CMH TEST 5 (final) Flashcards

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You must be ________ of someone to give them a gift

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Thinking

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Q

Something that you can hold in your hand and say, look, he or she was _________ of me

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Thinking

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2
Q

The gift itself is a _________ that thought

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Symbol

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3
Q

It doesn’t matter whether it cost _________ or not

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Money

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4
Q

What is important is the ________ that went into it

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Thought

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5
Q

Gifts come in all _______, _______, and _______

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Sizes, colors, shapes

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6
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Some are _________ and some costs the giver absolutely _________

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Expensive, nothing

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7
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To the individual who primary love language is receiving gifts, the ______ of the gifts will matter little, unless it is greatly out of line with what you can _______

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Cost, afford

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8
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Gifts can be _______, ______ or ______

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Purchased, found, made

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9
Q

A simple card or letter is inexpensive but can be _________

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Priceless

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10
Q

If you are going to be an ___ gift giver, you will have to change your __________ about money

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Effective, Attitude

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11
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Some of us have a ___________ orientation

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Spending

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12
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We feel good about _________ when we are spending money

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Ourselves

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13
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If you are a _______ you will have little difficulty purchasing gifts for your spouse

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Spender

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14
Q

Others have a ________ and ________ perspective

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Saving, investing

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15
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But if we are a saver, you will experience emotional ________ to the idea of spending money as a expression of love

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Resistance.

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16
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By saving and investing money you are purchasing _____-______ and _________ _________

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Self-worth, emotional security

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17
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You are caring for your own ___________ needs in the way that you handle _________

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Emotional, money

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18
Q

What you are not doing is ________ the emotional needs of your spouse

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Meeting

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19
Q

Gift of _______

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Self

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20
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There is a ___________ that sometimes speaks more lonely than any gift that can be held in the hand

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Intangible

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21
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It is the gift of _______ or the gift of your presence

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Self

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22
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Being ______ when your spouse need you speak loudly to the one who primary love language is receiving gifts

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There

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23
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Almost everything written on the subject of love indicates that at the ______ of love is a ______ of giving

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Heart, spirit

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24
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All five love languages changes us to give to our spouse, but for some receiving gifts invisible symbols of love speak the _________

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Loudest

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25
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Try a _____ of gifts. Start with the gift in the morning one at midday and one in the evening

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Parade

26
Q

Let ________ be your guide

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Nature

27
Q

Discover the _______ of handmade originals

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Value

28
Q

Give your spouse a gift every ______ for once a ______

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Day, week

29
Q

Keep a gift idea ____________

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Notebook

30
Q

We have long known that physical touch is a way of ____________ emotional love

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Communicating

31
Q

Physical touch is also a powerful ________ for communicating love in a marriage

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Vehicle

32
Q

Holding hands, ________, and _________ our own ways of communicating love to one spouse

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Kissing, embracing

33
Q

Without it they feel _________

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Unloved

34
Q

Physical touch can _______ or ______\ a relationship

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Make, break

35
Q

Hey tender hug communicate love and concern to any child but a ________ love and ________ to the child whose primary love language is physical touch

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Shout, concern

36
Q

It can communicate either _______ or _______

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Hate, love

37
Q

Whatever there is of me ______ within my _______

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Resides, body

38
Q

To _______ my body is to ______ me

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Touch

39
Q

To ________ from my body is to distance yourself from me __________

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Withdraw, emotionally

40
Q

Because physical touch is a tremendous _________ of love and concern

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Communicator

41
Q

In a time of ________, more than anything, we need to ______ loved

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Crisis, feel

42
Q

We cannot always change the ________ that are happening around us, but we can ________ down them if we feel loved

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Events, survive

43
Q

Auto accidents _________, and ________ thousands each year

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Cripple, kill

44
Q

___________ is no respecter of persons

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Disease

45
Q

____________ are part of life

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Disappointments

46
Q

The most important thing that you can do for your spouse during a time of crisis is to _______ them

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Love

47
Q

During this time, your ________ may mean little, but your _________ can make all the difference in the world

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Words, touch

48
Q

Each of us has an individualized ___ about money and we have various emotions associated with ___ it.

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Perception, spending

49
Q

A slap in the face is ___ to any child but it is ___ to the child whose primary love language is physical touch

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Detrimental, devastating

50
Q

A tender hug communicates love and concern to any child but it ___ love and ___ to the child whose primary love language is physical touch

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Shouts, concern

51
Q

Acts of service means ___ ___ you know your spouse would like you to do

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Doing things

52
Q

You seek to please them by ___ them, to express your love for them by___ things for them

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Serving, doing

53
Q

They require ___, ___, ___, ___, ___

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Thought, planning, time, effort and energy

54
Q

It’s probably obvious by now that what we do for each other ___ marriage is no induction how hater will do__we are married

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Before, after

55
Q

Before marriage we are a carried along by the force of the in love ___

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Obsession

56
Q

After marriage we ___ back to the people we were before

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Revert

57
Q

Our actions are influenced by the model of our ___, our ___, our perceptions of ___, our ___, ___,and ___

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Parents, personality, love, emotions, needs, desires

58
Q

It will not be the same behavior we ___ when we were caught up being in love

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Exhibited

59
Q

Love is a ___ and can’t be coerced

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Choice

60
Q

A marriage should be built on ___ and not ___

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Requests not demands

61
Q

You can’t create the ___ to love but you can create a ___ where that will grow and develop

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Will, environment

62
Q

Each of us must ___ daily to love or not to love

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Decide

63
Q

People tend to ___ their spouse most loudly in the area where they themselves have the deepest ___ need

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Criticize, emotional