Sparta:
Not all men from sparta came from sparta, so the spartan men know more about the women role.
The women are meant to be mothers. They needed to give birth of warriors. They were trained to be strong to prepare for giving birth. They had cultural education as well, they received education that men did not such as: poetry, chorus stuff, and musical instruments. They were also trained to be competitive, so they had contests for choral contests, etc.
Spartan women would also be encouraged to be more asertive than typical greek women. They were encouraged to speak in public. There were female poets and philosophers. They received physical training. They also learned domestic stuff like weaving, but they were more of the one that was in charge of the household more than doing chores.
In terms of sports they would compete among each other. They did running, wrestling, discus, javelin, etc. Girls would compete in festivals. Girls and women would compete athletically. A lot suggest that they competed in nude, or a dorian peplos (woman's wrap with slit along the side for freedom of movement)
Home life: growing up girls live at home with mothers. (boys get shipped off for training). She has a lot of time with mom. Growing up there is not a lot of interactions with the opposite sex. Arranged marriage around 18 (which is late, bc most get married after puberty). They wanted to wait so they are more sexual mature because they wanted stronger babies. The women still lived at home with their children.
Sex life: married women could have sex with other married men. Unmarried men could borrow married women for making babies. Its legal under certain circumstances: older guy, younger girl, arranged married, he allows a younger guy to have sex with her for a better healthier baby. Men that did not want to get married, they ask other guys to have sex with their women. Incentives for women: multiple sons got special privileges. Male children were inspected at birth to make sure they are physically fit, if not they were left to die; unknown for girls, but there should have because they both have to produce a healthy child.
Wealthy women: women could own property and inherit land. Controlled use of their land and income from it. Men were so preoccupied with fighting that women took this role. They also kept the land after divorce, managed household slaves, generally did not do chores, but they could NOT participate in politics.
Athens:
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Life at athens was not as great as it was in sparta. Many women in athens married athenaean men, were almost treated as slaves. They would be able to go outside of the house for food, but they did a lot of slave work. One step up: second class: Metics are considered resident aliens. They worked in business/trades. They were able to own their own stands to trade, but at the same time they were heavily taxed. They cant vote or participate in politics.
Third class: were considered the athenaean women. The forth class were considered the hetairai: they were the high class. They received education, and they were high class prostitutes. They were expected to be well educated with the male customer, that’s why she needed to learn. They performed sexually, and were well educated.
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Citizen women: education was largely in domestic skills not expected to read and write. Largely segregated from boys in childhood. Had important roles in religious festivals, we have evidence of sculptures and art work that they did this. Had contact with other girls/women in the neighborhood.
Panathenaia: all athens festival
Every year they would replace the dress of the sculpture
Marriage: they were arranged by fathers. Brides learned domestic duties in months before. Important religious rites took place on night before marriage: ritual baths, hymns to hymen, god of marriage. Ceremony procession to groom's house. Then formal consummation in wedding chamber.
Contracts were between groom and father of bride. Dowry(property/ money brought to husband by bride) went to paternal uncle. P.u. could find her a new husband or take her in a as his own wife, if necessary. Married life for women= staying indoors, domestic work, having kids.