close to home Flashcards

(25 cards)

1
Q

why he didnt protest

“I ___ want to ___ to their _____”

nicky

A

I didn’t want to add to their troubles

hes understanding, mature

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“take ___ as your ___”

Aunty Loh

A

take here as your home

very welcoming/nice

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3
Q

I would slide the wooden frame from her hands and…

Nicky

A

push aside her sewing materials so that she wouldn’t roll over them.

shows care

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4
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“I was running late for school and had already put on my shoes, but..

Nicky

A

I slipped them off and ran to the kitchen”

shows how much he cares

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5
Q

“It was, perhaps, also my mother’s wish that I didn’t..

Nicky

A

witness how her illness had debilitated her”

so understanding, the mom cares for him

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6
Q

“It hard to follow her broken English..

Nicky

A

and i was annoyed to be disturbed”

at first it pmo but then he became close

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7
Q

“only visit ___ a ____”

Pei feng

A

only visit twice a month

despite being her daughter she dont gaf

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Q

“spoke to her in a _ manner, often _ her for being __ and __ ”

Pei feng

A

“spoke to her in a dismissive manner, often deriding her for being long-winded and bothersome”

so disrespectful

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9
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“Pei Fen’s laughter, which used to be raspy and sardonic,…

pei fen

A

was now more girlish and excitable.”

now she is so much nicer

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10
Q

“So she and Uncle Loh…

Pei fen

A

moved to Pei Fen’s place”

despite the miscarriage, which seemed to end their close relationship, she let them move in

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“pregnancy seemed to mellow her out,..

pei feng

A

and she spoke to Aunty Loh more kindly”

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12
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“Aunty Loh didn’t turn on the TV and neither did I,..

Nicky

A

as if my abstinence was a way of showing camaraderie.”

very mature, shows care

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13
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excuses

“He said he couldn’t ____ his ___, ____ my mother __ ___ ____ and ___ ___ of me.”

dad

A

“He said he couldn’t drive his taxi, ferry my mother to the hospital and take care of me”

thinks Nicky is too much work

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14
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“At ___ the next morning, Aunty Loh was already ___, _____ ____ in the kitchen. She was ____ to ____ _____”

Aunty Loh

A

“At 6:30 the next morning, Aunty Loh was already awake, preparing soup in the kitchen. She was going to visit Peifen”

contrast to the dad, she has time to do everything while also being old

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15
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“Dont give Aunty Loh, …

dad

A

any trouble, understand?”

homeboy is leaving his son and thats all he can say

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16
Q

“Ah yes yes,..

aunty loh

A

she will be fine”

shows care and understanding for nicky

17
Q

mom at hospital visits

“I ____ they might ___ ____ again”

nicky

A

I feared they might never open again

sigh so sad he goes through so much

18
Q

“Two sizes too big” —–>

dad

A

“I fix”

aunty loh

contrasting the two, aunty loh seems to shows care while dad don;t even know his son

19
Q

Aunty Loh had made – a ____ ___, ___ or ____”

aunty loh

A

a baby blanket, hat or mittens

she makes so much gifts for pei feng

20
Q

When her eyes got tired…

nicky

A

I would thread the needle for her”

so caring

21
Q

“Dont worry,..

nicky

A

I’m sure shes okay”

he is comforting aunty loh, so mature, so caring

22
Q

he was afraid that his mom would think

“Aunty Loh wasn’t able to take care of me,..

nicky

A

and send me to live with someone else”

shows how they have now formed a relationship and he wants to be with her

23
Q

“her clothes were all black,…

aunty loh

A

and she was holding on to some dirty pillow”

treasures that relationship and doesn’t want to let it go

24
Q

“Can we see her at the hospital?” —>

nicky

A

“Not now. I need to drive my taxi. Maybe later”

dad

he dont gaf

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"This time.. | nicky
in the right size" ## Footnote he remembers his dad getting the wrong size, showing that it did affect him