L4 Attachment, mentalization and epistemic trust Flashcards
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Overview of a lecture
- The story of Manon and Julia
- The interpersonal approach to personality
- Intentionality and mentalization
- Epistemic trust
The story of Manon and Julia
slides 4-9 in personality disorders file on my computer
Observations from the story
- Theoutcomesforeachchildaremarkedlydifferenteven thoughtheyaretwins(monozygoticordizygotic?)
- In the absence of parental support children find ways to take care of themselves and each other - and of their parents (parentification)
- This is certainly not simply a story of an individual with a disorder – it is a system where disordered behaviours are part of the system
- Neither is it simply a story of ‘blame the parent’; it’s also a story of very young parents who have not been cared for themselves - and of a society that did not sufficiently care
- In terms of emotion regulation an absence of well-regulated, reflected, ‘mentalized’ emotions seems to occur in both twins
- In one of themunderregulated, overwhelming emotions dominate. In the other overregulation and staying away from emotions - All of this gets into the personalities Julia and Manon would present in therapy when they seek help
Definitions of perosnality
- Harry Stack Sullivan (1953; father of the interpersonal approach to personality): “Personality involves the relatively enduring pattern of recurrent interpersonal situations which characterize a human life.”
- Gordon Allport (1961): “Personality isthe dynamic organization within the individual of those psychophysical systems that determine his characteristic behavior and thought.”
- Raymond Cattell (1965): “Personality is that which permits a prediction of what a person will do in a given situation.” (purely about oredictive relationships - most psychology focuses on this - Arjen doesn’t agree with this - mechanisms and certain ways people are produced have to be part of personality)
- Dan McAdams (2012): “Personality encompasses key individual traits and values that are situated in the diverse layers of dispositional traits […], characteristic adaptations […] and life narratives.” (it’s a dynamic perspective, with multiple layers and a growth of multiple layers that is set into stable patterns over time)
His (pragmatic) definition of personality
- Integrate multiple definitions and systems
- Ideas and storiesabout personality areconcerned with the question: “Who are you and what makes you different from others?”
- Thinking about this doesn’t start in science, rather in our upbringing and culture
- But personality science is also important part of this definition
What is personality science concerned with?
- observing and explaining
- patterns in experiencing of and interacting with self, world and others
- that show pervasiveness over situations
- and persistence over time
- and that distinguish oneperson from others
Note to his definition
- Whether these patterns can in the end be attributed to an individual or must be viewed as resulting from broader systemic involvement of the individual in context, groups, society, etc. is an empirical rather than conceptual question
- His definition focuses on the patterns as we can observe them and try to explain them
- '’Are the ongoing patterns that Julia and Manon show part of single person dynamic or part of contextual dynamic?
- Both of these parts are important
How can we understand all the different concepts when contrasting them from the perspective of pervasiveness/persistance (1) and the perspective of individual differences (2) that are produced by the mechanisms together?
- Traits - Stability over time and aggregation over situations / Variation in OCEAN traits, etc
- Narratives - Memory structures and authorship by the person, also show stability and consistency over time / Codeable differences in themes, structure, plotlines, etc. between persons
- Basic emotional systems - Inborn systems that persist and develop over life / Inborn genetic differences in sensitvity of systems, learned differences in activation pattern, etc.
- Forms of vitality and repeated patterns of self-with-other - Repeated patterns of being with an other are stored in bodily memory and can be reactivated later in time (generalise over situations and persist over time) / Typical types of repeated interactions and self-other-experiences will provide a person-specific dynamic profile (some person is confronted with overemotional unregulated states every week, like julia and some other person will have a pattern where they stay away from emotional states from repeated interactions of not wanting ot be overwhelmed, due to this it will be very difficult to form intimate relationships with others)
- Self as agent - The person will develop certain goals and values that persist through life and guide action / Values and goals appears as consistent and stable individual differences
So what can we take away from conceptualizing it this way?
We can do this with any concept within the realm of personality and we will see that developmental patterns in developmental psychology and personality differences in personality psychology covary together and they’re not too different psychologies
How to think about personality as it appears in clinical practice?
- It’s a transition from personality theory to how personality appears in the realm of personality problems
- Useful way to think about it is to have an interpersonal model of personality dynamics as the basis for working with personality in the clinical practice
How did the interpersonal model of persobality dynamics come about?
- Starts from a critique on personality problems as categorical problems (DSM-5) - while we still use this for pragmatic reasons (insurance, easier communication…), there is some concensus in the scientific field that this is not an adequate description of personality problems
- More sound way is an alternative model of looking at personality problems as traits - traits are discriptives as they look at covariation however that’s not giving any explanations
- So it’s better to look at personality problems as dynamics (e.g. network) and the interpersonal model of personality dynamics think about personality problems this way
What is the interpersonal field in the interpersonal model of personality dynamics?
- !Exam: Remember the basic schema of the interpersonal field, no need to understand what is in the 5 circles (Picture 1)
- There are two systems occuring at the same time - self system and affect system
- The self system (very complex) - both agentic and communal striving of an individual which interact with how that person is regulating him or herself (e.g. at a certain moment I’m feeling related/unrelated to the other persons, i.e. my communal representation with another person) and this will heavily affect what kind of affects (affect system), both in content (do I feel safe or not) and in arousal patterns that we have
- E.g. You build up a narcissistic self system, if there are signals from the environment that threaten that (you’re not as important), it will affect you, your feelings of understanding yourself and that can trigger you getting vulnerable and might result in narcissistic rage
- The same goes on in the other person
- In between the self and other is perception and behaviour - you give off some signals to the other and those are gonna be interpreted in a certain way by them so you get a dynamic interaction
How can we use this in thinking of personality problems in terms of changing them through therapy?
