Exam 3 Flashcards

(54 cards)

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love (inclusion)

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emotional
physical
relational (personal, collective)
spiritual
cognitive
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exclusion

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familiar versus sexual

incest taboo

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3
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The language of love creates ____________

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our understand of love

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4
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106-135
86-105
66-85
45-65
15-44
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extremely passionate
passionate
average
cool
extremely cool
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What is the two component theory of love?

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A state of intense physiological arousal followed by:

Application of a label “love” to that sensation

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The emotional component. Closeness, bonding, mutual understanding, sharing

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Intimacy

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Motivational component. Physical attraction, sexual expression.

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Passion

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8
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Cognitive component. Short term decision to love, long term decision to maintain relationship.

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Commitment

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9
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Sternberg’s Triangle.. Draw it bitch

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Liking
intimacy

Romantic love companionate love

infatuation - passion commitment - empty love
fatuous love

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10
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What is stimulated by norepinephrine and PEA?

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the brain

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Explain the chemistry of love..

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Brain stipulated by norepinephrine and PEA.. Natural stimulant produces feelings of elation and euphoria - can’t eat or sleep.. Body build up a tolerance - may lead to ‘fixing’ on love.
brain stimulated by endorphins, act as tranquilizers. Oxytocin produces during cuddling and physical intimacy..

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12
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What often prevents break ups?

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Oxytocin

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13
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What are some cross culture values/meaning of love?

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Individualistic cultures

Collectivist Cultures

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14
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Being an effective communicator:

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Good messages, levelling, editing

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15
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Listening:

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Paraphrasing, Validating, Drawing your partner out

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16
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Elements of our sexuality that are socially constructed:

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Gender, sex, values/morals, expectations, physical pleasure/desire, power/control, love

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17
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Compulsive sexual behaviour:

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disorder in which the person experiences intense sexual arousing fantasies, urges and associated sexual behaviour

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18
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Crane’s four step cycle:

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Preoccupation
Rituals
Compulsive Sexual Behaviour
Despair

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Why to people become fetishists according to learning theory?

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classical conditioning to an object as sexual

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Why to people become fetishists according to Cognitive theory?

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perception of arousal is distorted

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21
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Why to people become fetishists according to Addiction theory?

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Preoccupation
Rituals
Compulsive sexual behaviour
despair

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22
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A person who derives sexual satisfaction from inflicting pain on another person:

23
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A person who derived sexual satisfaction from experiencing paint:

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Use of physical or psychological restraints to enforce servitude

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Bondage and discipline

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The use of power consensually given to control the sexual stimulation and behaviour of other person
Dominance and submission
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A person who becomes sexually aroused from secretly viewing a women who is a stranger undressing
Voyeurism.. peepers.
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Sexual pleasure is derived from observing sexual acts and the genitals
Scoptophilia
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High level of sex drive in women
Nymphomania
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insatiable sex drive in a man
Satyriasis
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excessive, insatiable sex drive in either man or women.. compulsive sexual behaviour
Hypersexuality
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Asphyxiophilia
… arousal and orgasm are intensified by reduced oxygen
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disorder found mainly in men; desire to damage or soil a woman or her clothes
Saliromania
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Sexual pleasure from contact with feces
Coprophilia
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rubbing ones genitals against non consenting person
frotteurism
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sexual satisfaction from contact with urine
urophilia
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sexual contact with a dead person
Necrophilia
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Bestiality; sexual contact with an animal
Zoophilia
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what percentage of women over 18 are sexually assaulted by a man since the age of 16?
39%
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What section of the charter defines sexual assault? sexual assault with a weapon? aggravated?
271 271 273
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Are you always legally allowed to consent to sex?
Yes, if you are over the age of 16
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venting rage and contempt for women - usually injury the victim, typically does not orgasm
anger rape
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focus on control, usually planned, repetitive and increase in frequency. Feels insecure.
Power rape
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ritualistic violence, torture and mutilation, heavy use of violent pornography
Sadistic rape
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Someone to preform sexual acts on in prison is called what?
punk
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5 sexual aggressive heterosexual male tendencies
``` violent home environment delinquency predatory orientation hostile masculine personality lack of empathy/self centeredness ```
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Who are sex workers?
prostitutes, pornographic models and actors, escorts, phone sex operators
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Gigalo vs Hustler
Gigalo - male provide to female.. Hustler male to male
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How much is sex tourism worth?
20 billion
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something that is offensive according to community standards
obscenity
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feminist objections
``` pornography debases women associates sex with violence glamorizes unequal power relationships structure of industry in problematic gender roles ```
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online dating:
growing proportion is single career and time pressure single people highly mobile workplace romance not always suitable
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What are the three criteria for abnormality
bizarreness, discomfort,inefficiency
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What is Carnes four step cycle?
Preoccupation, rituals, compulsive sexual behaviour, despair
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mark Griffith
Salience, mood modification, tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, conflict, relapse