Emotional Maturity Flashcards
Reactive (Life happens to me)
Proactive (I make choices)
Act out emotions
Act on emotions
OR
generate emotions in order to
lead change in others
Governed by habit
Governed by Vision/Purpose
Come from fear/scarcity
Come from love/abundance
“Have to” motivation
“Choose to” motivation
Getting (self-centered)
Giving (other-centered)
Evitar el fracaso, rechazo, incomodidad
Apostar por el crecimiento personal
En vez de buscar la seguridad y la autoprotección
Salgo de la zona de comfort
Separación
/alienación respecto a los demás
Unidad y entendimiento con los demás
Vivir en el pasado o en el futuro
Vivir en el presente
differences in the mindset of someone who is acting emotionally immature vs. mature
10 cosas:
- Proactive (I make choices)
- Act on emotions
- Governed by vision/purpose
- Come from love/abundance
- “Choose to” motivation
- Giving (other-centered)
- Step outside comfort zone
- Seek growth
- Unity/goodwill with others
- Live in the present
When maturity grows?
en los momentos pequeños, no en las grandes ocasiones.
It’s not in the grand decision of what college you selected, but in how hard you studied on a certain given evening just before finals. It’s not in the grand decision of which job offer you accepted, but in the thousands and thousands of split second decisions you made afterwards as you balanced a file of reports in one hand and a phone and a pen in the other. It’s not in the grand decision of how you proposed, or even, for the most part, who you proposed to, but in the millions of moments in your married life since then, when you were tired, irritable, or overwhelmed by the worries of life.
Devenir
En la vida siempre ocurren acontecimientos que modifican las circunstancias.
La necesidad de adaptación a ello es una constante invariable.
How’s life
Life is difficult and challenging, nothing wrong when change or bad happens.
