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Hailey: Everything will be okay. I’m going to go out, and it’s going to be fun. Yes. Fun.

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Stella: Where do you think you’re going?

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Hailey: The city.

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Stella: With who?

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Hailey: My friends. Why do you care?

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Stella: I don’t remember you asking me permission.

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Hailey: I don’t need your permission. I’m nearly an adult.

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Stella: Nearly being the key word. Besides, you live in my house, so you abide by my rules.

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Hailey: Mhm. Those are the rules you’ll be living by in the nursing home.

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Stella: Excuse me?

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Hailey: Nothing

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Stella: Is this what you’re wearing?

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Hailey: Yes, mum.

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Stella: You’re going to attract all sorts of attention–

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Hailey: I’m not asking for any attention, mum.

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Stella: Fine, have it your way. Just promise me, you’ll be careful right?

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Hailey: Yeah, I know.

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Stella: You don’t know. You think you do but you don’t.

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Hailey: Mum leave if you’re just going to attack me.

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Stella: I’m not attacking you, Hailey, I’m just trying to get you to listen. People will try to take advantage of you.

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Hailey: I’m not an idiot, Mum. Stop treating me like one.

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Stella: That’s not what I’m saying

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Hailey: Ow [stands] what the hell is wrong with you?

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Stella: What did you do? When that boy pulled your hair?

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Hailey: (Scoffs) In middle school? Nothing, he liked me. Kids don’t know the difference between good and bad, do they?

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Stella: Of course they do. Maybe not always, but boys? They’re taught that the bad is good, that they’re entitled to push boundaries. You’ve heard it a thousand times: ‘boys will be boys.’ It’s bullshit.

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Hailey: I don’t know why you’re bringing this up now.

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Stella: Well, when that happened, what did you do?

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Hailey: I’ve already told you—there’s nothing to say!

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Stella: And this—this is what I’m talking about. You never do anything, Hailey. You just take it. You’re too nice, too scared to speak up. That’s how it starts.

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Hailey: What did you do? When that man took credit for your work, what did you do?

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Stella: [beginning to sit down] I suppose… not much. I mean what could I do? He’s my superior. I can’t disrespect him.

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Hailey: What are you talking about? He disrespected you! He stole your idea! He is the disrespectful one, not you. What did you do?

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Stella: Nothing…you don’t understand the logistics behind my job. I didn’t want to be a bitch, I’ve always been very thankful for my position, I’ve always held respect for Mitch-

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Hailey: Yeah and who got your promotion?

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Stella: That doesn’t matter-

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Hailey: What, was he promoted on behalf of you? Employee of the year on behalf of you?

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Stella: I love my job. I worked hard to get to where I am, and I did it for you. It would be stupid to give it up just because I can’t keep my mouth shut because of some silly interruptions. It’s not a big deal.

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Hailey: Don’t you find it wears on you? You’re always hammering on about not letting people take advantage of my kindness, and here you are. Awfully ironic isn’t it?

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Stella: Stop, you’re being disrespectful.

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Hailey: Oh so now you know how to tell somebody not to disrespect you?

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Stella: It’s different, Hailey.

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Hailey: Really?

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Stella: (Bitterly) Yeah…What did you do? Last week, when that man shouted at you.

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Hailey: What are you talking about? You’re imagining things.

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Stella: No I’m not.

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Hailey: It didn’t happen.

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Stella: Mrs. Martha told me, Hailey. Not my own daughter who can’t even talk to me–

