family and parental responsibilities' Flashcards
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definition of a family
the family is a basic unit of society, a group of people consisting of 1 or two parents who are usually related and love and care for eachother
responsibilities of a family
meeting primary needs; food, clothing ,shelter, warmth and opportunities for rest and sleep
providing love and nurture; children need to feel oved and learn how to love; need reliable people in their life who show affection and warm and enjoy receiving love in return
teaching socialization; families introduce children to their culture, meaning their child will learn about
social behavior; what is expected from them
customs; things people do due to tradition
values : accepted living standards or principles of a specific group
all children and families need
good quality core public services, health and education
safe places to play
decent housing
leisure opportunities
inclusive community, free of crime and antisocial behavior
parents role
provide an income
love, care and provide stable home for children
take care of elderly relatives
set a good example for children so they became socially acceptable and discipline of necessary
spend time with children
take care of garden
manage organize household tasks
act as role model
child’s role
respectful, obedient and do best at school
become more responsible and independent as they get older
help around house
look after younger children
grandparents role
provide love and support
talk about family culture
provide support and advice
look after children when parents are unable to do so
parents influence physical development
feed child healthy balanced diet
help their child prevent obesity and exercise
provide child with toys to develop their manipulative skills
develop bed time routine so they get recommended amount of sleep per night
parents influence intellectual development
read books to child, help with development of vocabulary, understanding of situations, numbers and colours
take child to different places
roleplay with child
play games with child which can develop a child’s memory’s
emphasize importance of learning and education
parent influence emotional development
encourage child to be independent
provide nurturing secure environment
discuss situations a child may be worried about
read books with child
act as a role model
celebrate achievements
parents influence social development
share family traditions and stories
sign child up to clubs
have dinner together teaching children manners and how to listen to others
invite child friends over this can improve child’s confidence with others
encourage good manners and be a role model by using please and thank you
Grandparents influence physical development
play outside with children
ensure child receives healthy balanced diet to grow and develop
help child’s manipulative skills by playing with block’s and jigsaws
grandparents influence intellectual development
share stories about family history
may learn a skill of gain an interest as they spend more time with grandparents
take grandchild to different places, teach child about the world around them
learn new words from grandparents as they may use more traditional vocabulary than parents
grandparents influence emotional development
children can learn and respect grandparents
dedicate time for grandchild
be a trusted role model for child
provide a nurturing, stable, safe and secure environment, helping child feel more confident
provide encouragement and support for their grandchild
Grandparents influence social development
learn how to talk to adults
set a good example use please and thank you
be positive role models by teaching them morals, manners and sharing their life experiences
teach grandchildren right from wrong and encourage good behavior
siblings influence physical development
younger child may try to model their older sibling
may be more willing to try an activity if older sibling does it first
they will have a partner to play with
siblings influence intellectual development
may hear their sibling use words which are new to them , develop speech
role play together
read books to younger sibling
siblings influence emotional development
provide emotional support for brother or sister
there can be rivalry between siblings
older sibling may be caring and helpful towards their younger sibling by understanding their emotions
siblings influence social development
younger child may observe and imitate their siblings actions
share their toys
younger child may play and talk to older siblings friends, teaching them how to communicate with different age groups
take on role of leader when playing with younger siblings
teach child to understand others points of views
relationship between partners
A secure loving relationship, couples need to be mature enough to provide more their child and make decisions together about discipline and education
changing relationships, relationship no matter how stable will be affected when there is a new family member, father may feel neglected or left out when mother is caring for new-born. may be anxious and a tiring time, nay be periods of sleepless nights
problems in relationships, sometimes couples who are having relationship problems in hope it may improve their relationship.
money
financial support, studies show parents can expect to spend 20% of income on child. includes food, clothes, equipment, nappies and infant formula if mother is not breastfeeding.
cost of childcare; as child grows, extra expenses such as holiday, gifts, parties and leisure activities need to be planned for
Parental age
women have less choice than men because as women get older ability to conceive diminishes and quality of eggs deteriorate. once she goes through menopause she is no longer able to have children. men are physically capable of fathering into old age
biological urge, many women feel a strong biological urge to become mothers, this is referred to the body clock ticking usually occurs in a woman’s late 20s early 30s
fertility falls off dramatically after age of 40, they may find this difficult to understand and fearful of what fatherhood brings fear of loosing partner to baby
couples are increasingly having children later in life, number of women choosing to have families later in life has risen since 1990s
this trend is stronger in women with better educational qualifications with postponing child rearing in order to achieve financial security, others do not meet the right partner until later life
changes in lifestyle
financial constraints
less freedom to do as they please
babies need constant care until they reach independence
peer pressure social expectations
romantic ideal; young women may have friends with a cute baby, this may give them an idealistic view on motherhood
grandparents; feel pressure from own parents, drop hints about wanting to be grandparents
work; unhappy at work wight find prospect of motherhood appealing
personality
gives child opportunity to develop skills, talents, abilities, rights, beliefs and how to express themselves
Article 14(freedom of thought, belief and religion” states “every child has the right to think and believe and practise their religion, as long as they are not stopping other people from enjoying their rights. Government must respect the rights of the parents to give their children information about this right”
Article 29(goals of education) “Education must develop every child’s respect for human rights, as well as respect for their parents, their own cultures, and the environment
parents have responsibility to encourage any talent the child has, take them to various clubs and lessons such as football and violin lessons.