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Question 1

Strengths of Latino

Answer 1

-familism (family highly valued, viewed as sacred)
-children highly valued
-religion is BIG (Catholic)
-provide support for each other (collectivistic)

Question 2

Strengths of Asian American

Answer 2

-both nuclear and extended family important
-filial piety (respect for elders)
-high value on education
-well disciplined children
-extended family support (if financial problems come up)
-family loyalty

Question 3

6 qualities of strong families SPAACE

Answer 3

Appreciation and affection- caring, respect, playfulness, friendship
Commitment- trust, honesty, dependability etc
Positive comm- compliments, sharing feelings, avoid blame, compromise
Enjoyable time together- quality time, enjoy each other company, fun times
Spiritual well being and shared values- hope, faith, share ethical values
Ability to manage stress and crisis- adaptable, grow together, openness to change

Question 4

Couple and Family Map (cohesion)

Answer 4

Cohesion- feeling of emotional closeness with another person

4 types- disengaged (very separate), connected (more separate than together), cohesive (more together than separate) , enmeshed (super high togetherness)

Question 5

Couple and Family (flexibility)

Answer 5

Flexibility- amount of change that occurs in leadership, role relationship, and rules

4 types- rigid (STRICT), structured (sometimes shared), flexible (often shared), chaotic (very lenient)

Question 6

Couple and Family (communication) CSLDR

Answer 6

Communication- smoothes friction in relationships

6 types- listening skills, speaking skills, disclosure, clarity, staying on topic, respect & regard

Question 7

Sternberg’s eight types of love FCIRCLE

Answer 7

Nonlove- none of these
Liking- I
Infatuation- P
Empty- C
Romantic- I and P
Fatuous- C and P
Companionate- C and I
CONSUMATE- ALL <3

Question 8

love triangle theory

Answer 8

Passion- physical chemistry
Intimacy- share feelings, disclosure
Commitment and decision making- stay, endure tough times

Question 9

Six Traits of Love

Answer 9

Compassion
Compromise
Trust
Intimacy
Mutual Respect
Understanding

Question 10

Factual Determinants (CFT)

Answer 10

facts of persons life…
events- adopted/child abuse/death/divorces
socioeconomic standing
ethnic background

Question 11

individual psychology (CFT)

Answer 11

includes…
-psychopathology (mental illness)
-individuation (separate yet connected)
-differentiation (autonomous vs automatic)
-capacity to mourn and cope

Question 12

systemic transactions (CFT)

Answer 12

includes…
- role assignments (hero, rescuer, rebel, adjuster)
- power alignments
-generational boundaries
-triangulation
-enmeshment
-cutoffs

Question 13

relational ethics (CFT)

Answer 13

What is the balance of give and take between family members?
What are the visible and invisible contributions of each family member?

Question 14

Destructive Entitlement

Answer 14

A person unconsciously believes that he or she is entitled to be unfair toward innocent people because he or she has been treated unfairly by others.

examples- lack of affection, discipline, shaming

revolving slate- pattern continues across generations

Question 15

Parentification:

Answer 15

“When a parent’s support and respect for a child’s personality growth is obscured by goals that are essentially possessive and self-serving.”

Question 16

rejunction

Answer 16

To move the family in the direction of ethical fairness through the process of responsible dialogue, which includes self-delineation, self-validation and due crediting.

Question 17

healthy families do 4 things (Beavers Timberlawn Model)

Answer 17

1) nourish interpersonal ships both in and out the family
2) recognize that members affect everyone
3) simple explanations frequently misrepresent complex events
4) promote self efficiency/acknowledge some things beyond human control

Question 18

5 dimensions of healthy fam functioning

Answer 18

1) family structure (boundaries and power)
2) family mythology “we all get along great..”
3) goal directed negotiation
4) autonomy
- clarity of expression
-responsibility
-invasiveness
-permeability (receptive to others ideas)
5) family affect (range of feelings, mood/tone, irresolvable conflict)

Question 19

6 dimensions of healthy family (McMaster Model)

Answer 19

-Problem Solving
Instrumental: finances, food, shelter, transportation, and clothing.
Affective: Emotional and Relational
-Communication
-Family Roles
-Affective responsiveness
-Affective involvement
-Behavior Control (4 TYPES)
rigid
laissez faire
flexible
chaotic

Question 20

8 factors for true friendship MATURESC

Answer 20

enjoyment
acceptance
respect
trust
mutual assistance
confiding
understanding
spontaneity

Question 21

add 4 Christian perspectives to the 8 factors of friendship

Answer 21

unselfishness
confession
forgiveness
honesty

Question 22

recipe of real love

Answer 22

christian friendship + passion + commitment

Question 23

commitment to…

Answer 23

relationship
love
God

Question 24

commitment to relationship

Answer 24

constraint commitment (finance, kids)
personal dedication (willing to invest/sacrifice

Question 25

To love… aka

Answer 25

agape

Question 26

intimacy triangle

Answer 26

God at top
husband and wife in corners
“as you both grow closer to God, you grow closer together”