Final Flashcards by Jessica Rodriguez

____ loss of control in the 20th century

Parental

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I’m the 20th century how did dating change from formal to informal? (2)

parents no longer met date

- dating and talking instead of asking permission

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I’m 20th century what did birth control do? (2)

made it easier for informal relationships

- liberated sexuality

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Did arranged marriage still occur in the 20th century?

Yes

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Patriarchy and dating - (2)

men ask (his control)

- women wait

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Marriage has ___, while living together had ____

Declined, increased

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As explained, domesticity is a canon. Which means -

A norm or a principle

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Domesticity reflected -

A shift from women working outside of home, to being responsible for the home

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Domesticity was practiced during the mid-19th century for what class?

Middle, white families only

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Childhood is -

Culturally and historically constructed

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After industrialization, what happened to children?

Middle class, white - stayed at home, taken care for by moms

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How were children seen before industrialization bs after?

Before - sturdy

After - fragile

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One reason why poorer families may not want to marry is because expectations for marriage are ____

High

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Wedding industrial complex:

Integration of various global industries that serve contemporary weddings

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Most heterosexuals expect the man to propose marriage reflects ____

Patriarchal power — big decision

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Who does the American Dream blame?

The individual, it’s their choice

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Culture of poverty -

Children grow up w/ values that don’t allow upward mobility, passed down generations

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Structural constraints regarding poverty -

Ppl don’t have same opportunities

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(Functionalist/ critical theory)

Culture of poverty

Structural constraints

Functionalism

Critical theory

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Which country has largest # of adult/child poverty, infant mortality?

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Welfare is seen like an ____ to some government

Entitlement

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Why is welfare not important?

Belief that “you are poor bc you don’t want it bad enough”

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Achievement of natural growth:

Parents think love, shelter, food enough for personal growth

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Concerted cultivation:

Parents cultivate cognitive and social skills

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Discipline in natural growth - (3)

- directives - physical punishment - constraints

Discipline and concerted cultivation-

-reasoning

What are 3 key dimensions of family life did Lareau say Nat. And cult. detected? (3)

1) organization of daily life 2) language 3) social connections

Cultural capital:

Status that comes from home, not personal attributes

Who defines cultural capital?

Mainstream

(Natural growth/concerted cult.) Tries to keep children in same status

Concerted cultivation

Authority and concerted cultivation among children- (2)

- ask Qs | - aren’t intimidated

Authority and achievement | Of natural growth among children - (3)

- intimidated - uncomfortable - trust them to do job

Achievement of natural grown and concerted cultivation are types of - (2)

- concept’s | - parenting styles

Advantage of concerted cultivation is Transmission of ___ __ ____

Mainstream culture capital

Advantage of achievement of natural growth - (2)

- more free time | - unstructured play

(T/F) Everyone has cultural capital but society prioritizes what’s is/isn’t important?

True

Talking and natural growth and concerted cultivation-

Natural - 1 way, talk down, directive Cultivation- discussion

Functionalism view and concerted cultivation-

- reproduces hierarchy | - some are leaders, others workers

Critical thinking and concerted cultivation-

-inequality of advantages, power, class

Before preindustrial who was main parent & who was 2nd?

1st father 2nd mother

(T/F) Industrialization created domesticity

True

Who always worked Kris’s elf home?

Poor/women of color

___ shift to primary role as parent w/ _____

Mothers Industrialization

During what century did mothers need instruction on how to parents correctly?

20th century

What did pluck argue about mothers and sons post war era?

That sons spending time w/ moms would make them homosexuals

What is motherhood and the contradictory message?

Stay at home - lazy Working - selfish, don’t spend time w/ child

(T/F) Women being childless is seen as natural if they are focused on their career

False

All child related decisions reflect/challenge/threaten ____ ___

Women’s self

What is the “mother-child bond”

-‘magical moment’ right after birth

What is now labeled as the 4th trimester?

The 1st year after birth

What kind of parenting is helicopter parenting related to?

Concerted cultivation

“Boomerang generation”:

After graduating, children moving back to live w/ parents

Parenting lasting longer is connected to ___

The economy

Work is seen as a choice for who? And who don’t?

