Attraction Flashcards
It is a force that unites people, which grow into attachment that leads to commitment.
Attraction
What are the four attributes of attraction?
- Physical attraction is based on instinct.
- Physical attraction does not necessarily lead to good relationship.
- Platonic attraction is important.
- The unattainable is attractive.
What are the key components of attraction?
Physical attractiveness, similarity, proximity, and reciprocity
It can be influenced by culture, educational background, social status, etc.
Physical attractiveness
You share the same interest and opinions.
Similarity
Pertains to physical distance with other people and functional distance, as well as the time spent with each other.
Proximity
“Relationship are built on a give and take.”
It is when feelings are reciprocated.
Reciprocity
People tend to choose someone they see as their equal in ___ and ___.
Physical attractiveness and social desirability
What are the social characteristics for female?
Comfort, empathy, and social skills
What are the social characteristics for male?
Competence, leadership abilities, and work skills
Most people would claim that they are attracted to someone after a few seconds of their first encounter.
Physical attraction is based on instinct
The first physical attraction is a very poor indicator.
Physical attractiveness does not necessarily lead to good relationship
You also consider how trustworthy he or she seems to be and how loving he or she is.
Platonic attraction is important
We just want something that cannot be achieved.
The unattainable is attractive
Display a particular personality trait, including directness, determination, and power.
Alpha male