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Hailey: Yeah—you freak out about everything. You’re such a, like, a weird freak about these things that happen to everyone.
Stella: I’m worried about you, you didn’t stand up-
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Hailey: What do you want from me? You want me to fight him? I’m not stupid, I’m not going to risk getting hurt.
Stella: Okay, no, but-
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Hailey: Yeah, exactly, there’s not a lot you can do but pretend you don’t hear someone who is shouting at you.
Stella: I know. But why didn’t you do something when he started to follow you? You could’ve called me. I would’ve come to get you.
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Hailey: At that moment, I didn’t feel it was the right time to call you-
Stella. You never feel like it’s the right time to call me. You’re lucky you know. Lucky that you ran into the neighbour. Lucky that Mrs Martha helped you. I wasn’t so lucky.
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Hailey: Yeah, see you’re doing this again where you want to make me feel bad for being out because of your experiences. I knew Mrs. Martha would help me, but you just want to believe I’m helpless. It makes you feel better about yourself, doesn’t it?
Stella: Don’t talk back to me, you should call me–
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Hailey: As if you would be of any help to me. What did you do, when that man on the bus wouldn’t leave you alone? What’s your excuse?
Stella: It was-
31
Hailey: What? One time, two times, what was it?
Stella: He just didn’t get the hint that I wasn’t interested in him.
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Hailey: Yeah, and he started to take your route all the time so he could get closer to you–
Stella: Stop.
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Hailey: What? What did you do?
Stella: I changed route. I didn’t know what else to do.
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Hailey: How are you going to lecture me when you can’t even face your own problems? You’re just hiding behind your ‘advice’.
Stella: It’s... this makes me sad, Hailey. You’re too quick to dismiss me and label me as out of touch. You don’t understand where I'm coming from, you’re too…
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Young?
Sorry. I’ve been thinking about that a lot lately, you know. This week, I haven’t been able to stop thinking about how old I’ve gotten.
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Hailey: Old? You’re 31. Is this all because you finally stopped getting carded?
Stella: No, I am getting old. If you stop and think about it, every second you’re older than the second before. My whole life people have been saying I’m too young. Too young to drop out at 14. Too young to smoke when I was 15. Too young to be pregnant at 16, with you.
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Hailey: Yeah, well, I get it. People really love inserting themselves, don’t they?
Stella: It pissed me off. I mean, you’re not wrong about them thinking they have this amazing opinion. Funny, considering it wasn’t their business, but I kind of miss it. In a weird way. Nobody tells you you’re too young when you’re 31. Instead, I’m sitting here, with my daughter, having to lecture her about being too young.
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Hailey: (rolling her eyes) Yeah, see that’s the thing, right? Who decided you’re suddenly supposed to be viable for advice? You think you’ve got it all figured out, like you’re entitled to tell me what I should be doing, or when I should know better.
Stella: Hailey–
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Hailey: It’s like every time I try to take a step, you’re there, ready to remind me about how I’m not there yet in my own life. It’s rude. Really rude. And condescending, honestly. It’s like you think I’m this half-person just because I haven’t hit whatever age milestone you think matters.
Stella: I know it’s easy for you to look at it that way. But I don’t do this with any sort of condescending intent, I want to be able to support you in some way.
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Hailey: Yeah, well, I just want space to mess up without feeling like I’m on trial every time I do something you don’t agree with.
Stella: And I get that, but I draw the line when screwing up means compensating your safety. I don’t want you ending up in a situation that you can’t handle, Hailey.
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Hailey: (scoffs) You don’t trust me to handle anything.
Stella: It’s not about trust. You’re my kid. I’m not going to just—
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Hailey: I’m not a kid who needs you to swoop in every time something happens.
Stella: I’m not saying you are. But when I hear about things, it’s like you’re just letting them happen...
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Hailey: (rolling her eyes) Letting them happen? Wow…like, at this point, I don’t know what you want me to do, okay?
Stella: Well, not everyone’s going to help like Mrs. Martha did. Are you going to pretend it’s nothing?
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Hailey: No. I just don’t make a big deal out of everything.
Stella. You need to get better at avoiding danger–
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Hailey: And how do you suggest I do that? Call you every time some random guy gets too close? What do you want me to do, Mum, just freak out about everything that happens to me?
Stella: I’m not trying to make it the end of the world. I’m just... trying to be here. And you don’t trust me enough to help you. I don't know how to help you.
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Hailey: (walking away to grab her bag) It’s not about trust. I just... I don’t need you in my face about every little thing. I’m fine. Just... stop worrying so much. I’ll change my outfit, okay? Is that what you want?
Stella: It’s not just about the outfit. It’s about you.
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Hailey: I’ll change. (pauses, looks over her shoulder) But I’m leaving now.
Stella: (looking over her shoulder) Call me when you’re coming home.