cmh (quality time)

Question 0

A central aspect of quality time is ___

Answer 0

Togetherness

Question 1

Quality time is giving someone your ___ attention

Answer 1

Undivided

Question 2

I do not mean just to be in close ___

Answer 2

Proximity

Question 3

Togetherness has to do with ___ attention

Answer 3

Focused

Question 4

It does mean that we are doing something ___ and that we are giving the other person our full ___

Answer 4

Together, attention

Question 5

The important thing ___ is that we are spending ___ time with each other

Answer 5

Emotionally, focused.

Question 6

The activity is just a ___ that creates the sense of togetherness

Answer 6

Vehicle

Question 7

Quality conversation means a ___ dialogue where 2 individuals are sharing their ___, ___, ___, and ___ in a friendly, uninterrupted context

Answer 7

Sympathetic, experiences, thoughts, feelings, desires

Question 8

Words of affirmation focus on what we are ___; whereas quality conversation focuses on what we are ___

Answer 8

Saying, hearing

Question 9

Many of us are trained to ___ problems and to ___ solutions

Answer 9

Analyze, create

Question 10

A relationship calls for ___ listening with the idea of understanding the other person’s thoughts, feelings, and desires.

Answer 10

Sympathetic

Question 11

Some practical tips for quality conversation: maintain ___ ___ when your spouse is speaking

Answer 11

Eye contact

Question 12

Don’t listen to your spouse and do ___ else at the same time

Answer 12

Something

Question 13

Listen for ___

Answer 13

Feelings

Question 14

Observe ___ ___

Answer 14

Body language

Question 15

Refuse to ___

Answer 15

Interrupt

Question 16

By the time we reach adulthood, many of us have learned to ___ our feelings

Answer 16

Deny

Question 17

We tend to express our ___ and not our ___

Answer 17

Thoughts, feelings

Question 18

Brief description of “the Dead Sea”:

Answer 18

Receives, does not give.
Have a large reservoir to store information.
Happy to not talk.
When asked “what’s wrong” will answer “nothing”.

Question 19

Brief description of babbling brook:

Answer 19

Whatever enters the ear or the eye gate comes out of the mouth gate.
Whatever they see or hear they tell.

Question 20

Quality activities may include anything in which one or both of you have an ___

Answer 20

Interest

Question 21

The emphasis is not on ___ you are doing but on ___ you are doing it

Answer 21

What, why

Question 22

The essential ingredients in quality activities are:
At least one of you ___ to do it
The other is ___ to do it
Both of you know ___ you are doing it – to express love by being together

Answer 22

Wants, willing, why