Chapter 12 - Parents, Peers and Social Relationships Flashcards

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What view does the ecological systems theory have about development?

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Development is the result of the relationships between people and their environments

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What are the five layers of relationships that influence a child’s development?

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Microsystem
Mesosystem
Exosystem
Macrosystem
Chronosystem
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What interactions are present in the microsystem?

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Relationships with direct contact with the child -> ie variables that the child is DIRECTLY exposed to: family, peer groups, school, neighbours, religious systems

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What does the child learn/develop in the microsystem?

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Behaviour - most of the child’s behaviour is learned in the microsystem

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What kind of influences is present in the microsystem?

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Bidirectional influences

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Explain how bidirectional relationships work.

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Bidirectional relationships are the foundation for a child’s cognitive and emotional growth.

  1. Parent would actively shape the development of their child.
  2. Child actively shapes their environment
    - Their personal attributes influences responses from others
    - Children would also actively select and avoid specific environments
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What does the mesosystem consist of?

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Interconnections between the microsystems
Eg: Interactions between the family and teachers
Relationships between the child’s peers and family

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What does the exosystem consist of?

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Institutions of society that indirectly affect a child’s development

Eg: Parent’s workplace, funding for education.

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Explain how the exosystem influences a child’s development and give an example.

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The exosystem influences structures in the microsystem

Eg: Parent’s workplace (institution of society) indirectly affects a child’s development through his parents (structure in microsystem)

  • Parent works in a low-quality (?) and stressful job that features low pay, little autonomy, inflexible hours with little to no benefits
  • Inflexible hours = difficult to find time to spend with the child
  • Low pay + little to no benefits = likely to place child in inadequate childcare
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What does the macrosystem influence?

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It influences the micro, meso and exosystems by providing the values, beliefs, customs and laws of the culture in which a child grows up

Basically, it provides the cultural context in which the child grows up in.

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How do the influences of the macrosystem work?

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Influence:

  1. How parents, teachers and others raise a child
  2. The societal values, legislation and financial resources provided by a society to help families function
  3. The interactions of all other layers
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What does the chronosystem include?

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Major life transitions, environmental events, and historical events that occur during development
These specific events tend to change/transition how the child interacts with the rest.

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According to the ecological systems perspective, to change the behaviour of a troubled child, what must you change, and why?

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The family system

Each family member and family subsystem influence, and are influenced by each other’s members and subsystems. Cooperative or hostile/antisocial behaviour may have widespread effects on the system as a whole.

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Explain how the above mechanism works for:

  • Cooperative behaviour
  • Antisocial behaviour
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  1. Cooperative
    - Parents who have a good relationship with each other are more likely to be caring and supportive of their children.
  2. Antisocial
    - Parents in unhappy marriages are more likely to behave in an irritable manner to their children.
    - As a result, children exhibit antisocial behaviour, which was modelled after their parents.
    - Children’s antisocial behaviour might then intensify problems in the relationship.
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What qualities are present in a well-functioning family system?

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Achievement of equilibrium/homeostasis
Adaptability
Suitably permeable/vulnerable boundaries (determines how vulnerable a family is to outside influences)

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Why is it important for a family to achieve equilibrium/homeostasis in their functioning, and to become resistant to forces that might alter this balance?

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Routine and rituals help to establish a sense of family history, identity and tradition. This makes interactions easier and more comfortable

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How does the lack of adaptability manifest itself in a less functional family? Explain using an example.

(4 stages)

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Trigger: Parental dissension occurs
Routine: Negative pattern of interaction

Lack of adaptability/Resistance to change manifests itself in:

  • Lack of attempts to communicate rationally
  • Lack of efforts to defuse anger
  • Lack of attempts to protect others or solve problems

What does the lack of adaptability cause?

  • Becomes locked in a pattern of interactions that sustains maladaptive behaviour
  • Prevents recognition of problems, and family members might even push all blame to one single child
  • Child becomes the target of blame
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Explain how boundaries work in maintaining family systems in well-functioning families.

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They have permeable boundaries that allow members to maintain satisfying relationships both within and outside the family itself

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What are the consequences of having boundaries that are too rigid?

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  • Members might have difficulty disengaging appropriately from the family (eg during adolescence, starting college, marriage)
  • Inability to make use of resources outside the family
  • Few positive community contacts and social support, thus family might be more inclined to view their child negatively and be punitive and inconsistent with them
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What are the consequences of having too permeable boundaries in a family system?

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Family might become vulnerable to disruptions by external forces (eg intrusive in-laws, peer groups whose behaviours are at odds with the family’s standards)

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What paradigm can be used to test parental attachment?

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Mary Ainsworth’s Strange Situation Paradigm -> 5th and 8th episodes are important

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How do parents attempt to teach their children social norms and rules?

