Facebook Flashcards
What does a computer photo indicate?
That you are lonely, low social value
Even if you have an amazing torso, should you upload that as your profile picture?
No. You can however have it as part of your albums. She is going to assume you are either not real, or you are a show off.
Change your profile picture include you doing a really cool store but your photo of your faces blurred?
Not unless your face is clearly shown. Implies he might have something to hide. Include this photo in your albums but not as a profile picture.
What type of profile picture should you have?
Something that shows how social you are. Do you want to demonstrate that you do have a life, you’re not that lonely guy who is just messaging sexy girls, and that you’re on Facebook occasionally.
Your profile photo includes women, what does this demonstrate?
Pre-selection
When you crop your profile photo of you being social, what does this accomplished?
Continues to demonstrate you are in demand without taking the focus off of you. You don’t want her thinking, “which one is he?”
If your first message to a girl is a complement of some kind, what does she do to you?
Because this is what everybody else is doing, she puts you in the category of everybody else.
If you’re opening question to a girl is generic like what are you doing for dinner, how are you, how was your day, but does this imply?
This is what everybody else is doing. Instead, look at her profile and find something she is passionate about, Make an observation, then an assumption, and relate the assumption back to you.
You notice a girl is heavily into vampire movies. Craft a opening line that makes an observation, and assumption, and related back to you.
Observation: I see you’re into vampire movies / fan of the twilight movies
Assumption: I bet you know the whole script to every one of the movies / I bet you and your friends have crazy vampire evenings
Relate it back: opinion, story, validation: never seen the movies, no men really like the movie / I watched, I hated it, tell me why you loved it
Why does observation, assumption, relation work?
It shows that you’ve taken a look at her outside of that tight bikini. The assumption replaces a question by not feeling invasive. Assumption relates it back to you better than a question can. Relating it back to you makes conversation more two way.
