Charisma2 Flashcards
What does Rejection mean?
They reject “How you present yourself!”
What does this term means: Rejection is a Feedback
Rejection means “You need to improve!”
build an armored level of confidence?
By getting rejection in things we are afraid of.
Resean of being SHY
I am not perfect
Being nervous in Presentations
I am not perfect. Nobody is perfect. Every one knows!
How to improve my Charisma
To aknowledge: You cannot get to where you want except accept where you are!
Do not try get fit in
Only commit to my Values and have fun!
1- Most Fundamental mindset for Charisma
What ever happens, I will be OK ;) (No What if…)
More risk
People will naturally gravitate towards you
Character or Reputation
I care MORE about my Character than my Reputation
2- Key to gain the trust of other people
STOP investing so much effort into controlling other’s opinions ==> “You are Trustworthy and Genuine” “He is himself!”
3- Honesty and Integrity
No lies! Even small lies!
4- Belief
DO NOT convince anyone of any particular belief
How to get people to do what you want?
Do not persuade them. “I do not care what you believe!”
Neediness comes after …
Trying to convince others - When you go back and forth over the same issue over and over.
mindset of Convincing other people:
I simply ask. If yes Great! - If NO: 1- Deal 2- Keep distance
When the Charisma is destroyed
When you need something from the person
What happens when you not try to convince other people
Keep distance - Make room for the people that lift you up
5- To get more Charisma in Small talk …
Say the purpuse of your life in your small talk.
6- How to lead a group
Be the first one to do something - tell joke - say something vulnerable. “mindset: YOU WILL BE OK, when you take the social risk!”
Get Charisma in a group
GO 1-ST
Get Charisma in a small talk
Communicate your purpose
Get Charisma with friends
You don’t need to convince anyone anything!
Get Charisma with new friends
Be honest. Express your feelings. No lies!
