Horney Flashcards

(30 cards)

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“Neurotics are not content to merely make a few alterations; nothing short of complete perfection is acceptable. They try to achieve perfection by erecting a complex set of “shoulds” and “should nots.””
what is this?

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Tyranny of the Should

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“Men who subdue and rule women and women who degrade or envy men do so because of the neurotic competitiveness that is rampant in many societies.” what is this?

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Feminine Psychology

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This strategy is an expression of needs for privacy, independence, and self-sufficiency.

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Moving Away (Detachment)

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4.Power
5.Exploitation
6.Recognition and unassailability
7.Personal Admiration
8.Personal Achievement

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AGAINST PEOPLE: ( Aggressive Personality, protection against hostility of others )

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Neurotics may submit themselves either to people or to institutions such as an organization or a religion.

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Submissiveness/ Being Submissive

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Repressed hostility then leads to profound feelings of insecurity and a vague sense of apprehension

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Basic Anxiety

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which might be expressed as belittling, disparaging, doubting, discrediting, and ridiculing oneself.

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Self Contempt

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1.Affection and Approval
2.Powerful Partner
3.Narrow Limits to Life

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TOWARD PEOPLE: (Compliant Personality, feeling of helplessness )

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when aggressive people take for granted that everyone is hostile. These people move against others by appearing tough or ruthless.

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Moving Against (Aggressive)

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is a defense against the real or imagined hostility of others and takes the form of a tendency to dominate others.

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Power/ Attaining Power

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Overeating, abusing alcohol and other drugs, working too hard, driving recklessly, and suicide are common expressions of _________

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Self Destructive Actions

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is an attempt to solve conflicts by painting a godlike picture of oneself.

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Idealized Self Image

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a child develops this when parents do not satisfy the child’s needs for safety and satisfaction.

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Basic Hostility

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refers to a neurotic need to protect oneself against feelings of helplessness.

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Moving Toward (compliant)

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9.Self-sufficiency and independence
10.Perfection and prestige

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AWAY FROM PEOPLE: ( Detached Personality, feelings of isolation )

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Also referred to as “ morbid dependency “

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Moving Toward

17
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refers to the drive to mold the whole personality into the idealized self.

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Need for Perfection

18
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when people’s main intention is to inflict harm or suffering on themselves.

19
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a protection against humiliation and is expressed as a tendency to humiliate others

20
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a feeling of being isolated and helpless in a world conceived as potentially hostile.

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Basic Anxiety

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Neurotics frequently protect themselves against basic anxiety either by developing an independence from others or by becoming emotionally detached from them.

22
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refers to the compulsive drive toward superiority.

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Need for Ambition

23
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Believing that something is wrong with the outside world, they proclaim that they are special and therefore entitled to be treated in accordance with their idealized view of themselves.

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Neurotic Claims

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This stems from self-hatred and is designed to actualize an inflated self-image. Neurotics are frequently shackled by taboos against enjoyment.

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Self Frustration

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This may take a variety of forms—from obviously grandiose expressions, such as taking responsibility for natural disasters, to scrupulously questioning the virtue of their own motivations.
Merciless Self Accusation
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is an interrelated yet equally irrational and powerful tendency to despise one’s real self.
Self Hatred
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acts as a buffer against destitution and poverty and manifests itself as a tendency to deprive others.
Possession
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the most destructive element of all. “its chief aim is to put others to shame or defeat them through one’s very success; or to attain the power to inflict suffering on"
Drive Toward a Vindictive Triumph
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a strategy that does not always lead to authentic love. (try to purchase love with self-effacing compliance, material goods, or sexual favors.)
Affection/Securing Affection
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a false pride based not on a realistic view of the true self but on a spurious image of the idealized self.
Neurotic Pride