Chapter 2 - The Root Cause Of All Suffering Flashcards

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What is the primary subject discussed?

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The Root Cause Of All Suffering

This topic often relates to philosophical and psychological discussions.

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Who is quoted in the statement about intelligence and wisdom?

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MATSHONA DHLIWAYO

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What is the distinction made between looking around and looking within?

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Intelligent vs. wise

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Fill in the blank: One who looks around him is _______.

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intelligent

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Fill in the blank: One who looks within him is _______.

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wise

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What did Sydney Banks say about thought and reality?

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Thought is not reality; yet it is through thought that our realities are created.

This highlights the distinction between objective reality and subjective perception.

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How do individual perceptions affect our experiences?

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Each person lives through their own perceptions of the world, which are vastly different from those of others.

This suggests that our experiences are shaped by our thoughts and interpretations.

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What is an example of different perceptions in the same location?

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Two people in a coffee shop can have completely different experiences, one stressed and the other enjoying their drink.

This illustrates how the same environment can evoke different emotional responses.

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Fill in the blank: Money is technically the same thing, but it means _______ to each person.

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[something different]

This indicates that the value and meaning of money are subjective.

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True or False: People often have the same experiences when in the same location at the same time.

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False

Many individuals may experience the same events differently due to their unique perceptions.

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What does the phrase ‘Same Strangers, but different’ imply?

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It implies that even in the same situation, individuals can have vastly different experiences and perspectives.

This reflects the subjective nature of human experience.

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What can happen if you ask 100 different people what money means to them?

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You would likely get 100 different answers.

This emphasizes the subjective interpretation of concepts like money.

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What does the phrase ‘Don’t believe everything you think’ imply?

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Our thoughts and perceptions can distort reality.

It suggests that our interpretations may not reflect the truth.

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How can the meaning we assign to an event affect our feelings?

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The meaning determines how we ultimately feel about it.

This highlights the subjective nature of human experience.

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What is the relationship between perception and reality according to the text?

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We live through a perception of reality, not in reality itself.

Reality is the event itself, devoid of meaning or interpretation.

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If you surveyed 100 people about the current president, what would you likely find?

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You would get 100 different answers.

This illustrates how personal thoughts and perceptions vary widely.

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What is the primary factor that shapes our experience of life?

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Our interpretation of events.

This indicates that external events do not dictate our feelings; our thoughts do.

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True or False: The events that happen in our lives are the sole cause of our feelings.

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False.

It is our interpretation of those events that influences our feelings.

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Fill in the blank: Reality is that the event happened, with no _______.

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meaning, thinking, or interpretation of it.

This emphasizes the objective nature of reality.

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How can people in Third World countries be happier than those in First World countries?

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Their interpretation of life events can lead to greater happiness.

Happiness is not solely dependent on material conditions.

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What influences our feelings according to the text?

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Our own thinking about the events

Feelings are internally generated rather than caused by external events.

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In the hypothetical scenario, what causes stress, anxiety, and frustration?

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Hating one’s job

The individual experiences negative emotions even when not at work.

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What is the impact of thinking about work while at home?

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Creates a different perception of reality

The individual can feel miserable while others enjoy a moment together.

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True or False: External events are the sole cause of our feelings.

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False

Feelings stem from personal thoughts regarding events, not the events themselves.

