Law 3: The Law of Mirror

Question 1

What is one of the main reasons many people fail to grow?

Answer 1

Low self-esteem. Many people do not believe in themselves.

Question 2

Nathaniel Branden, a psychiatrist and expert on the subject of self-esteem.

Question 3

Irrefutable (adj)

Answer 3

impossible to deny or disprove

Ex: “irrefutable evidence”

Question 4

Why shouldn’t you become too concerned about what others might think of you?

Answer 4

You should be more concerned about what you think of yourself.

Question 5

Strategies to build your self esteem:

Question 6

Strategy 1: Watch the things you say to yourself. Why?

Answer 6

Because you will start to believe these things.

Question 7

Strategy 2: Stop comparing yourself to others. Why?

Answer 7

Either you perceive the other person to be far ahead of you and you feel discouraged, or you perceive yourself to be better than the other person, and you become proud. The only person you should compare yourself to is yourself.

Question 8

What should your daily mission be?

Answer 8

Become better today than you were yesterday.

Question 9

Strategy 3: Don’t have any limiting beliefs.

Answer 9

Don’t put any limitations on yourself. The greatest limitations people experience in their lives are usually the ones they impose upon themselves.

Question 10

Agnostic (N)

Answer 10

a person who denies or doubts the possibility of ultimate knowledge in some area of study.

Question 11

When a man has put a limit on what he will do, he has put a limit on what he can do.

Question 12

It isn’t what you are that holds you back; it’s what you think you’re not.

Question 13

Inordinate (Adj)

Answer 13

Unusually large

Ex: A case that had taken up an inordinate amount of time.

Question 14

Strategy 4: Add value to others. Why?

Answer 14

Adding value to others makes them value you more. It creates a cycle of positive feelings from one person to another.

Question 15

Strategy 5: Do the Right Thing, Even If It’s the Hard Thing To Do. How does this build self esteem?

Answer 15

You simply didn’t take the easy route.

Question 16

My core values:

Answer 16

• Humor
• Respect
• Responsibility
• Bravery
• Authenticity
• Balance
• Kindness
• Learning
• Peace

Tbc….

Question 17

Strategy 6: Practice a Small Discipline Daily. Why?

Answer 17

Creates momentum.

Question 18

Fret (V)

Answer 18

To be constantly or visibly worried.

Ex: She fretted about the cost of groceries.

Question 19

Morale (N)

Answer 19

the mental and emotional condition (as of enthusiasm or spirit) of someone with regard to a goal to be accomplished.

Question 20

Strategy 7: Celebrate all victories. Why?

Answer 20

You can lose passion for something if you don’t cherish these moments.

Question 21

Apathetic (Adj)

Answer 21

Showing or feeling no interest, enthusiasm, or concern.

Question 22

Aspire

Answer 22

“Yearn for” “desire to”

Question 23

Strategy 8. Practice the one word strategy. Why?

Answer 23

Because it tells you a lot about how you think about yourself.

Question 24

Strategy 10: Take responsibility for your life. Why?

Answer 24

If we don’t have a plan and purpose for our lives, we will become part of someone else’s!

Question 25

We tend to get in life what we are willing to tolerate. If we allow others to disrespect us, we get disrespected

Question 26

What is a limiting belief?

Answer 26

A limiting belief is a state of mind or conviction you think to be true that limits you in some way.