Mothers Fathers

What is the new glass ceiling in regards to having children?

-the mommy tax

Mommy tax:

Mothers paid even less than women w/out children

Daycare is controlled in society by ____ ___

Class status

If women wants to be other w/out partner what can she do? (4)

1) adoption 2) sleep bank 3) friend/relative partner 4) co-parenting

Why are men pressured not to take paternity leave? (2)

Cultural | Structural pressures of masculinity

Mothers seen as ____ if she leaves early for children, fathers seen ____ if he does

Negative Positive

(T/F) Fatherhood pays yet motherhood is taxed How?

True Fatherhood - bumps up image/salary

Fatherhood compared to motherhood- (5)

- less books - less social attention - inequality - less single fathers than mothers - movies portray as incompetent

What is “the new father”? (3)

- active role - doing chores - daycare

What areas do fathers still avoid? (2)

1) medical app | 2) planning social activities

Is domesticity still currently alive?

Yes

What is the stalled revolution according to Hochschild?

That believes have evolved but actions haven’t

Who does the wedding industrial complex target?

Higher SES

(T/F) The wedding complex uses racial segregation and institutional racism

True

The wedding industry has ___, but marriages have ____

Tripled Decreased

Marriage penalty:

Explains contradictory relationship the working/poor have to marriage

____ no longer need to marry for financial support, but ____ not marrying bc let’s them at greater risk economically

White middle class Poor women

What does the white dress signify? (3)

- privilege - purity - Power

(T/F) Some bridal boutiques trick the costumers How

Yes - giving her a size up, has got tailor it - takes off tag

Double standard of proposing -

Man asking - patriarchal Women asking — then he’s emasculated

In the 18-19th century white women has little rights but protected thru ___

Forms of patriarchy

What was rape a weapon of - (3)

- domination - repression - make sure slave women couldn’t resist

How did reproductive labor for slave women intensify? (3)

1) double day of work 2) maintain family ties 3) raise children in hostile environment

How were minorities oppressed during 19th century ?

Africans - displaced from native land Chinese - denied “permanent” residency Mexican-Americans - colonized

What’s the double bind situation?

Between workforce and labor in home

(T/F) Motherhood single strongest predictor of bankruptcy in middle age and poverty in d age

True

Childcare and being a nanny -

-required to put someone else’s child above own

“Parenting out of control”-

Professional middle class parents want to distinguish themselves from their own parents

Consequences of parenting out of control - (2)

- controlling children | - children dependent on parents

Attachment theory:

Quality of early attachments greatly influence how we behave as adults

Secure parenting -

Child - upset when leaves, soothed quickly

Insecure anxious parenting-

Caregiver proved to be unreliable source of comfort

Insecure avoidant parenting -

Children used to be ignored -don’t care if leaves/arrive

Insecure disorganized parenting -

child’s behaviors inconsistent

Importance in working mothers and stay at home fathers depends ___ on satisfaction w/jobs than gender

(T/F) There’s ideal that single moms should stop working if unsatisfied w/ job/daycare even if fam depends on $

True

Even gay partners assign gender roles regarding ___ and ___

Household Daycare

(T/F) Men do the same amount of household and childcare as 50s and 60s

False, they do more

Childcare is ____ industry, yet costs ___

Low-profit High

Historical stages of fatherhood -(4)

1) moral overseer 2) distant breadwinner 3) sex role model 4) the new father

“Stalled revolution “-

That there’s some change between gender roles, but changes are slow

Care-chain:

A series of nurturing relationships

(T/F) Family life is a form of systematic gender subordination Why?

True Unequal/different relationships

Mommy track:

Mothers who work in company, but don’t have high rank bc of baby

Family of origin:

The family where you come from

Family of procreation:

Family you create

Complex nuclear:

Another person of hold or parents generation in the household/family

Extended family:

Consisting of 3 generations

Stem family:

The oldest son living with the parents

Blended family:

Bringing in children from other parents into home, remarriage, divorce

What was the idea behind the canon of domesticity?

To stop women from competing w/ men

Final Flashcards

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