Final

Question 1

Harvest Principle

Answer 1

Galatians 6:7-8

Question 2

Take every thought captive

Answer 2

2 Corinthians 10:3-5

Question 3

Anxiousness

Answer 3

Philippians 4:6

Question 4

Incarnating Christ in Personal Ministry

Answer 4

Colossians 3:12-17

Question 5

Listening

Answer 5

Proverbs 18:13

Question 6

Confrontation

Answer 6

Leviticus 19:18

Question 7

Forgiveness

Answer 7

Matthew 18

Question 8

Love in Biblical Counseling

Answer 8

Philippians 1:9-11

Question 9

Model For Biblical Counseling

Answer 9

Luke 10:25-27

Question 10

A Model for personal Ministry

Answer 10

Matthew 9:35-36

Question 11

Fear of Man

Answer 11

Proverbs 29:25

Question 12

Idols of the heart

Answer 12

Ezekiel 14:1-8

Question 13

Agenda setting; Say yes and no to things

Answer 13

Titus 2:11-12

Question 14

Put on put off principle

Answer 14

Ephesians 4 and Colossians 4

Question 15

Speaking truth in love

Answer 15

Ephesians 4:15

Question 16

What does “solver” stand for?

Answer 16

Squared shoulders
Open stance
Lean forward slightly 
Vocal quality 
Eye contact 
Relational posture

Question 17

What am I trying to accomplish in listening?

Answer 17

I’ve heard and understand their struggle

Question 18

What kind of data are you searching for?

Answer 18

Physical data
Resources
Emotions
Actions
Worldview
Historical data

Question 19

What are the principles in avoiding assumptions?

Answer 19

1. Ask people to define their terms
2. Ask people to clarify with concrete, real life examples
3. Ask people to explain why they responded the way they did

Question 20

What are seven ways you can show respect to the counselee?

Answer 20

1. Use proper verbal communication
2. Use proper nonverbal communication
3. Take counselee’s problems seriously
4. Believe the Counselee
5. Express confidence in counselee
6. Welcome counselee’s input
7. Maintain confidentiality

Question 21

What are the characteristics of confrontation?

Answer 21

• Characteristics
o Confrontation is rooted in the First Great Commandment
o Confrontation is rooted in the Second Great Commandment
o Confrontation does not force a person to deal with you, but places them before the Lord.

Question 22

What are the steps to confrontation?

Answer 22

o Consideration – What does this person need to see and how can I help him see it?
o Self-Examination
o Lovingly confront sin
o Lead to restoration

Question 23

Why is it necessary that we confront?

Answer 23

o The deceitfulness of sin
o Wrong and unbiblical thinking
o Emotional thinking
o My own experiences

Question 24

What is confrontation rooted in?

Answer 24

Rooted in first and second great commandment to love God and your neighbor

Question 25

What are the benefits of accountability?

Answer 25

i. It provides structure. ii. It provides guidance. iii. It provides assistance. iv. It gives encouragement. v. It is warning

Question 26

What are the four promises I make when I forgive?

Answer 26

1. I cancel the debt you owe me. 2. I will not bring up this offense again to you or use it against you. 3. I will not bring up this offense to others through gossip or use it to malign you in public or private. 4. I will not bring up the offense to myself and dwell on this offense

Question 27

What are the twin principles of forgiveness?

Answer 27

Truth and love

Question 28

What is a biblical definition of love?

Answer 28

A selfless and enduring commitment of the will to care about and benefit another person by righteous, truthful, and compassionate thoughts, words, and actions

Question 29

What are the implications of love in our personal ministry?

Answer 29

1. God has a higher goal for our relationships than our personal happiness. 2. God wants our relationships to be the context of change he works in & through us. 3. We need to build relationships that encourage this work of change. 4. We need to become better lovers in the biblical sense of the term.

Question 30

What is the four step process of biblical love?

Answer 30

Love. Know Speak. Do.

Question 31

What are the twin themes of scripture?

Answer 31

Grace and Truth

Question 32

Why is the incarnation our model in personal ministry?

Answer 32

1. It is protection for you 2. It offers a living example 3. It gives evidence of what the Lord can do 4. It keeps Christ central

Question 33

What are the four G's of peacemaking?

Answer 33

Glorify God Get the log out of your own eye Go and show your brother his fault Go and be reconciled

Question 34

What are the goals of leading?

Answer 34

The gospel i. Lead CSE to understand his real need ii. Lead CSE to true repentance iii. Lead CSE to experience freedom from sin iv. Lead CSE to commit his life to Christ v. Lead CSE to obey Christ’s commands vi. Lead CSE to grow in faith

Question 35

What are four different desires we may hold?

Answer 35

Evil Inordinate Subordinate Holy

Question 36

Why should we be interested in someone's situation?

Answer 36

1. To develop compassion toward him 2. To develop an understanding of what is functionally ruling his heart 3. To develop a wise agenda for change that matches his problem 4. To develop hope in the counselee that God is in the circumstance

Question 37

How do I identify my ruling desires?

Answer 37

1. What must I have right now in order for life to be good? 2. What do I think I need? Or what do I want? 3. What exactly is it that I am willing to break relationship with you for if I do not get it? 4. What must be in my life in order for me to be satisfied?

Question 38

What is the principle of inescapable influence?

Answer 38

Whatever rules the heart exercises inescapable influence over the person’s life and behavior.

Question 39

What is the principle of change?

Answer 39

As a person moves closer to God through His love – which includes both mercy and truth and is expressed through His word and through his Holy Spirit – he will change in the areas of thoughts, emotions, and actions.