worth.

Question 29

Which of the following are critical components in assessment of a person's grief? Select all that apply. A) Adequate perception regarding the loss B) Adequate time to experience the loss C) Adequate support while grieving for the loss D) Adequate opportunities to say goodbye to the person E) Adequate coping behaviors during the process

Answer 29

A) Adequate perception regarding the loss C) Adequate support while grieving for the loss E) Adequate coping behaviors during the process While observing for client responses in the dimensions of grieving, the nurse explores three critical components in assessment: ï Adequate perception regarding the loss ï Adequate support while grieving for the loss ï Adequate coping behaviors during the process The time to experience the loss varies significantly from person to person, and the reality is that there may not be adequate opportunities to say goodbye to the person.

Question 30

A client comes to the physician's office for an annual checkup. During the interview, the nurse learns that the client's husband died unexpectedly of a heart attack 2 months ago. The most appropriate response by the nurse would be, A) ìAt least you and your husband enjoyed life right until the end.î B) ìIt's better to go quickly like your husband did instead of suffering.î C) ìThe loss of your husband must be very painful for you.î D) ìYou'll feel better after you get over the shock of your husband's death.î

Answer 30

C) ìThe loss of your husband must be very painful for you.î The nurse makes an empathetic response, acknowledging the client's loss. ìAt least you and your husband enjoyed life right until the end,î is judgmental. ìIt's better to go quickly like your husband did instead of suffering,î does not address the client's grief. ìYou'll feel better after you get over the shock of your husband's death,î is false reassurance. Thus, choices A, B, and D would not be the most appropriate responses.

Question 31

A woman has just delivered a stillborn baby boy. Which of the following would be the most appropriate nursing response? A) ìCan I do anything for you?î B) ìIf something was wrong, it's better this way.î C) ìYour son is in heaven with God now.î D) ìWould you like to hold your son?î

Answer 31

D) ìWould you like to hold your son?î