chapter 6 self esteem and social needs

Question 1

appraisal

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an evaluation of estimate

Question 2

aptitudes

Answer 2

natural tendencies or capabilities,

Question 3

autonomy

Answer 3

the state of functioning independently

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compensation

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defense mechanism in which a substitution of some type provides temporary relief from the discomfort of an unmet need, but does not actually satisfy the need

Question 5

conformity

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tendency to be like others, to observe the conventions of the group

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empathy

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tendency to be like others, to observe the conventions of the group

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martyr complex

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psychological condition in which a person derives satisfaction from being taken advantage of by another person

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sympathy

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concern for anther person, especially one who is experiencing illness, trauma, or crisis

Question 9

Explain Social Needs

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physical needs with or without others
doing things with people help to enjoy, need people to fully enjoy
social emotional, psychological, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, recreational
satisfying relationships with other people lead to full satisfaction of the social/emotional needs

Question 10

Compare Self Concept and Self Esteem

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self-concept is all the things a person thinks are true about self, mental image of me

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realistic self-concept

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thinks of self in terms that are consistent with behavior

beh is not always an acdurate indicator of a person’s values and beliefs

Question 12

public self/private self

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the self revealed to others is inconsistent with private self - the self known only to the individual

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self concepts that are idealized or self-derogatory

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unrealistic self-concept - goals not achievable, self derogatory means overly critical and does not recognize talents and abilities, could settle for goalsless challenging than those she can achieve

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how to build realistic self-concept

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ask “what is” by appraising strengths, interests, clarifying values, identifying interests

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when does self-concept form?

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from early age until about age 6, can be modified later in life, with effort over period of time

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What affects self-concept

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all life experiences

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When is self-concept most susceptible to others

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adolescence and formative years

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how does a positive self-concept develop

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when young child has positive experiences and positive verbal interactions iwth important adults, need to hear loving staements, and non-verbal behavior

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why is discipline important

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extensive influence, if told bad then will believe hes bad

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what has influence over adol

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peer groups, pressure to conform to groups standards and values, label those who do not conform

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why is a strong self-con imp to adol

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resist pressures, stand up to beliefs, and try to gain acceptance in peer group

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What is human behavior

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an attempt to meet a need

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What is compensation

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compensation does not satisfy a basic need

its a device that provides temporary relief from the discomfort felt when basic social and emotional need is not met

Question 24

autonomy vs dependence

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struggle bw self relieance and dependence

ability to function indep without outside control

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can anyone reach complete autonomy

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social beings and welfare depends on being in a group

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when does aut vs dep reach peak

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during adolescence

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what happens if unsuccessful in figuring it out

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rebellion toward any form of autonomy

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self esteem

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feeling about self at a given period of time | related to self concept

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dif bw esteem and conc

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self esteem changes, concept is fixed and est | esteem changes base on neg and pos experiences

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influences on self esteem

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people

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when does self begin

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infancy

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autonomy or self

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begins in toddler stage and cont thru childhood family and caregivers influence sense of self teachers

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self identidy

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in adolescence, early childhood may modify aspects of self concept any intimate relationship alters

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what do you do to get out of neg situ

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avoid neg people be assertive about not accepting neg statements refuse to play emotional games learn ways to respond to communications that have neg effect

Question 35

what does success do

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teaches you to believe in your self as a person who can overcome obstacles

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failure expectation

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``` failures occur too frequently failures add self-doublt self doubt creates failure expectations failure expectation interfers with performance fail = cycle ```

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success expectation

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problem is usally lacking self confidence self confidence is a success expectatoin attitude that affects ways to attack a task

Question 38

how do you build self-confidence?

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conscious recognition of successful experience with awareness

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what personality traits are helpful in attacking tasks

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persistence and determination

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how is confidence developed

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reasonable amount of succeses and failures

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success and performance

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succ perf depends on time, sometimes careful and sometimes quickly

Question 42

developing problem solving skills

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1. identify the problem 2. collect info to help understand it better 3. consider and reconsider the problem and rewrite it 4. write down every imaginable solution, and the consequences to the solution 5. which solution if most likely to lead to desired outcome 6. evaluate the outcome

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aptitudes and goal

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goal that are in line with true interests and aptitudes are more likely to be achieved than goals set for you by soemone else

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What is self-approval

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goals are challengin, overcome obstacles, and meet gals

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Short range goals

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stepping stones along the way to longrange goals

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intermediate goals

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provide inner satisfactin and sense of achievement that help to persist to long range goal

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what does satisfying social and emotioanl needs require

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self approval and acceptance by others have to believe others believe you are worth while person need to see and hear expressions of approval from time to time need to believe others understand our pov and feelings and proglems

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what does satisfying need for accept require

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indications of approval from other people

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what do friendships require

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meet needs

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martyr complex

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self-sacrificing behavior when someone derives satisfaction from being taken advantage of by others

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why do we put up with certain behaviors

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bc it meets a need, compensation may be happiening

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what is hunger for approval

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seeking approval bc deprived of approval in early life look for compliments - seeking approval can sincerely offer comfort

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failure to offer approval

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``` fail to notice others indifferent to job wwell done see the job is done but not make comment can overcome habit of not commenting deliberately withholding apporval is usually neg response to someone ```

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appropriate use of approval

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should be given freely everyday | noticing others and unselfishly expressing approval when it has been earned

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conformity

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acting in accordance with behaviors, belief and values of a specific group lifestyle choices (dress, foods, sexual behavior) individuality not valued, perceived as rebellion by group beliefs dare to be different = excluded

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danger of conformity

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overly concerned about conformity places at risk of allwoing others to make decisions for you

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when is conformity strongest

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adolescence

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health care training and standards

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approp behav for profes | need to conform to standards and paractices

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some conformity is good

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military, when in rome

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believe people care

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more impor to you more need to believe they care | expressions of caring promote strong ties

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need for appreciation

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``` we need to believe someone appreciates us by people important to us may be thanks or gratitiude might indicate approval or caring provide sense of satisfaction ```

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absence of appreciation

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as harmful as criticism or disaproval

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interrelation of social emotional

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all behavior is caused, does not just happen | not simple enough to pinpoint one cause

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healthcare

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effective and ineffective relations with patients and families more effective by studying behavior