Exam 2 Flashcards
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what percent of parents find adolescence to be the most difficult stage of parenting
2/3
at what stage is marital and life satisfaction at its lowest?
when kids are adolescents
what is reported by parents during adolescence?
more psychological distress and more intense mid-life identity crisis
why does the adolescence of children have these effects on parents
- complementary developmental challenges
- financial pressure
- adolescents greater desire for time outside family
- transformation of family image of child with pubertal maturation
- differing conception of authority and rules
what is the domain theory
theory that boundaries are drawn around domains of social rules
what are the 3 social reasoning domains
-moral (moral judgments)
-conventional (social convention)
-personal (personal choices)
describe moral judgments
prescriptive judgments of harm and justice
describe social convention
regulations to govern social organizations
describe personal choices
private behavior that has implications only for self
how should parents and teens come to an agreement on how to sort the rules
- hold fast and advocate for the moral point of view
- negotiate household conventional rules
- give wide latitude to personal domain
when does the shift in family relations occur for kids?
it begins in early adolescence
how does family relations shift for a teenager?
they begin to move away from asymmetrical lines of influence and towards more equal footing
early adolescence is a time of _____________________________
temporary disruption in family relationships
how do early adolescents try to shift balance of power
they use a more forceful role (ex: interrupting parents) to shift power, but parents may not be responsive
how do middle adolescents try to shift balance of power
they do not assert opinions by interrupting. They begin to have more influence over family decisions
what must family members share in order to be able to adapt
they must have a shared sense of what they are experiencing
Do family members tend to have a shared sense of experience?
Not necessarily because teens can rate a mother’s behavior as more negative than the mother or researcher. They also tend to be more sensitive (over-react) to emotional signal of others
what is one example of how teens may be sensitive to the emotion of others?
teens experience “serious” parents’ voice as “anger”
what role does puberty play in family system
can cause unbalancing
what are some of the behavioral effects of puberty on the family system?
- more distancing and feeling less close
- Distancing but not “storm and stress”
Are rates of outright conflict dramatically higher during or before or after the puberty stage?
Neither, the rates are about the same during all three stages
is the distancing that occurs during puberty permanent?
No, it is temporary and relations will become less conflicted and more intimate over time
what did teens who reported more conflict with parents deal with?
they had more problems in later adolescence and early adulthood
what is the causal direction of family conflict and problems
family conflict leads to more problems