Final Exam Flashcards by Aaron Correll

What are the 5 components of the schedule of a youth service?

1) Fellowship time
2) Small group time
3) Worship time
4) Sermon time
5) Fun time

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What are the 6 things that your youth staff can be during during a youth service?

1) Leading songs
2) Leading teenagers in engagement in service
3) Lead small groups
4) Leading games
5) Track attendance
6) Council during invitation

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What are the 3 things that can help get teens/staff plugged in to the service?

1) Set up and tear down
2) Help serve food
3) Take out trash

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What 4 things go into preparing messages for a youth service?

1) Use Scripture as your foundation
2) Use good interpretation/explanation
3) Use good application
4) Use an invitation

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What should you do if you plan to run an invitation at the end of the youth service?

Cut the sermon

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About how long does it take to run a proper invitation?

7 minutes

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What are the 4 keys to a proper invitation?

1) Prepare ahead of time
2) Tell them what you are going to do
3) Know what you are going to ask before you ask
4) Finish your prayer with heads bowed and eyes closed

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What is the commission for evangelizing teens?

The Great Commission

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What is the content for evangelizing teens?

1) The Gospel
2) The Romans Road

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T/F You should not plan programs and events for evangelization of teens?

False, you should

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What are the 7 tips for connecting with teens?

1) Love people
2) Be authentic
3) Cultivate character
4) Represent Christ accurately
5) Pray
6) Look for people
7) Look for opportunities

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What are the 2 issues that teenagers are dealing with today that require counsel?

1) Common problems
2) Serious problems

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What are the 4 common problems that teens face?

1) Spiritual problems
2) Social problems
3) Relational problems
4) Vocational problems

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What are the 8 serious problems that teens face?

1) Teens who have become sexually active
2) Teens who get pregnant
3) Teens who contract an STD
4) Teens who attempt or commit suicide
5) Teens who run away from home
6) Teens who see their parents divorce
7) Teens who drop out of school
8) Teens who are abused in some way

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What are the 2 causes for the issues/problems that teens face?

1) Misinformed minds (2 Cor.11:3)
2) Misused Bodies (Romans 16:13)

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What % of teens have done something to hide what they were viewing online from their parents?

71%

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What % of teens have intentionally viewed pornographic content?

32%

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How much TV do children watch a day?

4.5 hours

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How much media do teens/kids consume each day on average?

10.5 hours

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How much music do teens listen to on average on day?

2 hours and 45 minutes

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What % of adult smokers began when they were in high school?

90%

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What % of American high schoolers drink alcohol at least once a month?

35%

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What % of American high schoolers have had sex?

47%

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What % of teens reported being bullied at school in the past year?

20%

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What are the 3 steps to how to counsel biblically?

1) Preparation 2) Practical counseling guidelines 3) Counseling principles

What 3 things go into the preparation for Biblical counseling?

1) Consistent Prayer 2) Consistent Bible Study 3) Consistent Love

How would we help consistent Bible study?

Create a list of topical verses

What verse goes with consistent love?

1 John 3:18

What are the 3 things that go into the practical counseling guidelines?

1) Location 2) Office guidelines 3) Communication

What are the 2 types of locations for Biblical counseling?

1) Casual location 2) Specific location

What is a casual location used for?

less serious topics

What is a specific location used for?

serious topics

What is the biggest office guideline you should have when counseling teenagers?

NEVER be alone with a teenager PERIOD!

If you can't pull someone else in the office when counseling a teenager, what should you do?

Have the door and blinds open

What 3 things go under the communication aspect of Biblical counseling?

1) Allows you time to prepare for the issue 2) Gives you a chance to pray about it ahead of time 3) ALWAYS inform parents when you counsel teens

T/F When counseling teens, you should have parents at the meeting, waiting outside the office?

True

What 3 things go into the counseling principles?

1) A plan 2) The session 3) After the session

What is the 1st counseling meeting meant to be?

Informative

What 3 things should you do in the first meeting?

1) Determine how many meetings you need 2) Limit the length of each of those sessions 3) Plan on dealing with one theme each time

What 6 things go into the session itself?

1) Set the teen at ease 2) Be a good listener 3) Get to the root of the problem 4) Use the replacement technique 5) Develop projects that will help the teen build the right habits 6) Always review what you said for clarification

T/F You should not use good questions but accusations when counseling teens?

False, use good questions

Questions build bridges, but accusations build what?

Walls

What 4 projects can you give a teen to build right habits?

1) Scripture reading 2) Scripture study 3) Scripture memorization 4) Scripture application

T/F People do not hear what you say, they hear what they want to hear?

True

T/F People do remember what you said, they don't remember what they think you said?

False

T/F People don't repeat what you said, they repeat what they think you meant?

True

What 3 things should you do after the session?

1) Set up additional appointments if necessary 2) Follow up 3) Don't change your attitude or behavior towards that teen because of the counseling

T/F A lot of sin in a teenager's life will stem from the lack of attention?

True

The root of the counseling tree is what?

WHAT YOU BELIEVE

The trunk of the tree is?

YOUR THOUGHTS

What are the 4 keys to better relationships with parents?

1) Be trustworthy 2) Be available 3) Be supportive 4) Be Genuine

T/F As a youth pastor you should not have a good reputation with Mom/Dad?

False, you should

What 3 things help develop your relationship with teens' parents?

1) Fellowship 2) Communication 3) Visits

What 2 things help you be available to parents?

1) Parents need to know that in a moment of crises, you will be there 2) Parents need to know that you can offer counsel for spiritual needs

What 3 things help you be supportive of parents?

1) Parents are responsible for raising their children 2) You are supporting them, not replacing them 3) Provide parents with resources for their teens

What 3 things help you be genuine to parents?

1) Spirituality (1 Cor. 11:1) 2) Compassionate (1 Cor. 13) 3) Commitments (1 Cor. 4)

What are the 7 tips for having a successful pastor and youth pastor relationship?

1) Unified vision 2) Open communication 3) Do your job 4) Involve your leadership 5) Support your leadership 6) Do NOT have unreasonable expectations 7) DO the right thing

What does unified vision mean?

He leads; you follow

What does open communication?

It starts with you

What does do you job mean?

Do not leave things undone

What does involve your leadership mean?

Find a way to make pastor to look great

What does support your leadership mean?

Always speak positive of your pastor

What does not having unreasonable expectations mean?

He is HUMAN

What does doing the right thing mean?

1) Admit when you make mistakes 2) Just do the right thing

T/F Verse references are far more important than content?

True

What are the 2 things you shouldn't do in an invitation?

1) Don't cause doubt 2) Don't hold the invitation forever

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