Exam 3 Flashcards

1
Q

love (inclusion)

A
emotional
physical
relational (personal, collective)
spiritual
cognitive
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2
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exclusion

A

familiar versus sexual

incest taboo

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3
Q

The language of love creates ____________

A

our understand of love

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4
Q
106-135
86-105
66-85
45-65
15-44
A
extremely passionate
passionate
average
cool
extremely cool
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5
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What is the two component theory of love?

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A state of intense physiological arousal followed by:

Application of a label “love” to that sensation

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6
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The emotional component. Closeness, bonding, mutual understanding, sharing

A

Intimacy

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7
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Motivational component. Physical attraction, sexual expression.

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Passion

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8
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Cognitive component. Short term decision to love, long term decision to maintain relationship.

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Commitment

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9
Q

Sternberg’s Triangle.. Draw it bitch

A

Liking
intimacy

Romantic love companionate love

infatuation - passion commitment - empty love
fatuous love

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10
Q

What is stimulated by norepinephrine and PEA?

A

the brain

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11
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Explain the chemistry of love..

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Brain stipulated by norepinephrine and PEA.. Natural stimulant produces feelings of elation and euphoria - can’t eat or sleep.. Body build up a tolerance - may lead to ‘fixing’ on love.
brain stimulated by endorphins, act as tranquilizers. Oxytocin produces during cuddling and physical intimacy..

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12
Q

What often prevents break ups?

A

Oxytocin

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13
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What are some cross culture values/meaning of love?

A

Individualistic cultures

Collectivist Cultures

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14
Q

Being an effective communicator:

A

Good messages, levelling, editing

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15
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Listening:

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Paraphrasing, Validating, Drawing your partner out

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16
Q

Elements of our sexuality that are socially constructed:

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Gender, sex, values/morals, expectations, physical pleasure/desire, power/control, love

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17
Q

Compulsive sexual behaviour:

A

disorder in which the person experiences intense sexual arousing fantasies, urges and associated sexual behaviour

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18
Q

Crane’s four step cycle:

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Preoccupation
Rituals
Compulsive Sexual Behaviour
Despair

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19
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Why to people become fetishists according to learning theory?

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classical conditioning to an object as sexual

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20
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Why to people become fetishists according to Cognitive theory?

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perception of arousal is distorted

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21
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Why to people become fetishists according to Addiction theory?

A

Preoccupation
Rituals
Compulsive sexual behaviour
despair

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22
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A person who derives sexual satisfaction from inflicting pain on another person:

A

Sadist

23
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A person who derived sexual satisfaction from experiencing paint:

A

Masochist

24
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Use of physical or psychological restraints to enforce servitude

A

Bondage and discipline

25
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The use of power consensually given to control the sexual stimulation and behaviour of other person

A

Dominance and submission

26
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A person who becomes sexually aroused from secretly viewing a women who is a stranger undressing

A

Voyeurism.. peepers.

27
Q

Sexual pleasure is derived from observing sexual acts and the genitals

A

Scoptophilia

28
Q

High level of sex drive in women

A

Nymphomania

29
Q

insatiable sex drive in a man

A

Satyriasis

30
Q

excessive, insatiable sex drive in either man or women.. compulsive sexual behaviour

A

Hypersexuality

31
Q

Asphyxiophilia

A

… arousal and orgasm are intensified by reduced oxygen

32
Q

disorder found mainly in men; desire to damage or soil a woman or her clothes

A

Saliromania

33
Q

Sexual pleasure from contact with feces

A

Coprophilia

34
Q

rubbing ones genitals against non consenting person

A

frotteurism

35
Q

sexual satisfaction from contact with urine

A

urophilia

36
Q

sexual contact with a dead person

A

Necrophilia

37
Q

Bestiality; sexual contact with an animal

A

Zoophilia

38
Q

what percentage of women over 18 are sexually assaulted by a man since the age of 16?

A

39%

39
Q

What section of the charter defines sexual assault?
sexual assault with a weapon?
aggravated?

A

271
271
273

40
Q

Are you always legally allowed to consent to sex?

A

Yes, if you are over the age of 16

41
Q

venting rage and contempt for women - usually injury the victim, typically does not orgasm

A

anger rape

42
Q

focus on control, usually planned, repetitive and increase in frequency. Feels insecure.

A

Power rape

43
Q

ritualistic violence, torture and mutilation, heavy use of violent pornography

A

Sadistic rape

44
Q

Someone to preform sexual acts on in prison is called what?

A

punk

45
Q

5 sexual aggressive heterosexual male tendencies

A
violent home environment
delinquency
predatory orientation
hostile masculine personality 
lack of empathy/self centeredness
46
Q

Who are sex workers?

A

prostitutes, pornographic models and actors, escorts, phone sex operators

47
Q

Gigalo vs Hustler

A

Gigalo - male provide to female.. Hustler male to male

48
Q

How much is sex tourism worth?

A

20 billion

49
Q

something that is offensive according to community standards

A

obscenity

50
Q

feminist objections

A
pornography debases women
associates sex with violence
glamorizes unequal power relationships
structure of industry in problematic
gender roles
51
Q

online dating:

A

growing proportion is single
career and time pressure
single people highly mobile
workplace romance not always suitable

52
Q

What are the three criteria for abnormality

A

bizarreness, discomfort,inefficiency

53
Q

What is Carnes four step cycle?

A

Preoccupation, rituals, compulsive sexual behaviour, despair

54
Q

mark Griffith

A

Salience, mood modification, tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, conflict, relapse