Creating The Life We Want Flashcards
6 questions to create life we want
What is it u want to create
What are your strengths and abilities u have to move forward?
What skill will enhance your success on accomplishing your goal?
What supports will enhance your success?
What might get in your way as u move forward with that goal?
What would the first 3 to 5 steps toward your goal look like?
2 parts of human experience language
1st person language
Everyday nonclinical language
3 risks of not using HEL
Supports false assumptions
Creates power differences
Limits personal choice
What are some examples of hope when using Hel
Supports self determination
Puts person 1st
Focuses on strength and potential
In movement to recovery what are examples of maintenance based
Dependant
Low expectations
Illness based
In movement to recovery what are recovery based examples
Independence
High expectations
Strength based
Golden questions in trauma
What happened to u?..explores world view Vs
What’s wrong with you? Suggests a disability or problem
What happened to you explores what
World view
Whats wrong with you implies what?
Something is wrong or disorder
Difference between maintenance based and recovery based
Living in fear and Living in hope
Maintenance..dependant upon, low expectations, illness based
Recovery..independent, high expectations, strength based
What are 5 areas of a trauma informed environment?
Safety..creating environment
Trustworthiness..clear expectations w others
Choice..am I creating a choice environment
Collaboration..sharing is center of interaction
Empowerment..built up .fostering environment where ppl own strength
3core competencies
Peer support ..being w /listening
In but not of the system ..not taking on system language
Change agent..change beliefs, inspire, create new
3 things ppl maybe recovering from?
“The d list “
Diseased
Disability
Disfunction
What does it mean to be mutual ?
Your not the fixer,u share common lived experience
3 elements of cross cultural partnership?
Learning yourself ..what are my beliefs, bias
Learning cultures ..what are the cultures and languages
Learning individual..avoid assumptions
Describe culture
Shared values, behavior, traditions
3 examples of discrimination
Homophobia
Racism
Transphobia
What is the big question when using the moving through fear tool?
What would you do if you weren’t afraid?
What are u getting by staying in your comfort zone?
What are u giving up by not expanding your comfort zone?
Examples of good things about fear
Useful in questionable situations
Can keep us safe
Keeps us in a familiar place
Why is fear bad
Keeps us from leaving our comfort zone and not exploring the possibility of change.
Avoids taking risks and moving forward
What is comfort zone
A place that is known and familiar
Feels safe
We know what to expect
There is rarely any growth
What is negative self talk?
A pattern of thought that creates feelings that prevent us from achieving what we want
How does moving through fear tools inspire hope
Creates a space to explore w out feeling overwhelmed
What tool do I use to eliminate negative self talk
Moving through fear tool