cmh test 4 (final) Flashcards

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A central aspect of quality time is ___

A

Togetherness

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1
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Quality time is giving someone your ___ attention

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Undivided

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2
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I do not mean just to be in close ___

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Proximity

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3
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Togetherness has to do with ___ attention

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Focused

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4
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It does mean that we are doing something ___ and that we are giving the other person our full ___

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Together, attention

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5
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The important thing ___ is that we are spending ___ time with each other

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Emotionally, focused.

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6
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The activity is just a ___ that creates the sense of togetherness

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Vehicle

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7
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Quality conversation means a ___ dialogue where 2 individuals are sharing their ___, ___, ___, and ___ in a friendly, uninterrupted context

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Sympathetic, experiences, thoughts, feelings, desires

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8
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Words of affirmation focus on what we are ___; whereas quality conversation focuses on what we are ___

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Saying, hearing

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9
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Many of us are trained to ___ problems and to ___ solutions

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Analyze, create

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10
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A relationship calls for ___ listening with the idea of understanding the other person’s thoughts, feelings, and desires.

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Sympathetic

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11
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Some practical tips for quality conversation: maintain ___ ___ when your spouse is speaking

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Eye contact

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12
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Don’t listen to your spouse and do ___ else at the same time

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Something

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13
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Listen for ___

A

Feelings

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14
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Observe ___ ___

A

Body language

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15
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Refuse to ___

A

Interrupt

16
Q

By the time we reach adulthood, many of us have learned to ___ our feelings

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Deny

17
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We tend to express our ___ and not our ___

A

Thoughts, feelings

18
Q

The essential ingredients in quality activities are:

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At least one of you wants to do it
The other is willing to do it
Both of you know why you’re doing it, to express love by being together

19
Q

The emphasis is not on ___ you are doing but ___ you are doing it.

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What, why

20
Q

What are the 2 basic personality types?

A

Babbling brook and Dead Sea

21
Q

Brief description of butterfly and buffalo

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22
Q

Brief illustration of tin plates and fine china

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