cmh test 2

Question 0

In other words, what you say can either ___ up a person or can ___ a person.

Answer 0

Build, destroy.

Question 1

Words that build up another person are one way to express love ___

Answer 1

Emotionally.

Question 2

All too often we allow the ___ of a marriage to dull our sense of proper communication.

Answer 2

familiarity.

Question 3

A lack of proper communication can bring ___ into a marriage.

Answer 3

Contempt.

Question 4

___ ___, or words of affirmation, are powerful communicators of love.

Answer 4

Verbal compliments.

Question 5

By giving compliments and affirmation, many times you can get people to ___ things that need to be done.

Answer 5

Do.

Question 6

The object of love is not ___ something that you want, but ___ something for the well-being of the one you love.

Answer 6

Getting, doing.

Question 7

The word encourage means to ___ ___.

Answer 7

Inspire courage.

Question 8

Every one Of us have areas in which we feel ___.

Answer 8

Insecure.

Question 9

When dating, we ___ and ___ that our future spouse can do anything. After marriage, hopefully we still ___ it. We just need to keep ___ it.

Answer 9

Believe, express, believing, expressing.

Question 10

Encouragement requires ___ and seeing the world from your spouse’s perspective.

Answer 10

Empathy.

Question 11

That means that we must first have to learn what is ___ to our spouse.

Answer 11

Important.

Question 12

Most of us have potential that we will never ___.

Answer 12

Develop.

Question 13

What often holds us back is lack of ___.

Answer 13

Courage.

Question 14

If your spouse is lashing out words of fire, the worst thing you can do is to ___ the ___.

Answer 14

Fan the flames.

Question 15

If, rather, you choose to be loving you will respond with a ___ voice and a ___ answer.

Answer 15

Soft, gentle.

Question 16

You will receive what they are saying as ___ about their ___ feelings. You will let them ___ you how they are feeling and will seek to put yourself in their shoes and see through their eyes. Then you need to speak softly and kindly express your ___ of why they feel thy way.

Answer 16

Information, emotional, tell, understanding.

Question 17

If you have wronged them, then ___ it, ___ and ask for ___.

Answer 17

Admit, apologize, forgiveness.

Question 18

That is ___ love and the type of communication you must have with someone whose primary love language is words of affirmation.

Answer 18

Mature.

Question 19

Love doesn’t keep a record of ___ ___.

Answer 19

Past wrongs.

Question 20

I am amazed at how many individuals mess up every new day with___.

Answer 20

Yesterday.

Question 21

Love makes ___ not ___.

Answer 21

Requests, demands.

Question 22

When I demand things from my spouse I become the ___ and she becomes the ___.

Answer 22

Parent, child.

Question 23

If we are to develop an ___ relationship, we need to know each other’s ___.

Answer 23

Intimate, desires.

Question 24

The way we ___ those desires is all important.

Answer 24

Express

Question 25

If they come across as ___ then we have erased the possibility of ___ and have driven our spouse away.

Answer 25

Demands, intimacy.

Question 26

If, however, we make known our needs and desires as requests, we are giving ___ and not ___.

Answer 26

Guidance, ultimatums.

Question 27

When you make demands you become a __ not a ___.

Answer 27

Tyrant, lover.

Question 28

A request introduces the element of a ___.

Answer 28

Choice.

Question 29

Your spouse may either choose to ___ to your request or ___ it, because ___ is a choice.

Answer 29

Respond, Deny, love.

Question 30

Thus, a request creates the ___ for an expression of love, whereas a demand ___ that possibility.

Answer 30

Possibility, suffocates.