All in your feels and head Flashcards
Psychosocial and Educational Terms (64 cards)
What are the Kubler-Ross stages of grief?
- Shock - initial paralysis after hearing bad news
- Denial - trying to avoid the inevitable*
- Anger - frustrated outpouring of bottled up emotion*
- Bargaining - seeking in vain for way out*
- Depression - final realization of the inevitable/emotional reaction to loss*
- Testing - seeking realistic solutions
- Accepting - finally finding the way forward/accepting reality of situation*
- = five main stages
grieving following the death of a loved one; occurs without unusual circumstances and progressed without incident
classic grief
reaction that occurs prior to loss; preparing for the eventual loss of life
anticipatory grief
loss that cannot be openly acknowledged or may not be socially sanctioned
i.e. losses involving social stigmas like suicides
disenfranchised grief
responses to anticipated or actual external disapproval, ridicule, or scorn; arises from failures to reach goals/ideals; associated with feeling of inadequacy, loss of self esteem
shame
responses of self reproach to violation of internal standards; individuals hold themselves responsible for outcome and feel that they should be punished
guilt
problem does not exist; rejecting possibility that an even happened
denial (defense mech)
re-label loss as gain; expressing a different emotion that you are feeling (smiling when sad)
reaction formation (defense mech)
canceling out a distressing experience through reverse action
undoing (defense mech)
displacement (defense mech)
find fault with others; redirecting emotions toward someone/something else
preventing yourself from feeling an emotion; putting thoughts out of one’s mind
repression (defense mech)
trying to learn as much as possible about the situation; avoiding intolerable feelings through abstract, precise thinking with little or no feeling
intellectualization (defense mech)
rationalization (defense mech)
finding reasons to explain a situation
reverting to a previous state, acting like a child
Regression (defense mech)
sublimation (defense mech)
expressing emotions through a positive or productive outlet (i.e. - working out)
blaming other people or situation for difficulties the client experiences; projecting feelings they have on somebody else
projection (defense mech)
separate feelings from thoughts about event to keep “badness”: within bounds
isolation
gather a lot of data and make generalizations based on it; confused until pattern is found
inductive reasoners (intellectual style)
deductive reasoners (intellectual styles)
have a rigid framework from which they view reality; disregard information that does not fit in the framework
can take information that confirms and challenges their framework; can absorb info quickly to make a decision; tend to neglect feelings
synthesizers (intellectual style)
confused reasonsers (intellectual style)
not less intelligent than others but have never learned how to process information; can’t differentiate between important versus trivial information
active communicators; respond easily; may use humor and denial as defenses
spontaneous emotional style
very articulate but in an intellectual way; feel emotions but deny the importance of feelings; may be impatient with those who show feelings
non expressive emotional style
express feelings to a limited extent; may take some drawing out with empathy and questions
reserved emotional style