Law 6 - Court attention at all cost Flashcards

1
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What kind of image should you create for yourself?

A

Unforgettable
Controversial
Scandalous

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What goal do you aim for while courting attention?

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  1. To seem larger than life

2. To shine more brightly than those around you

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3
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What kind of attention should you vie for?

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ANY kind of attention (positive OR negative) is better than NO attention

“A name without fame is like fire without flame”

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What is the sequence of steps you must follow to grab people’s attention?

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  1. Do something different/odd/inexplicable/unusual
  2. Kindle curiosity
  3. Create a crowd - attention GAINED
  4. Never let go
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What should you do at the START of your career to gain attention?

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Attach your name and reputation to a quality/image that SETS YOU APART from others

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6
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Examples of qualities/images that set you apart from others

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  1. Characteristic style of dress
  2. Personality quirk that amuses people and gets talked about
  3. Enthralls people
  4. Draw attention to yourself somehow
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Should you avoid doing controversial things?

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No. Controversy/scandal should be courted. Being talked about is better than being ignored.

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8
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What is fame?

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Attention. Both positive and negative.

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What is your first big goal at the start of your career?

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To establish your IMAGE. A place in the sky for your star.

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10
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What do you learn from nobel prize shenanigans of edison?

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Never share the stage with anyone. Fame = attention, and your fame is yours and yours alone.

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What do you do for attention when you can’t draw it because no one can look?

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Attack the most visible, famous, and powerful person you can find. It puts you in the public eye.

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What do you do once you’re in the limelight?

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You do things to hold people’s attention

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13
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What is the single most important thing to do to hold people’s attention?

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NEVER be predictable

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How do you prevent yourself from being predictable?

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  1. Picasso - deliberately upset the public, go against ALL expectations.
  2. Do something ugly and disturbing (better than familiarity)
  3. Build their expectations and then completely break them
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What do you gain by not being predictable?

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  1. Their respect

2. You tighten your hold on their fleeting attention

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16
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What kinds of gestures do you do to stay in the limelight?

A

Large, amusing and scandalous

17
Q

How do you create an air of mystery?

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Be subtle.

Don't be upfront
Hold back information
Be silent
Occasionally say ambiguous things
Be deliberately inconsistent
18
Q

How should you use contradiction to add to your aura of mystery?

A

Your actions should contradict your words

Your actions should contradict others’ perception of you

19
Q

What should you do when cornered, trapped and on the defensive?

A

Do something that has multiple explanations and can’t be explained right away; makes your intentions obscure.

20
Q

What is mystery?

A

An interplay of what you reveal and what you conceal.

21
Q

In creating mystery, what should you reveal?

A

Something that excites

22
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In creating mystery, when should you conceal?

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Once you’ve revealed enough to create excitement, conceal to heighten interest

23
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When creating mystery how do you build expectation?

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Don’t declare yourself immediately; and when you explain yourself, don’t be too explicit.

24
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What should you be wary of when creating mystery?

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Never look deceitful. If your mark feels threatened, pull back. Always be playful.

25
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At what point do you pull back your quest for attention?

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  • never take attention from your superiors

- never appear OVERLY Greedy for attention

26
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How does an air of mystery engender fear?

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The uncertain and unknown draws attention, and creates an intimidating presence

27
Q

How do you make the mediocre appear intelligent and profound?

A

Do things that make no sense - Japanese chauffeur, big books, telegrams at odd hours etc.

People come to you and beg you for your attention.

28
Q

In conclusion, what are the cornerstones of building mystery?

A
  1. Silent
  2. Vague
  3. Never be explicit
  4. Unpredictable
  5. Contradictory
  6. Playful
  7. Yin and yang - hide and reveal