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Reinforcement and modelling

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What is the key difference between reinforcement and modelling?

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Reinforcement is knowingly used by parents -> requires conscious effort to reward/punish children for their behaviour

Modelling can occur by chance -> your children might learn something from the behaviour you exhibit, even though you may not have the intention to teach him that at that point in time

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How does reinforcement work?

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Parents will explain acceptable standards of behaviour

They will then praise/discipline their children depending on whether they conform to/violate these rules.

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How does modelling work, and how might modelling backfire?
Parents model the behaviour that they want children to adopt - Wants children to be polite to other people when interacting with them -> Parent acts in a polite manner when conversing with others in the presence of their child (acts like a demo) It can backfire when parents are inconsistent with the moral standards they apply to their own behaviour, resulting in the child exhibiting modelled behaviour that is not always desired by the parent. - Eg Parent does not want child to scold vulgarities and states this to the child -> but parent still uses vulgarities in the child's presence -> Child might think it's acceptable to use vulgarities despite what the parent says, and hence learn to use them
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What are examples of some ways that parents employ to manage aspects of their children's development that would potentially influence their social development?
Choosing the neighbourhood and home that child lives in Decorating child's room in a masculine/feminine style Providing children with toys and books Exposing children to TV Promoting child's social life and activities by arranging social events + enrolling child in social activities such as sports, art and music and other social and skill enhancement programs
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What are the 2 dimensions of parental behaviour?
Emotionality | Control
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Demonstrate how parent emotionality is crucial in the socialization process. (if the parent is warm and nurturing)
Warmth and nurturance are likely to be associated with parental responsiveness to the child's needs - The child is likely to want to maintain parent's approval and would be likely be distressed at the prospect of losing their parent's love. - Such parental behaviour makes children feel good about themselves, hence helping to dispel their anxiety and build their sense of security and self-esteem - More likely to learn, accept and internalize parental standards
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Demonstrate how parent emotionality is crucial in the socialization process. (If parent is cold and rejecting)
Threat of withdrawal of love unlikely to be an effective mechanism of socialization Hostile parents associated with high levels of tension and anxiety in the child Frequent punishment may make it difficult for the child to learn social cues that the parent is attempting to teach
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What are 2 types of control parents use on their children?
Behavioural and Psychological
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How does behavioural control work?
Setting reasonable rules Use of suggestions, reasoning and possible alternative courses of action by the parent Monitoring of child's activities
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How does psychological control work? | What consequences does this lead to?
Use of emotion-directed tactics - Guilt/shame-induction - Withdrawal of love/affection - Ignoring or discounting a child's feelings Can often lead to lower self-esteem, higher anxiety and possibly depression
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Are there any trends related to parental behaviour and a child's age?
1. As a child gains in social and cognitive competence and becomes more autonomous, parents rely increasingly on reasoning. - Child then engages more and more in active bargaining and negotiation with parents over rules and boundaries to behaviour 2. Gradual shift from parental control to self-control becomes critical for the child as he spends time out of the house - Parents' opportunities to directly monitor and control activities decline markedly in the elementary school years and even more in adolescence.
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What are the parenting styles identified by Baumrind in 1967?
Authoritarian, authoritative, and permissive
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What is the parenting style identified by Maccoby and Martin in 1987?
Uninvolved/Neglecting-rejecting
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What are the traits associated with authoritative parenting?
Emotionality - Warm and responsive Control - Involved yet unintrusive, permitted their children considerable freedom - Imposed restrictions in areas in which they had greater knowledge and insight - Parents set reasonable limits - Expect appropriately mature behaviour from children - Firm in getting children to acquiesce to their demands
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What is authoritative parenting associated with in children's development??
- Children's development of self-esteem, adaptability, competence, internalized control, popularity with peers and low levels of antisocial behaviour - Develops competence in sons - Correlated with the behaviour of energetic-friendly children, who exhibited positive, emotional, social and cognitive development
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What traits are authoritarian parenting associated with?
Harsh and unresponsive to children's needs Rigid Using power-assertive methods of control
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What are the traits associated with children of authoritarian parents?
Fearful, moody, vulnerable to stressors | Often felt trapped and angry, but also fearful of asserting themselves in a hostile environment
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Are there any gender differences present among children of authoritarian parents?
More negative outcomes for boys than girls - Sons of such parents were low in social and cognitive competence - Poor academic and intellectual performance - Unfriendly, and lacked self-confidence, initiative and leadership in their relationship with peers
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What are the traits associated with permissive parenting
Lax, inconsistent discipline and encourages children to express their impulses freely
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What are positive and negative consequences associated with permissive parenting?
Positive: produced affectionate relationships between parents and children Negative: Children exhibit impulsive-aggressive, uncontrolled and non-compliant behaviour