Picture 2
- Therapy starts with someone presenting with persistent, pervasive and problematic patterns and these are both at the level of self system and regulation of one self and problems in relating to others (how other percieve, feel…)
- That pattern can be present in the first therapy session from the beggining
- How will the therapist manage that?
- What is unlikely to happen are sudden changes between session 1 and 2 so what we can expect however, that those patterns will be weaker from session to session
- The hope for change (the small chances that one session will change something in new situations) is indicated by the green arrows - so you might start to feel not as threatened by the situation for example - slow process (as the pattern has been build up over the whole life that’s why schema therapy takes 2 years usually) - within therapy small changes can happen
Example: Early maladaptive schema and the interpersonal field
- Defectiveness/shame: belief that one is defective, bad, unwanted, inferior, or unworthy
- This includes the fear of being exposed to significant others, accompanied by hypersensitivity to criticism, rejection, and blame
- Early maladaptive schema: engrained patters how you are yourself with others and it will as a pattern heavily influence the whole interpersonal field as it gets changed in new interpersonal situations
- Changes: very defensive at the beggining of a the first session which might (through interventions and therapist’s directness/situation clarification) decrease to less defensiveness; however this will not immediately change outside of the therapy session
- So we need a lot of new experiences, new interactions in order to have pervasive change to personality
Intentionality and mentalization
What is the self as an agent?
Picture 3
What is step 1 in the two step model by Thomson?
- Humans have developed very strong skills for collaborating with each other
- Crucial in this is the strong tendency of already very young children towards joint intentionality (what we’ll talk about)
- Humans have a great capacity for shared goals and shared mental states (intersubjectivity)
- Within this context shared meanings and shared stories can come into existence
- !Humans are from birth particularly attuned to sharing mental states with other humans
What is intentionality (aboutness)?
- Introduced into psychology by Franz Brentano (1874) as the mark of mental phenomena
- That is: mental phenomena are about something, i.e. intended at something
- Its not yet a goal, it’s not simply behaviour, it’s behaviour that is caused by something that is about something (arjen huh?)
What did Dennett say?
- Picture 4
- Rather than just predicting (e.g. if I drop a stone, it will fall), there is no intentional explanation in the stone dropping to the ground (did eli have this in her lecture cause I don’t get it - chatgpt: the quote is how we use intentionality in reasoning about agents)
- Dennett’s quote explains how to predict behavior by adopting the intentional stance: treating the agent as rational, attributing beliefs and desires, and using those to forecast actions
What is the example of the stone?
- Dualities = ‘immediatenon reflexiveaction-reaction’
1) stimulus -> response
2) cause -> effect
3) action -> reaction - we don’t reason there being some kind of intention or subject in between there
- When intentionality and later mentalization enters the stage, we go from action to response via intention or meaning
- When a child is growing up, the possibility to attribute intentions to the actions of others and myself slowly develops
Example: a relational dynamic
- One partner sits at dinner with an angry face (action) -> the other eats quick and silent and leaves the house (reaction) - no intention
- In intentional reasoning dynamic, we get to the single question that sitting at a dinner with an angry face has to have some kind of meaning - intention: ‘‘What is she angry about?’’
- I’m gonna interpret all of the signals and signs as signifying some kind of mental state that my partner is in and then my reaction will be dependent on that
What is mentalization?
- This capability to look at a mirror face and not just mirror it = mentalizing (mirroring doesn’t include any intentionality as there is no looking for meaning)
- The fact that there is something behind that angry face is something we learned in development
- Our way we learn mentalizing and our capacity to do it differs between people
- Mentalizationis an umbrella concept referringto:
1) the movement from a dualistic (action-reaction)to a triadic perspective (action-intention-reaction)
2) The introduction of ‘the intentional stance
3) The process of learning and applying a ‘theory of mind’ - slowly developing in children, independently of language so can observe it very early on (first we develop intentionality and then that is a building block for understanding language because sounds in language are signifying something) - Psychologists are professional mentalizers - they try to understand where things are coming from, try to put intentionality into mental schemas
What is the basic model of mentalization?
Picture 5
- At first, there is parental attachment and then the parent is trying to mentalize to understand what the child means when they’re for example crying and when the parent voices this (e.g. you’re crying because you’re angry at me that I took away your bike since you were doing dangerous things with it)
- Through this, the child learns about themselves and learns what mentalizing is about
- The early parental attachment will influence infant attachment - and that will go into the child’s mentalizing ability
- Over time, problems can transfer from generation to generation (e.g. in the story of julia and manon, the mother had very poor mentalizing skills when manon was 5 y.o since she became depressed so she gave very poor mentalizing skills to her children)
Is attachment of a child fixed after age of 3 or 4 years?
- Nothing in this schema is determined - the data shows there is no evidence to think that the attachment style is fixed after 3 or 4 years old; even though the early age is crucial at determining the attachment style, the interactions and environment (also therapy) the child will continue to grow up in play a significant role in this
- Also mentalizing can be learned - by repeated mentalizing people can learn - there is no stage where people can’t change attachment style or learn to mentalize