Important Terms Flashcards
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a motivation to bond with others in relationships that provide ongoing, positive interactions
Need to Belong
act of excluding or ignoring someone from a group or society as a form of social control or social rejection
Ostracism
a form of emotional abuse that leads people to feel deflated and stressed
Silent treatment
geographical nearness or functional distance that powerfully predicts liking
Proximity
tendency for novel stimuli to be liked more or rated more positively after the rater has been repeatedly exposed to them
Mere Exposure
the tendency for men and women to choose as partners those who are a good match in attractiveness and other traits
Matching Phenomenon
presumption that physically attractive people possess other socially desirable traits as well what is beautiful is good
Physical-Attractiveness Stereotype
whatever the people of any given place and time find attractive
Attractiveness
tends to make us see those we like as being like us
False Consensus Bias
popularly supposed tendency, for each to complete what is missing in the other
Complementary
the use of strategies such as flattery by which people seek to gain another’s favor
Ingratiation
theory that we like those whose behavior is rewarding to us or whom we associate with rewarding events
Reward Theory of Attraction
consist of three components: passion, intimacy, commitment
Love
the closeness each partner feels to the other and the strength of the bond that binds them together,
Intimacy
based on romantic feelings, physical attraction, and sexual intimacy with the partner
Passion
represents cognitive factors such as acknowledging that one is in love and committed to maintaining the relationship
Commitment
emotional, exciting and intense
Passionate Love
affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined
Companionate Love
powerful survival impulse, deep connection that provides security, comfort, and a sense of belonging
Attachment
attachment rooted in trust and intimacy
Secure attachment
attachments marked by discomfort over, or resistance to being close to others
Avoidant Attachment
attachment marked by anxiety or ambivalence
Anxious attachment
condition in which the outcomes people receive from a relationship are proportional to what they contribute to it
Equity
revealing intimate aspects of oneself to others
Self-disclosure