Final Exam Flashcards
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What is trauma?
Trauma is any negative unexpected event that overwhelms, confuses, or makes you feel powerless.
Often some of life’s typical assumptions can be shattered when a trauma is experienced.
What are the 4 most common assumptions that get shattered?
- I can trust God or any higher power that aligns with your beliefs (bad things do not happen to good people, God will protect)
- I can trust others (family, spouse, friends, authorities, leaders)
- I can trust my own judgement (choices, decisions, direction)
- The world is a safe and predictable place (especially for those that pray)
What happens when life’s typical assumptions are shattered?
When these assumptions are broken it can result in grief and disorientation within oneself and in relationships. These traumas are stored in our senses and bodies not in our cognitive awareness which means they come out in our reactions or responses to events that remind us of the original experience.
These responses can sometimes be overlooked because they mimic a typical stress response that is prevalent today. Understanding how to differentiate between current life stress and embedded trauma can be difficult. For some, getting help to trace the sensation or feeling to earlier life experiences through counselling is beneficial.
It is also important to note that these responses are automatic and outside of conscious control. They are our nervous systems way of protecting us and coping with the lasting effects of the trauma.
What are common signs and symptoms of trauma?
- Exhaustion and fatigue
- Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much
- Digestive problems
- Skin problems (acne)
- Headaches, dizziness
- Heart racing, chest pain
- Lower immune system and more frequent illness
- Anxiety
- Irritability and negativity
- Changes in libido
- Loss of focus and concentration
- Depression
- Clenched jaw
- Racing heart, sweating
- Panic attacks
- High blood pressure
- Muscle tension or aching muscles
- Increased tendency to soothe using substances (alcohol, drugs, smoking, overeating, screen time, etc.)
- Disengaging from loved ones
- Loss of interest in favorite activities
- Increased emotional reactivity
- Reduced or absent emotional response
- Feel detached from their bodies
- Experience the world as unreal or dreamlike
- Have difficulty recalling specific details of the traumatic event (dissociative amnesia)
- Experience numbing
- Have a reduced awareness of one’s surroundings
What do you do after you identify a trauma?
Use the relational trauma matrix
What are 5 types of trauma?
- rejection and critcism
- humiliation and embarrassment
- deception and betrayal
- abandonment and neglect
- intentional harm and torture
What is the psychodynamic iceberg?
top of iceberg == conscious awareness (present thoughts and percpetions, current struggles
middle of iceberg == memories and stored knowledge (relational patterns)
bottom of iceberg = unconscious awareness (traumas, body memory, gut reactions/instincts – somatic)
What can you do to take clients to deeper levels of awareness in iceberg?
- querying I/C markers
- stay aware of transference and countertransference
- metacommunication can interrupt transference, flooding or cycling
What do you do in a therapy session if you are feeling stuck?
- “I’m noticing some distance”
- I wonder if you feel that too
- “I’m feeling a bit stuck right now”
- I wonder what that’s about
- work in the here and now – pull back into immediacy
What is embodied trauma?
- trauma is stored in our bodies, not in our language processing
- it is stored in unconscious processing
- it is preverbal
- it happens before we are conscious of it
- if you feel stuck, pay attention to the body
- “the body keeps the score”
How do you point out I/C markers?
- Query the actual marker
- “I notice your hand movements”
- this can make them self-conscious about their bodily movements
- “I notice your hand movements”
- query the emotion
- “I notice you are very excited when talking about this”
- “I wonder….”
- “I’m curious…”
- Get feedback, invite feedback, ask how it was
What are some basic concepts of psychoanalytic theories?
- the unconscious
- fantasy
- primary and secondary processes
- defenses
- transference
What does secure attachment look like in adults?
- positive thoughts of self
- positive thoughts of others
- high self esteem
- appropiate boundaries
- able to be vulnerable
- meaningful relationship
- comfortable with intimacy
What does ambivalent (preoccupied/anxious) attachment look like in adults?
-negative thoughts of self
- positive thoughts of others
- low self esteem
- overly concerned about tohers
- clingly
- seeks validation and approval
- wants excess intimacy
- high anxiety, low avoidance
- grasping
What does avoidant attachment (dismissive) look like for adults?
- positive thoughts of self
- negative thoughts of others
- high self esteem
- independent
- doesn’t show emotions easily
- uncomfortable with intimacy
- blaming
- avoiding closeness
-distant. critical, rigid, intolerant, frustrated - high avoidance, low anxiety
What does disorganized attachment (fearful) look like in adults?
-negative thoughts of self
negative thoughts of others
- low self esteem
- dependent
- see self as helpless
- fearful of intimacy
- expects to be hurt
- ruminating
- chaotic, explosive, abusive, untrusting
- high anxiety, high avoidance
How does a parent treat a child in secure attachment?
aligned and attuned
How does the parent treat the child in ambivalent/preoccupied/anxious attachment?
- inconsistent
How does the parent treat the child in avoidant attachment?
- unavailable or rejecting
How does parent treat the child in disorganized attachment?
- ignored
What does an existential approach to therapy look like?
An existential approach to therapy involves someone, a therapist, who is willing to walk unflinchingly with patients through life’s
deepest and most vexing problems.
Existential psychotherapy is an attitude toward human
suffering and has no manual.
It asks deep questions about the nature of the human
being and the nature of anxiety, despair, grief, loneliness, isolation, and anomie.
What are the 4 ultimate concerns according to existential therapy?
Yalom defines four categories of “ultimate concerns” that encompass these fundamental challenges of the human condition:
1. freedom,
2. isolation,
3. meaning,
4. and death.
What is freedom in existential therapy?
The term freedom in the existential sense refers to the idea that we all live in a universe without inherent design in which we are the authors of our own lives.
- Life is groundless, and we alone are responsible for our choices.
- This existential freedom carries with it terrifying responsibility
and is always connected to dread. - It is the kind of freedom people fear so much that they enlist dictators, masters, and gods to remove the burden from them.
What is isolation in existential therapy?
Individuals may be isolated from others (interpersonal isolation) or from parts of themselves (intrapersonal isolation).
- But there is a more basic form of isolation, existential
isolation, that pertains to our aloneness in the universe that remains even if assuaged
by connections to other human beings.- We enter and leave the world alone.
- While we are alive, we must always manage the tension between our wish for contact with others and our knowledge of our aloneness.
- Erich Fromm believed that isolation is the primary
source of anxiety