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Fill in the blank: If external events caused our feelings, one would be a happy camper every time they watch a _______.
funny TV show ## Footnote This highlights the inconsistency of feelings based solely on external stimuli.
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What happens to the family dynamic when one person is preoccupied with negative thoughts?
They experience a different reality than the others ## Footnote One person's negative thoughts can overshadow shared moments.
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What is suggested about the relationship between job stress and family time?
Job stress can affect enjoyment of family time ## Footnote Even in positive settings, negative thoughts can dominate one's experience.
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What question does the author pose regarding feelings and external events?
Is it absolutely true that every single person feels the same way due to external events? ## Footnote This challenges the idea that feelings are universally caused by external circumstances.
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What can lead to completely different experiences of the same job?
How individuals think about their job
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What determines how a person ultimately feels about their job?
Their thoughts about it
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What feelings can arise from thinking about hating your job?
Stress, anxiety, and frustration
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Who would you be without the thought that you hated your job?
Happy, peaceful, free, and light
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What happens to our experience of an event when we change our thinking about it?
The experience is completely altered
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What concept does the phrase 'we live in a world of thought, not reality' suggest?
Our perception of reality is shaped by our thinking
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Fill in the blank: Our perception of reality is created from the _______.
[inside out, through our own thinking]
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What is the root cause of human psychological suffering?
Our own thinking ## Footnote This concept suggests that our perceptions and thoughts shape our emotional experiences.
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How does our perception of reality affect our feelings?
We will feel what we think, and our feelings are real ## Footnote This indicates that our thoughts directly influence our emotional states.
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What can we change to alter our feelings?
Our thinking ## Footnote Understanding that feelings stem from thoughts allows for the possibility of change.
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What is the relationship between thinking and our experience of life?
Our experience of life comes from our own thinking ## Footnote Recognizing this connection can empower us to transform our experiences.
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According to the text, how far away are we from experiencing something different?
One thought away ## Footnote This emphasizes the immediate potential for personal transformation through thought.
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When does happiness begin, according to the text?
The moment we stop thinking ## Footnote This suggests that stillness of thought may lead to greater happiness.
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What is the title of the Zen story mentioned?
A Young Monk & The Empty Boat ## Footnote This story illustrates how thinking contributes to our suffering.
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What does the text imply about the nature of reality?
Our reality is created by our thinking ## Footnote This means that our thoughts shape our subjective experience of reality.
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What is one of the most important obligations of the monks in the monastery?
Their daily routine of meditating in silence for hours at a time ## Footnote This practice is essential for their spiritual development.
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What issue did the young monk face during meditation?
He had difficulty staying focused due to various disturbances ## Footnote These disturbances included movement around him and sounds from nature.
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What question did the elder monk ask the young monk to highlight a lesson?
Do you know what is really making you angry? ## Footnote This question was intended to provoke self-reflection.
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What were some of the disturbances that frustrated the young monk?
* Someone moving around * A cat or small animal brushing past * Wind blowing and tree branches making noise * Birds chirping ## Footnote All these disturbances contributed to his agitation during meditation.
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What did the elder monk point out about the young monk's reactions to interruptions?
He becomes angrier with each interruption ## Footnote This reaction was contrary to the purpose of meditation.
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Fill in the blank: The young monk got mad because he felt ______ during meditation.
[disturbed]
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True or False: The elder monk's advice was to ignore the disturbances completely.
False ## Footnote The elder monk aimed to teach the young monk about managing his reactions.
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What did the young monk seek to avoid during his tasks?
Anger with people, animals, or disturbances ## Footnote The monk was advised to find a way to remain calm amidst distractions.
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Where did the monk first try to meditate?
At the shore of the nearby lake ## Footnote He believed it would be quieter than the monastery.
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What disturbed the monk while he was meditating at the lake?
A flock of birds ## Footnote The noise from the birds led him to open his eyes and check the disturbance.
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What solution did the monk come up with to achieve peace for meditation?
Rowing a boat to the middle of the lake ## Footnote He thought this would provide a disturbance-free environment.
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What was the outcome of the monk meditating in the middle of the lake?
He was able to meditate the whole day without disturbances ## Footnote This led to a sense of calm and no feelings of anger.
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How did the monk feel after he found the middle of the lake as a meditation spot?
Thrilled and calm ## Footnote He was pleased that he could continue his meditation practice without anger.
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Fill in the blank: The monk believed that in the middle of the lake, there would be nothing to _______.
[disturb him]
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True or False: The monk found peace immediately upon arriving at the lake.
False ## Footnote He initially experienced disturbances and anger before finding a suitable meditation spot.
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What did the monk do on the third day?
He sat in the boat, rowed to the middle of the lake, and started meditating again ## Footnote This sets the stage for the events that follow, highlighting the monk's intention to meditate in solitude.
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What did the monk hear while meditating?
He heard splashing of water and felt the boat rocking ## Footnote This indicates a disturbance during his meditation, prompting a reaction from the monk.
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What was the monk's initial reaction to the disturbance?
He started getting upset and yelled for the other boat to steer away ## Footnote This demonstrates how external factors influenced his emotional state.
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What happened when the other boat did not steer away?
The other boat hit the monk's boat ## Footnote This escalated the monk's frustration, leading to a confrontation.
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What did the monk demand to know after the collision?
He screamed, 'Who are you, and why have you hit my boat?' ## Footnote This reflects his anger and need for accountability.
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What did the monk discover when he looked at the other boat?
He found that there was no one in the boat ## Footnote This revelation was crucial for the monk's understanding of his anger.
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What realization did the monk come to about his anger?
It's not other people or situations that make him angry, but his reaction to them ## Footnote This insight is the central lesson of the story, emphasizing personal responsibility for emotions.
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Fill in the blank: The boat that hit the monk's boat was _______.
empty ## Footnote The emptiness of the boat symbolizes the absence of external blame for one's emotional state.
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True or False: The monk's anger was caused by the empty boat.
False ## Footnote This statement is false as the monk learns that his anger stems from his own reactions.
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What did the monk remember from his mentor?
His mentor's question: 'Do you know what is really making you angry?' ## Footnote This question prompts the monk to reflect on the source of his emotions.
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What did the monk do after experiencing anger?
He rowed the boat back to the shore and returned to the monastery.
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What did the monk do upon returning to the monastery?
He started meditating along with the other monks.
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How did the monk treat the noises and disturbances around him while meditating?
He treated them as the 'empty boat' and continued to meditate peacefully.
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What did the elder monk say to the young monk after observing his change?
I see that you have found what is really making you angry and overcome that.
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Fill in the blank: The monk treated the disturbances as the _______.
'empty boat'
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True or False: The young monk's reaction to disturbances remained the same after meditation.
False
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What was the young monk's emotional state before meditating?
He was angry.
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What is the significance of the 'empty boat' in the context of the monk's meditation?
It symbolizes a way to detach from disturbances and maintain inner peace.
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What lesson did the young monk learn from his experience?
He learned to identify and overcome the source of his anger.