Final (Class Notes Families -> Intimacy) Flashcards
(144 cards)
What is meant by “reciprocal socialization” with regards to families?
Bi-directional process by which parents and children influence each other.
True or False: Happily married parents are less warm, responsive, and sensitive towards their children.
False, the opposite.
What is meant by a “dyadic relationship”?
Individuals influence individuals, whose relationship influences 3rd members as well. (idk kinda confusing)
What is meant by a “phase transition” with regards to families?
A breakdown of old patterns as new patterns emerge. Ex: parenting strategies for children changing to strategies for teens.
What are the 2 “Dimensions” through which parenting is classified?
- Responsiveness (acceptance/responsiveness)
- Demandingness (Demandingness/control)
A parent who is highly responsive is more likely to _________.
Give praise, warmth, affection & encouragement. Attend to wants & concerns. Give criticism within loving context.
A parent who is highly demanding is more likely to _________.
Set rules and regulations. Keep close watch over their children.
Given the two dimensions of parenting - responsiveness and demandingness - what are the 4 “parenting styles”?
- Authoritative (responsive and demanding)
- Authoritarian (unresponsive and demanding)
- Indifferent (unresponsive and not demanding)
- Indulgent (responsive and not demanding)
A parent who is authoritative is likely to exhibit which characteristics?
Encourage independence, listen, set limits, be attentive, be accepting, and monitor behaviour.
What is the likely outcome on adolescents of authoritative parents?
They will do better in school, be more independent and self-efficacious, less anxious, less depressed, less delinquent, socially competent and responsible.
A parent who is authoritarian is likely to exhibit which characteristics?
Be restrictive and punitive, impose strict limits, exert high control with limited affection (yikes).
What is the likely outcome on adolescents of authoritarian parents?
They will be passive and dependent on instruction, have weak self-esteem and communication skills, and be less self-assured.
A parent who is indifferent is likely to exhibit which characteristics?
They will be uninvolved in their child’s life, will set no boundaries, and will not monitor behaviour.
What is the likely outcome on adolescents of indifferent parents?
They will be disinterested in school or work and more likely to engage in delinquent behaviour due to poor self-control.
A parent who is indulgent is likely to exhibit which characteristics?
Warm and responsive, highly involved, but sets few boundaries or expectations and treats their child as an equal.
What is the likely outcome on adolescents of indulgent parents?
They will be immature and lacking in self-control, irresponsible, highly influenced by friends and peers, and entitled.
How do the slides describe “traditional parenting”?
Emphasis on parental authority but with lots of warmth.
How do the slides describe “helicopter parenting”?
Overbearing and micromanaging parenting style.
What are the effects of “helicopter parenting” on adolescents?
Any of:
- Poor mental health
- Substance abuse
- low self-efficacy/dependency on parents
- low self-esteem
- no coping skills
- entitlement
In what ways can parents be likened to managers? Is this a bad thing?
Parents often:
- Find information
- Make contacts
- Help structure choices
- Provide guidance
How can parental “management” affect adolescents?
Improved attendance and achievement at school and positive social adjustment.
What are the “5 Cs” of positive youth development?
- Competence
- Confidence
- Connection
- Character
- Caring/Compassion
The “5 Cs” of positive youth development are said to produce a 6th, which is ____________.
Contribution
What do youth need in order to foster the “5 Cs” of positive youth development (3 things)?
- Positive and sustained adult relationships
- Participation in life-skill building activities
- Opportunities to be a leader in various contexts